Ankur and Ankita are not fit parents to have kids

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Posted: 10 years ago
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They are not fit parents
1 Ankur got married Sandhya for his own selfish reasons when he got the responsibility of sandhya after their parents death.In a way he was the father figure for her. How will he take right decisions for Sandy baby.
2 they are not able to discipline bulbul and tell her what is wrong and right.
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3 Truly speaking he is the mama of the babies how can he separate them from their parents injustice to new borns

This is my first post forgive for any mistake just got irritated seeing this baby donation drama so wrote it down

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Posted: 10 years ago
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You are right even if it is your first post. It is a gross injustice to separate twin babies. Twin babies share a common womb from the moment they conceive, history shows that two babies share the same feelings, same physical symptoms, same illness and the list is countless. There are incidents that shows if a twin suffers pain the other one gets the same. They are emotionaly depend on each other, they even have an unique style of communication (as one of the IF member who is a mother of twins mentioned in this forum).

It is cruel to plan to separate them even before they are born. Also think about the mother - she would not be able to enjoy her pregnancy as she knows that she will have to give one up. I know of a mother who was studying in the UK when she gave birth to twing girls, so she send one to her mother & another to her sister-in-law for only 6 months. When the time came her mother gave the baby back but she was under pressure from her in-laws family to give the baby permanently to the sister-in-law as S-I-S can not have babies & the marriage would break down. It is over twenty years now, the mother of the twins never recovered from that shock, she suffers from depression and many other physical illnes due to her mental condition.

However, it is cruel to the mother & to the children. The children will be deprived of their sibling bonding, love & companionship.

I think the CVs have a twisted grudge against children in DABH. They swap Meena's baby - when Kanah was every body's (including the audience) apple of the eyes, the gave Kanah back to Daisa. Little Kanah & Misri's heart was broken, then they have Misri & Pari begging on the street, then they have Pari had her mother go away living her. As if it was not enough now they have this baby donation!!!


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I also want to add it is nowhere the fault of Bulbul. kids are like that they can have weird demands, it's the duty of parents to show them the right path. This comes under the subject parenting.
They are setting a very wrong example snatching away the birth right of a baby to live with their own family😭

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