I myself question Pragya on various decisions she took for herself in her marriage with Abhi. But I just want to discuss one thing here- her stand on RaBul.
When Pragya married Abhi, she just knew BB was in love with Purab who was her employer. It's on the second day of her wedding, she realizes Purab was engaged to Aaliyah and had betrayed her and Abhi because of BB. That itself takes away a lot of credibility for Purab- then, how does Pragya believe Purab is right for BB?I don't agree on this, that Pragya was not having credibility on Purab, that he is not right for Bulbul, first of all if he is not right for Bulbul, then not for the daughter of MM too. Secondly I guess if after Bulbul, anybody knew at that time, how much Purab loves Bulbul, that was Pragya only. Pragya do believe that all this sacrifice Purab was doing of getting married to Alia, was because of Bulbul only. They both have talked during the period between AbhiGya wedding & Purab Alia wedding, Puarb told Pragya his inner feelings, that he wants Bulbul to marry someone, with whom she can stay happy, in her happiness, lies his. His own life doesn't matters much now. Pragya was shown touched by his words. Not even this, whole hospital fiasco, day before wedding, Purab's emotional outburst in front of Pragya only, you mean to say couldn't prove extent of his love for Bulbul.If she couldn't get belief on Purab for her sister, then how is she so much betting on Akash, who toh two times he has betrayed Rachna in more filthiest manner than Purab. Akash has actually harmed Pragya but Puab never intentionally did something purposely to harm Bulbul. His one drunk speech, proved his love in front of Pragya, then Purab's love was very very much visible in front of her.Later BB and Purab realize what has happened due to their love affair and in order to make up for it, BB separates from Purab. Purab should have taken full responsibility to help out Pragya and show Abhi his blunder, nevertheless BB tries to control the damage.Pragya does ask BB and Purab to think over their decision, but how can Pragya really ship RaBul when she knows Aaliyah was promised by Purab?Here in current situation also, there is a promise made by Akash to a girl, that he will marry her. In whatever way you see, a girl is left there on altar, just because she is a mere side kick, her feelings are not shown, that doesn't mean she is not hurt. If Pragya knew Purab promised Alia of wedding, she very well came to know this thing from Abhi-Alia-Purab that now Purab in a way betrayed his friend by rejecting his sister for her sisiter. Purab stood for Bulbul, leaving behind everything, he can be said wrong for Alia, but not for Bulbul.And if more reasons of shipping them are needed, she very well knew how much her sister was suffering in all this, on engagement day of Purab Alia, she was the one who saw those tears, those sufferings from which Bulbul was going through. In private also, if anyone was there in front of whom Bulbul ever expressed that time was Pragya only. She told her, that when she closes eyes, it seems perfect with her love, when she opens, a reality, where her love has gone.Pragya used to say at that time, that the pain she suffered due to rejection of Suresh, that her love can't be in her life, she never wanted Bulbul to go through it. But when Bulbul was in that deep pain, she actually did nothing.Again, during Puliyah wedding fiasco, it's very immature and inconsiderate of Purab towards the Mehras to run away from the mantap and even try to marry BB the very same day. BB didn't really want to marry Purab either at that point. Pragya stops them because how can she allow one girl's home built (BB's) while another one's dreams were just burnt (Aalu's)? And Purab had decided to marry Aalu and Pragya even asks him to stay on one side at some point, but Purab shows his indecisiveness again. I don't think Pragya should have told RaBul to elope and marry while Sarla Maa would cry to heart attack and the Mehras (her husband's home) were shamed! Nor did BB want something like that.Exactly same thing is happening here, one girl's (Racna) home built, while another one's dreams burnt (Sudha). If she can let happen these things here, then why not there? Here also girl's family is going through same shame which Mehra's might have got there. Sarla maa,she got heart attack in both the cases, whether Bulbul married Purab or not, the fact Purab loves Bulbul and not Pragya's sister in law, was enough for her to get heart attack. Rather here she is more vulnerable to second heart attack, if she gets to know what all Pragya is doing in terms of disrespecting her family, daadi like this. I am not getting why Pragya is not thinking about her mother at all here. At those two situations in terms of family reputation differs. And on the name of family reputation, lives are not turned into hell. So many times Mehra's family reputation was thrashed into pieces by Pragya herself, when she stood against them for Rachna on national television, Raj is in jail, rockstar himself has seen jail so many times. If then family reputation can be put on stake, then why not for Bulbul, why she is taken granted, or why everything is kept above her happiness?But in due course Pragya and Abhi realize Aaliyah's love had turned into an obsession and it's at that point Abhi figures of BB's love for Purab was way more deserving than Aalu's. And he sets up RaBul marriage. I don't think it would have looked right in the bigger picture if Pragya had gotten RaBul married or they themselves married. The Mehras needed to let Purab go because he had wronged them not once but twice. And Abhi takes that decision on behalf of Aaliyah.I don't care about BIG picture, on the show nothing is good on that frame, you can see neither Pragya falling in love with Abhi,as she being an educationist falling for a man who harassed her rather than standing against him, Rachna getting married to Akash, that guy left her two times, used her, insulted her family, on big picture single independent mother taking care of all sounds better. Here also if RaBul would have got married that time, fine for a coursewhile, they might have faced family dejection (which they faced even after not getting married, both Arora's and Mehra's almost disowned them, they were just left alone). During MMS track, they by helping Pragya could have got redemption in front of families, people would have understood their love and accept them too , things would have proceeded, and looked as good as they are now in other two couples life also.I do not agree with Pragya making Rachna-Aakash married without telling the Mehras or Srivastavas either, but that's a different matter since she has her own motives too at some level.
That's the thing, she has her own motive here too, that's why I use term selfishly selfless, here her other own motive is giving her power to stand, there it was only RaBul , for which I was not at all able to see this strong, daredevil, fake Pragya.I do disagree with various actions of Pragya for herself but not RaBul.I still think, she takes RaBul most for granted, in a way they come in her life, provide her support at her worst times when nobody is standing with her, and then they leave. She may feel bad for them , but saddest part is do nothing for them. if not for anyone else, then altleat she could keep these two abovery Alia and Tanu, her deeds are pleasing towards the vamps or wrongdoers, which she herself knows rather than the love birds.
Originally posted by: harisha_kb
I have a doubt ...
Is rAbul only to make up Abhigya ..
They met and fell in love that paved way to abhigya marriage ..
After that purab and bulbul got seperated for them..
Worked together for them ..
They did so many things for them ... Abhigya story is so much related to them ..
Now that abhi and pragya is in love with each other .. Rabul is needed for them..
Finally what I want to say is no characters in the show are stable everyone are used by cvs to move the track the way the want
Originally posted by: harisha_kb
It's all complicated friends..
Purab bulbul abhi pragya Aaliya
All these 5 are responsible for the havoc...I don't wnat to blame any single person..
Nobody did what they have to do ..
I don't think purab running away is a mistake but I wish he would have told abt AaliyA to bb..
I wish abhi would have talked to purab before hitting him...
I wish pragya dint bear abhi and Aaliya torture for any reasons...
I wish bb tell abhi about their affair ...
So many other things too...
Please don't think in a single person pov..
All 4 characters of the show are good in their own ways and have done some mistakes ...
Regarding pragya considering abhi more than her sister.. Remember purab also considered bb above everybody including abhi who was his childhood friend..
Purab and pragya are the same .. They are completly lost in love and want to do anything for their love..
That may make them look stupid or selfish but they are not..
Other than things about their love they are smart and sensible ..
Originally posted by: RabulLover
Hey Ritzeeπ
Amazing Post πEven I have the same complaint from Pragya, that why she never takes stand for her sister's love, why she always takes her for granted πWhen Pragya was getting Aakash Rachna married, I was everytime just cursing her for not let being RaBul married in mandir π‘, for stopping their marriage and now getting these two married like this, with exact your same reason, there is a bride seated behind again in MM, why you have no worries about her now, why no worries about Sarla maa now, why all your lame worries come for RaBul onlyThis mandir scene bruised my old memories of RaBul getting married there back in temple only, how amazing it would have been now, that was about six months back, and look till now they are not married πI completely agree with your each and everything ππΌOne person who will be always blamed behind RaBul not been able to get married will always be Bulbul's real sister Pragya herself , can't forgive her for this ever π₯±
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