Yuvani-miscalculation of love

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Posted: 11 years ago
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i meant to write this post yesterday bt fell asleep but i was very surprised when i saw that suhani actually is very adamant to believe that Yuvraj is in the wrong and would prefer that it is him that is wrong rather that her friend the great snake. The way she is seeing things she does not for a moment doubt that what she is seeing maybe wrong or something that could be misconstrued bt rather she thinks Yuvraj the Great is wrong😲 not for a moment is it entering her head that he might be innocent. I am very surprised to see the cvs show their lead as willing believing that her patidev is wrong. Poor Yuvraj and every1 else was thinking that she can not live without him but she does not for a minute look like she is bothered about him if anything it seems as if she would like to live in limbo so that she does not find out that her friend is wrong.
so the great love that everyone should have worried about is actually her love for snaky and not for Yuvraj πŸ˜†. ,i just find this so amusing coz BoredRaj there while he thought he was the centre of Suhani's world is actually not her world Souyma is her world. Poor guy should have really worked to make a permanent place in Suhani's heart instant of playing with his play station the whole day and not trying to create a connection with suhani whilst suhani was trying to make a connection with him.
i think whenever suhani had to choose btw souyma and yuvraj she always choose Yuvraj coz Prats directed her to do so but independent thought and actions shows that the 1st person in her life never really was Yuvraj but snaky. I dnt know I am not married but should suhani not be wanting to prove that Yuvraj is innocent because he is her husband and that r/ship is the most sacred and important? or is that a bit how do i say too cold, unrealistic or a traditional view just coz u married to some1 doesnt mean we forego all other r/ships.

But really what a miscalculation of importance/ love did the people around suhani make with her feelings for Yuvraj.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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You write exactly what was in my mind.thanks for the post.
This is what I feel bad about I mean she says that she loves Yuvi the most but you trust your best friend more than your husband.I mean why .Sharad is right that why is she trusting a person who tried to kill you. I mean why Suhani. In love the most important thing is trust .Suhani needs to learn that I think.May be its because of complex because of those creepy boys and Rags menka Soumya dadi . But she should also not trust a person who tried to kill her. πŸ₯±
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think that her love for Soumya is deeply rooted and she knows the girl for so long...she has so many good memories attached with this chick so she just can't think anyone she has known for so long, who has been tried and tested and who even saved her life can be so wrong...she has so much evidence from their past to contradict any bad vibes she's been getting...she definitely loves Soumya more than Yuvraj and you're right she put Yuvraj first because pratima told her too...otherwise she can get lost in her love for Soumya.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Really a good observations, after reading your post I feel the same too. We all were thinking she will be shattered after knowing the truth but here it seems she had actually accepted that it is yuvraj who is wrong . Anyway yuvraj never showed the love , concern and affection to her. He only always saved her from the wrath of dadi or at times defended her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think I see the other side... It's understandable for her to doubt a man that she doesn't really know that well. Yes, he is her husband, but he hasn't behaved that way, and it wasn't like they were these great friends to begin with.
When you're married your husband should be your first priority (unless you have kids), but look who Suhani has found herself married to. Love is earned, not freely given, and perhaps in Suhani's mind Saumya has earned her love. They have, after all, been friends for almost a lifetime.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sandi, great post and this was also going through my mind.

Well, Somu is the great love of her life and she is her actual soul mate, lol. πŸ˜† Even I was surprised that she would rather Yuvraj be wrong than Soumya.😲 I think Soumya's betrayal is too HUGE a shock to bear because she has known her forever. Also, I think the Phateechars scheming plays a big role in how she sees things. From where I see it, recent events where they have made her suspect Yuvi of cheating and Somu of being innocent are why she is thinking he is in the wrong..

I still think she loves Yuvraj more than Somu based on Soumya's accident. Extreme situations show who is No.1 on your priority list and in that scene, Suhani chose to first displace Yuvraj than immediately attend to Soumya, who was lying unconscious on the ground. So, I still think she loves Yuvraj more. Plus, she was willing to kick Soumya out to save his skin, so I think Yuvi still gets just a little bit more love from Suhani than Soumya.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yes suhani's behaviour dissapoint me.she turst her snaky more than her hurband!!!so is that her love towards her husband???
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: clarity

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Sandi, great post and this was also going through my mind.

Well, Somu is the great love of her life and she is her actual soul mate, lol. πŸ˜† Even I was surprised that she would rather Yuvraj be wrong than Soumya.😲 I think Soumya's betrayal is too HUGE a shock to bear because she has known her forever. Also, I think the Phateechars scheming plays a big role in how she sees things. From where I see it, recent events where they have made her suspect Yuvi of cheating and Somu of being innocent are why she is thinking he is in the wrong..

I still think she loves Yuvraj more than Somu based on Soumya's accident. Extreme situations show who is No.1 on your priority list and in that scene, Suhani chose to first displace Yuvraj than immediately attend to Soumya, who was lying unconscious on the ground. So, I still think she loves Yuvraj more. Plus, she was willing to kick Soumya out to save his skin, so I think Yuvi still gets just a little bit more love from Suhani than Soumya. </font>


Yup dear here lies my point she loves Yuvi more but she trust Soumya more I mean why Suhani...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well, it's not wrong of her to trust Somu more, because in her eyes, she hasn't yet done anything wrong. Very dumb, I know, but it's not bad to trust your friend. I mean, what has Yuvraj done to earn Suhani's trust to that extent? He's always on about his privacy blah blah blah. We have to remember that she doesn't see the Somu we do (out of her own stupidity), so she trusts her implicitly.
I think her lack of trust in Yuvraj comes from what the Phateechars have been doing recently- what with implicating him falsely.
Edited by clarity - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Actually I still feel Suhani loves Yuvraj more than Sowmya (wee bit more 😊)... But look at what she saw on the video... Her best friend, her closest friend, her well wisher, the girl she has grown up with, she has shared all her joys and sorrows with... actually tried to kill her!! I mean can you even imagine something like that... Maybe somewhere her heart just refuses to believe what her mind knows... shes trying to be in denial, think of other reasons to explain away something as horrifying as that...
And on the other hand, to be very honest why should she believe Yuvraj?? Just because he is her husband?? You know if they were in love and Yuvraj was her husband in a true sense, then i would definitely be surprised at her choosing to believe Sowmya... Here is a guy who is her Husband only when it suits him (mostly to get irritated/ angry/ frustrated at her), is mostly oblivious of her needs, her fears and worries, treats her like a not -so- close friend... Sowmya maybe manipulating the situations to make it look like Yuvraj is the cheater, but he isn't innocent in this whole drama... The way he takes care of Sowmya, Suhani ka itna khayaal rakhta hai??

So there's your BFF who has loved you, has been there for you at least once upon a time... and who is allegedly harming you!!
And there's your So called Husband, who never really stood up for for you or cared for you when it truly mattered, who hasn't really expressed his "love" for you... and who is allegedly cheating on you??

Who would your heart want to believe?? i truly dont know!!

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