bunty and his "promise"

pyaaribehna

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Posted: 9 years ago

When Bunty "fell in love" with Sagu he did not think about his mummy. When Buntea was chasing Sagu he took care that his mummy did not know about this.

But when Bunty "promised" his mummy he never told Sagu about it. and before "promising" his mummy such a thing "till mummy "accepts"" Sagu it is such a stupid "clause" ( she may never accept her. )did he think of that? "

I mean how can he promise his mum such a thing?

What do they mean by "taking " the marriage "forward"? You are married to someone according to religion or civil ceremony you make a bunch of promises to each other. Which do not involve another person. There is no clause in marriage vows that says "conditional acceptance."

Moms cannot put such conditions to sons. Neither can sons promise such things to a third person regarding his life partner.

On top of that Buntea lies to his wife that he wants to be her "boyfriend" how stupid?

Theirs was a "love marriage" as opposed to "arranged marriage" now where is this "boyfriend" "girlfriend" come from?

Buntea did not weigh the pros and cons when he fell in "love" . Amma will not take advantage of Buntea if he did not let her do that.

If one dares to go against parent's wishes and "falls in love" with a girl who would never be his mom's choice then the person should have the courage to go ahead with his decision .

Because it is not fair on the girl who gets into the marriage with so much hope and expectation.

Edited by pyaaribehna - 9 years ago

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Kety76

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Posted: 9 years ago

well said 👏 I agree 👍🏼

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cygnet9

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Posted: 9 years ago

Agree with every words of yours.

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Missesha

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Posted: 9 years ago

Can someone please tell me how Satya knows about this vow between mother and son? Did Ammaji tell her everything directly? Or is it that the whole family knows about this?

Also it is Bunty's promise to Amma that he will not consummate his marrige, not Amma's duty to keep an eye on the two. But here Amma is hell bent on making sure that they do not unite, which is weird.

For Bunty, this offering was more of gesture to keep his mom happy. What is Amma's reason not allowing them to unite? Or is she actually plotting for a break-up between SagUn?

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Peea

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Missesha
Can someone please tell me how Satya knows about this vow between mother and son? Did Ammaji tell her everything directly? Or is it that the whole family knows about this?

Also it is Bunty's promise to Amma that he will not consummate his marrige, not Amma's duty to keep an eye on the two. But here Amma is hell bent on making sure that they do not unite, which is weird.

For Bunty, this offering was more of gesture to keep his mom happy. What is Amma's reason not allowing them to unite? Or is she actually plotting for a break-up between SagUn?

It may be perhaps that both Amma had confided to Satya when Bunty had volunteered to make such a vow and as Satya stays most of the time in that household have conspired later on with Amma to make sure that they dont stay as husband and wife . I strongly feel that is the plot of breaking up the marriage of Bunty and Sagun so that Satya can come to this house hold permanently from yesterday's Babuji's last sentence. I sometimes wonder that how can an individual stoop so low to make other's life terrible... how come Satya is doing all the household work in Mishra household while their own daughters are silently watching ? Is it possible?

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pyaaribehna

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Missesha
Can someone please tell me how Satya knows about this vow between mother and son? Did Ammaji tell her everything directly? Or is it that the whole family knows about this?

Also it is Bunty's promise to Amma that he will not consummate his marrige, not Amma's duty to keep an eye on the two. But here Amma is hell bent on making sure that they do not unite, which is weird.

For Bunty, this offering was more of gesture to keep his mom happy. What is Amma's reason not allowing them to unite? Or is she actually plotting for a break-up between SagUn?

Ammaji should stop Satya from coming to their house. Ammaji knows very well Satya's feelings for Buntea.

Ammaji has no business discussing Buntea and Sagu's personal relationship with Satya who is a young girl not even married.

If Amma did not like Sagu so much why did she agree to the marriage? She could have refused outright rather than ruining a girl's life by giving her hope and then trying to break her marriage.

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Suresh

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Posted: 9 years ago

100 % right in everything you said. The deal between Amma and Buntu was, until Amma accepts Sagarika Buntu will not sleep with her.

So, Imagine Amma 150 years old and Bunta 100+ and Amma wakes up in the morning and tells Buntu to have his belated suhaag raat because god came and threatened her that she will go to hell when she dies if Bunty & Sagarika do not have a honeymoon. Poor Bunty tells Amma that its too late now and he will have their suhaag raat in the next janam. Since there was no honeymoon Amma gets an entry in the hell and has to share a room with dead fishes.

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cygnet9

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: suresh555
100 % right in everything you said. The deal between Amma and Buntu was, until Amma accepts Sagarika Buntu will not sleep with her.

So, Imagine Amma 150 years old and Bunta 100+ and Amma wakes up in the morning and tells Buntu to have his belated suhaag raat because god came and threatened her that she will go to hell when she dies if Bunty & Sagarika do not have a honeymoon. Poor Bunty tells Amma that its too late now and he will have their suhaag raat in the next janam. Since there was no honeymoon Amma gets an entry in the hell and has to share a room with dead fishes.

😆 You cracked me up

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VerboseG

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: suresh555
100 % right in everything you said. The deal between Amma and Buntu was, until Amma accepts Sagarika Buntu will not sleep with her.

So, Imagine Amma 150 years old and Bunta 100+ and Amma wakes up in the morning and tells Buntu to have his belated suhaag raat because god came and threatened her that she will go to hell when she dies if Bunty & Sagarika do not have a honeymoon. Poor Bunty tells Amma that its too late now and he will have their suhaag raat in the next janam. Since there was no honeymoon Amma gets an entry in the hell and has to share a room with dead fishes.

🤣

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cygnet9

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Posted: 9 years ago

The first big mistake is on behalf of Bunty itself, he was hell bent on getting Sag's before marriage. He tried to break Sag's and Arindam's alliance also. Finally he was succeeded and married Sag's. In this process he did not ask Amma's permission for doing all this.

From her childhood Satya was always roaming in Mishra's household and took care of Bunty's requirements. That is why she is always in Mishra's house. Seeing this Amma promised Satya for making her as her DIL, (There was a scene Amma and Satya hugging and Amma asking Satya whether she like Bunty or not), Amma thought that whatever she say's Bunty will follow blindly. But everything has gone opposite.

Bunty hell bent on marrying Sag's and Babuji made Amma accept Bunty's wishes. That way Bunty and Sag's Married. In this Sag's is the victim. Initially Sag's considered Bunty as a friend and started admiring him which eventually made her to love him. She had not clue of what was happening in Mishra house hold, but she was aware that the family dislikes her. She believed Bunty and his words which made her marry him.

After marriage Bunty became Mama's boy fully and forgot his promise because he got what he want. That was Sag's confronted him in yesterday's episode. Now she is all alone to fight with the three ladies Amma, Satya and Rani. Don't know Bunty will stand by her😕 or not

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