Very Less Difference B/w Love & Hatred....What Ishita Meant?

Good noon friends. Hope, after so many positive posts in this forum, almost everyone is relaxed now. I too am though😆.

Anyways, wanted to divert all of your attentions to this piece of dialogue by Ishita from last night.
She said to Raman : ''People Hate the Dear Ones only''...''There is very less difference between love and hatred''.
What she actually meant by this? I know, she must have meant that Raman's hatred for Shagun is the opposite side of his love for her. But, what if Ishita meant this in regards of her and Raman's relationship? Yup..she dint think like this. But, we can relate to her words for IshRa's relationship.

Their relation started with hatred. Gradually, it converted to respect, care and concern. And, soon it is gonna be a good friendship. And, the next phase is obviously love. So, the only hindrances or differences between love and hatred are positive feelings and friendship.

And, according to current track, they have almost reached the last level of the 2nd phase. 3rd level will surely be shown soon, I hope. And, love, we don't know, how long it will take. But, the differences are fading darling Ishu. Sane Ramz, are you also feeling the same? And Ishu you?

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According to the love-hatred theory presented in the show...he still loves her. But, that love is fading and it's going to the opposite end of the thing, where there remains no feelings. And, I am considering this as somewhat a circle thing. It's completely my assumption😳. There are 5 points in this circle.
1. No feelings.
2. Love
3. Care
4. Friendship
5. Hatred.

Considering Shagun-Raman relationship, there is a direct connection between love and hatred. But, consideing IshRa relations, they have to go through the middle point of care and friendship. And their relation started from no feelings to care. In case of Ramz-Shagun, they directly landed on love point from no feelings. That's why the dept of relationship is lost.

hey I was thinking about this topic.and u made a post on it.thats y I m so confused...raman still loves shagun??

that dialogue was totally disgusting
and the worst part was ramans silence following it
raman loves shagun till now and ishita just showed it in his face
hate raman to the core
he is a shame

Amazing post
I actually agree ishita feels that raman still has feelings for shagun
Actually I too think he does and he is not wrong
Even people married and have kids if their husbands are not their first loves then its always not good haha but first loves are first loves they just hold that special space and memory even after they have been bitches to u ( personal experience)
And what ishita was trying to say was that raman should rise above any feelings for shagun
No hate no love more like because she does not deserve any of his time
It is very realistic I felt because shagun is the mother of his kids. They shared good times and memories always remain
U know I watched the episode 3 times and realised that this dialogue was more like ishita telling raman to finally let go off shagun
He should not scold her as. She is his property I could actually sense the possessiveness in her voice
Now raman will rise above any feelings for shagun

Originally posted by: sobha

hey I was thinking about this topic..thats y I m so confused...raman still loves shagun??

According to the love-hatred theory presented in the show...yes, he still loves her. But, that love is fading and it's going to the opposite end, where there remains no feelings. And, I am considering this as somewhat a circle thing. There are 5 points in this circle.
1. No feelings.
2. Love
3. Care
4. Friendship
5. Hatred.

Considering Shagun-Raman relationship, there is a direct connection between love and hatred. But, consideing IshRa relations, they have to go through the middle point of care and friendship. And their relation started from no feelings to care. In case of Ramz-Shagun, they directly landed on love point from no feelings. That's why the dept of relationship is lost.

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

According to the love-hatred theory presented in the show...yes, he still loves her. But, that love is fading and it's going to the opposite end of the continuum, where there remains no feelings. And, I am considering this continuum as somewhat a circle thing. There are 5 points in this circle.
1. No feelings.
2. Love
3. Care
4. Friendship
5. Hatred.

Considering Shagun-Raman relationship, there is a direct connection between love and hatred. But, consideing IshRa relations, they have to go through the middle point of care and friendship. And their relation started from no feelings to care. In case of Ramz-Shagun, they directly landed on love point from no feelings. That's why the dept of relationship is lost.

Originally posted by: sobha

love is fadibg he still love her..bimbo lady..for so many days I was thinking that he hate shagun and he is falling isitha...tis ramans character is so complexed..

Yup...that's the problem. His character is just rubbish sometimes. Even I too thought that he hates Shagun. But, last episode not only showed a good indication for IshRa relation, but also showed that he really is not over Shagun's love😭.

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

Yup...that's the problem. His character is just rubbish sometimes. Even I too thought that he hates Shagun. But, last episode not only showed a good indication for IshRa relation, but also showed that he really is not over Shagun's love😭.

Ths topic was getting hawt frm strday...
Im agreeing with vampire...
Tanni's analysis s general view...
But wt ishu meant is
to remove all feelings for shagun...hatred or love...wtever..
N gv just like othr common woman respect...

I m wondering hw u all msd ths clear point from ishra convo..

Ishu was clearing telling now she deserves th place nt shagun...


If u hv dbt chk shagun st...thn hear ishu's words...

Its all abt possessiveness

Originally posted by: sobha

hope after isitha's gyan he will get over it...and why tv serial cant so practical life...like wise in reality lady never say her husband to respect his ex wife...

I beg to differ here
I real life it happens a lot
Second wifes will always want their husbands to respect their first wife and not hate them as ishita said there is a very thin line between love and hatred