hey hi all
i am himali and this is my first post on debate mansion..i am hoping for good welcome and response to this one.๐
and thanks to a friend of mine(i cant disclose the name sorry๐ญ) for introducing this section of forum to me where discussions are held not only about tv serials but any issue on this planet earth.
my point of debate today is
equation of intimacy and fidelity in marriage...
here is one incidence....from a popular serial kasam se...
jai walia...in his early 40s got intimate with his sister-in-law pia.
both of them are in turmoil of emotions...as they are facing crisis in their marital life. pia once upon a time was jai's love interest..who ditched him at the altar....
after having constant troubles in her marriage, pia is once again falling for jai....who has eyes for noone except his wife bani who is happened to be pia's elder sister.
so after this happened there were thousands of posts bashing up jai(i was one of them and though i am ashamed of this,my warning levels are raised for it...๐) for causing infidelity to his pativrata patni..bani
here comes my question now...
what if jai didnot have sex with pia but harboured feelings for her...wouldnt it then be called infidelity or breach of marriage...????
just because they got intimated does that mean they are guilty????
is physical intimacy is the only criteria set for fidelity in marriage??is there anything called emotional infidelity...?? which according to me is more painful...
(i am assuming majority of girls so guys forgive me๐i would love to know your point of views as well)
if a husband is physically loyal to his wife but he is having an affair without straying physically...(platonic as they call it) would you consider this man loyal to his wife....???
if this particular husband is not satisfied with his marriage...which can be justified by his wife's errants action.....and thus has desire for other woman's company would then your decision be the same to call him unloyal????
if this man indulged in one night stand with another woman...in the wrong state of mind where he didnt know what he was doing...but he is terribly sorry for it next morning as he can not think about anybody except his wife....will he be still called loyal??
would u be able to forgive him and restore the same faith in him for rest of ur life????
if all these questions are related to wife instead of husband....will your point of view be the same....????(this one is surely for guys)
do u think men are more prone to such affairs...(brickbats welcomed from all gu๐ys) or is it a prejudice created by TV when it comes to reality..???
waiting for ur response
thanks my friend๐ once again....
ps: to mods...if you find the content objectionable or unappropriate please delete it๐ )
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