Ishita Dint do the Right Thing, But.....

Good morning friends.
I can see many Ishita criticizing post. That's natural. I don't even say that those are not needed. Those are absolutely welcome. Even, I too criticized Ishita before watching the last night episode.

So, here's a post of analysis of Ishita's actions. I am not justifying or defending her. I am putting the scenarios and consequences. Anyone is welcome to disagree with me, but please no harsh wording or no personal criticism to anyone.



Being a woman, I too would have done the same no matter how much bad she did to me.
Now, bringing her to Bhalla house. As CVs themselves showed why she did this. Ashok's one was restricted, her mom is a hyper woman always, she could have been ill while shouting and reacting. These two points are justified.
Now coming to putting her in 'Her' place in the bed. Well, I don't think it was never her place at least when Raman is on the bed alone. It's just Ruhi's mom's place when she is on that bad. And, by this, both Ishita and Shagun have the same place as being Ruhi's mother...one real mom, one biological mother.
Then, coming to why only Raman's room or bed.
Well, someone said that she could've been put in the hall room couch. When you know, there's a Param in the house, will you allow a woman, forget she is your husband's ex, will you allow her to stay open in that hall room? Ishita is a woman, she will think of another woman's respect obviously being a well cultured family girl. She won't allow that.
She could have taken her to Ruhi's room as it is too suggested by someone else in another post. And, some argued that if Ruhi knows that Shagun was in Raman's room, how she would react. If any of the Bhallas don't tell this to her, then how she would know what happened at night, where Shagun slept and all? And, I don't think even Simmi will reveal this to Ruhi.
About others' room, Ishita herself knows that no one is gonna allow her to do that. Only room is left Raman's room, which is her own room also. She has right over that room, she has even right to give shelter to a ruined woman in that room. Here, some may question that she could have put her in the couch of that room. A normal person even can't sleep there properly, how can a drunkard person will be put there properly?
Now, coming to why she dint tell Raman from before hand. I won't go in any comparison with Raman and Ishita's actions. Just want to say that as we all know Raman, he wouldn't allow Ishita to bring Shagun to their house. That's obvious, and if he did that I would have also appreciated that. No one would have allowed in his place. But, then what would have happened to that woman Shagun? Where would have Ishita taken her? To a hotel? We don't know how far any hotel is from that place. We don't even know if Ishita had enough money to reserve a room for her. We don't even know if Ishita came to her house to take money from home, she would have been allowed to leave the house again or not after knowing the reason.
All these signals that there was only one thing to do, only best thing to do, though not the right thing to do. I repeat, Ishita dint do any right thing considering from her husband and family's POV. I would have reacted the same way if I were Raman or Mrs. Bhalla. But, from a women's POV, this was the only best and right thing to do at that moment to save a WOMAN's respect, not an ex wife's respect.
I am not as selfless as Ishita as a person, but I am not that selfish also. Being in her place, I would've done the same, because Shagun was not an enemy at that time, she was a shattered, senseless woman that time.

ishita is right when she brought shagun home and put her in her bed
it is not ishitas fault that shagun is a vamp
what is so sacred about the bed
ishita is practical
audience should get over 'The Bedroom' thoughts

Well

To be honest tanni you can't justify it

And problem is that she has been treated very badly and insulted by her every time so her being so generous towards being Shagun makes her unreal

I have never seen a educated successful professional behave in such a way

Now ppl will say she married Raman despite everything but that was different as it was about Ruhi who loved her and ishita loved Ruhi

I think ishita needed to atleast tell him before bringing her home

It is almost third time where Raman has come to know after event has happened which is not good

She needs to realise larger picture and not just small matter of helping Shagun and simmi and that bigger picture of hurting others due to this

Well dont agree dear , firstky great post.
I think she shudve called atleast Raman to explain d situation, its not like he wwill not understand. He has helped Shagun before too.
Secondly putting her in name f Ruhis mom is bbig NO Ruhi herself has said I shud hv been in ur tummy to Ishita. Its n insult to Ruhi too if she thought so.
Thirdly if at all she wanted to put her in her bedroom she cudve put her in couch or got extra single mattress.
Thirdly i doont think Param wud do anything to Shagun in housefull f ppl he is not that dumb. So she cud hv put her iin livibg room couch. 😆

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Well

To be honest tanni you can't justify it

And problem is that she has been treated very badly and insulted by her every time so her being so generous towards being Shagun makes her unreal

I have never seen a educated successful professional behave in such a way

Now ppl will say she married Raman despite everything but that was different as it was about Ruhi who loved her and ishita loved Ruhi

I think ishita needed to atleast tell him before bringing her home

It is almost third time where Raman has come to know after event has happened which is not good

She needs to realise larger picture and not just small matter of helping Shagun and simmi and that bigger picture of hurting others due to this

I am not justifying her, as I said in my post. But, I can't think of any better option for her in that situation thinking about the reasons.
Yeah, she again hurt her family members. More than that she is hurt by herself. And, I am happy that the Bhallas scolded her. She needs to learn that sometimes humanity too should be forsaken for your dear ones. I myself has problem with her shagun actions. I am not justifying her, cos there is very less to justify. I am considering the exact situations and which situations would have led to what results. And, thus may be she did the best thing being a woman, but not a right thing being the daughter-in-law of a family and a doctor.

Originally posted by: Oishi_sonu

I didn't have a problem with everything she did until Ishita put Shagun in bed but taking your point in consideration, I guess even that could be accepted. It's a no win situation where no one is exactly wrong.
But the problem is, Ishita did not feel even a little bit of guilt for putting Raman and family through the pain. She was only trying to justify her actions and prove she is right when no one is actually totally wrong in the scenario and this isn't Ishita. Cv's are making her do whatever they want to keep drama going.

Yeah...that's what was irking, where's her guilt? From initial day, we have always seen her being and saying sorry no matter whatever mistakes she did, at least after marriage. I know, she is thinking she did the right thing, still, she should've considered the other side of the coin and that is if her right thing is right to other, is her right thing giving pains to other.
CVs always try to balance b/w the two lead characters, but sometimes go in an illogical way😡.

Originally posted by: Oishi_sonu

I didn't have a problem with everything she did until Ishita put Shagun in bed but taking your point in consideration, I guess even that could be accepted. It's a no win situation where no one is exactly wrong.
But the problem is, Ishita did not feel even a little bit of guilt for putting Raman and family through the pain. She was only trying to justify her actions and prove she is right when no one is actually totally wrong in the scenario and this isn't Ishita. Cv's are making her do whatever they want to keep drama going.

Originally posted by: mnr123

Well dont agree dear , firstky great post.
I think she shudve called atleast Raman to explain d situation, its not like he wwill not understand. He has helped Shagun before too.
Secondly putting her in name f Ruhis mom is bbig NO Ruhi herself has said I shud hv been in ur tummy to Ishita. Its n insult to Ruhi too if she thought so.
Thirdly if at all she wanted to put her in her bedroom she cudve put her in couch or got extra single mattress.
Thirdly i doont think Param wud do anything to Shagun in housefull f ppl he is not that dumb. So she cud hv put her iin livibg room couch. 😆

Raman may not think of himself, but his mom...she wouldn't tolerate it. So, I guess he would've said no, as it is difficult for him to see Shagun in his own house😲.
About being Ruhi's mom...it's not insulting Ruhi. Ishita always tried to keep Ruhi's both parents in good terms in Ruhi's eyes. Even Ruhi too understands now that if there was no Shagun, she too wouldn't have been there. This fact, no one can't deny. And, that thought is not Ishita's, it's my thought as I saw someone saying 'her' place😆.
Third point, I agree...but, our innocent Ishita has to show some innocence na😉😆!
Last point, we have seen Param trying to molest Ishita, when his wife and MIL were there at home and all awake. Now, Shagun is senseless, everyone is sleeping, he can try a hit on her, we never know.

Originally posted by: Alu-

I think later on she did feel guilty, when she realized she had hurt Raman :S

I can only hope so
Cv's are hell bent on ruining her character otherwise.