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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dadisa is moving from helping Anandi rebuild her life which she thinks is her duty and responsibbility to indulging herself in her fantasies of seeing Anandi and Jagya together and is using any which means that come her way.
It is better that Anandi put a stop to all this ASAP.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Dadisa is moving from helping Anandi rebuild her life which she thinks is her duty and responsibbility to indulging herself in her fantasies of seeing Anandi and Jagya together and is using any which means that come her way.

It is better that Anandi put a stop to all this ASAP.


The time when DadiSa was pressurising Anandi to break-off her engagement with Shiv and get back to Jagya, it was Bhairon who came to her rescue and told his mother off in no uncertain terms.

Then when Shiv and Jagya were playing passing the parcel using Anandi as the parcel, Anandi burst out and told all of them off.

Let us see what happens this time. Will Anandi once again come to her own rescue.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Dadisa is moving from helping Anandi rebuild her life which she thinks is her duty and responsibbility to indulging herself in her fantasies of seeing Anandi and Jagya together and is using any which means that come her way.

It is better that Anandi put a stop to all this ASAP.


They may show Anandi trying but that is not going to happen. Effect of Bal Vivah
Posted: 9 years ago
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Dadisa is a control.frak and selfish woman. She always wants to drag into her home affairs and keep her tied to jagya.
She is 80 let her die now and get list.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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DadiSa wanted to keep it a secret. She did not involve anyone. And at the function she was so pleased about it.

She was like a little child chortling with pleasure that she managed to outwit Jagya and Anandi.😆

Whether or not she knew how Ganga would feel, Ganga is a strong, professional woman who has been living with DadiSa for over 13 years now. She should understand DadiSa and not feel bad about it.

This was a mass child marriage that was announced. This was why Jagya must have felt compelled to go. Else he could have just sent the police.

Plus no MLA will lose the opportunity for a photo-op.😉



So many ppl at the venue knew it, then what secret? Why can't she keep ganga informed!! Also some members pointed out that akhayeej is the day jaan child marriage happened or something.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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DS was once a hard hearted woman. She would deliberately hurt and trouble her daughter in laws and grand daughter in law's just to satisfy her ego. She could get one of her dil raped... and could give strangest punishments to her kid grand dil etc etc. So after seeing all this, now what she did to her present grand dil  , appears like a very very minute mistake(not even intended) to me. 
But again this present grand dil seems to be making big issues out of nothing even when it comes to Her husband who's done so much for her... so I don't have hope that she'll take this easy. 
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.

DS was once a hard hearted woman. She would deliberately hurt and trouble her daughter in laws and grand daughter in law's just to satisfy her ego. She could get one of her dil raped... and could give strangest punishments to her kid grand dil etc etc. So after seeing all this, now what she did to her present grand dil  , appears like a very very minute mistake(not even intended) to me. 

But again this present grand dil seems to be making big issues out of nothing even when it comes to Her husband who's done so much for her... so I don't have hope that she'll take this easy. 

 
 
No normal woman took take this easily. Just because Ganga was a refugee earlier, she need not forever be only dutiful bahu/Wife without expectations. Its about rights and alienation here. DS by not informing Ganga alienated her. DS is a very experienced woman, not an inexperienced one to have bachpana as an excuse, specially when she can see Ganga not being happy these days. DS excluded ganga from a happy occasion where husband is getting felicitated and she is not even informed about it.
 
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sunna_Deewani

 
 
No normal woman took take this easily. Just because Ganga was a refugee earlier, she need not forever be only dutiful bahu/Wife without expectations. Its about rights and alienation here. DS by not informing Ganga alienated her. DS is a very experienced woman, not an inexperienced one to have bachpana as an excuse, specially when she can see Ganga not being happy these days. DS excluded ganga from a happy occasion where husband is getting felicitated and she is not even informed about it.
 

Even if exclude this Ganga is not happy these days still she deserve to know about this since in this Dadisaa was involved She helped villagers in this so i really don't understand how can she forget about Ganga  How can Dadisaa leave Ganga out ? why Ganga is always expected to be a dutiful bahu but Dadisaa cannot be a dutiful grand mother in law ? 
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Posted: 9 years ago
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         DS could have informed G , perhaps she might have thought that G could not keep surprise from J so did not tell her. What a big deal about it ? As MLA J might get felicitated every now and then for his good work by some small institution or other and same with social worker A .Do they first informed G every time about it ? It was not a felicitation by state or national level which could be matter of great pride for family and they should be aware of that. Or they or DS should have informed G necessarily coz both of them felicitated together? If it would have A or J's felicitation alone , no one would have been complaining here.

    As for G's expectation , with marrying J she was well aware that she is getting into what . She had first hand knowledge of J's helping nature ( he can go to any length to help someone whom he think appropriate for his help with out caring for opinions of her mother and would be wife ) . She was quite aware of Singh's and DS's relationship with A, A's position in BH and also her interfering nature( as called by few/many) . Her expectations should have been regulated by her knowledge of facts and nature of ppl involved. A, DS and J, all are behaving liked they behaved from start , only difference is that earlier it was suiting G and now it is not. 

  And if DS would not have been a dutiful grand mom in law , Mrs Ganga Singh would not have become Dr Ganga Singh with two young kids at toes. 
     
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshurg5

         DS could have informed G , perhaps she might have thought that G could not keep surprise from J so did not tell her. What a big deal about it ? As MLA J might get felicitated every now and then for his good work by some small institution or other and same with social worker A .Do they first informed G every time about it ? It was not a felicitation by state or national level which could be matter of great pride for family and they should be aware of that. Or they or DS should have informed G necessarily coz both of them felicitated together? If it would have A or J's felicitation alone , no one would have been complaining here.

    As for G's expectation , with marrying J she was well aware that she is getting into what . She had first hand knowledge of J's helping nature ( he can go to any length to help someone whom he think appropriate for his help with out caring for opinions of her mother and would be wife ) . She was quite aware of Singh's and DS's relationship with A, A's position in BH and also her interfering nature( as called by few/many) . Her expectations should have been regulated by her knowledge of facts and nature of ppl involved. A, DS and J, all are behaving liked they behaved from start , only difference is that earlier it was suiting G and now it is not. 

  And if DS would not have been a dutiful grand mom in law , Mrs Ganga Singh would not have become Dr Ganga Singh with two young kids at toes. 
     

I think you are totally misunderstanding the point No one is asking Ganga needs to be informed every time about Jagya  getting felicitated everywhere neither he needs to take her everywhere neither thats the issue  but what people are simply saying behind this plan there was a family member  The elder of the family why she is justified in it for not  informing Ganga about it ? No DS is not behaving like before Previously she always she involved Ganga for any such thing this time she did not  
The villagers came and informed Dadisaa Discussed with her Dadisaa planned with them Since Dadisaa was involved in it too so it became a bit family program too since Dadisaa was involved in it so what wrong  would have happened if she would have informed Ganga about it as well ? I really don't understand how Dadisaa is justified for it and how Ganga became all wrong if she feels hurt at it Dadisaa was planning this all the while and did not tell her and this defense system of Dadisaa perhaps  Dadisaa must have thought Ganga cannot hold it then how she held this suspense in all past  for her all such plans ? hmmm?


Edited by faryal-malik - 9 years ago