Raman should go back to Shagun(Part 2)--Page 4

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Krutika

@loveyhmnew

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Posted: 11 years ago

I am new to writing and a big follower of OS,Spoilers,comments,suggestions written by many talented writers for YHM.Even want to mention am watching YHM from day first.But after today's episode I felt I should better stop watching YHM otherwise would get frustrated big time. The way Raman's character was potrayed today,he noways deserve a partner like Ishita.When he supported her during Param fiasco,it gave his character a volume but today his blind love for his son Adi destroyed everything. Showing Ishita so weak(or strong) infront of him for whatever reasons was not justified.It's better to show Ishita not expecting anything out of him and just push him more towards Shagun because that's the only place he deserves to be,that's the only way he should be treated.

Ishita's focus should be Ruhi and nothing else because even if she'll think or do good to Raman he will still hold feelings for Shagun. he should better put in efforts to sort everything with Shagun,this would help in to get Adi(his obsession) and can easily praise Shagun for entire life for giving so called beatiful moments.

Raman fans no hard feelings but that is what I felt after his today's behaviour.

Edited by loveyhmnew - 11 years ago

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arooshi

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Posted: 11 years ago

Thats exactly what I think

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Mages

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Posted: 11 years ago

he disappointed me tdy...

i don't understand his obsession for adi...seriously...adi is first born...so what...he is not the only son in the entire world who is first born...every father goes through the phase of first born but definitely they are not as obsessed as raman is...ruhi is second born...he should love both of them equally...treat both of them equally...

adi stayed far away from him...thus he is obsessed...and every single thing of adi affects him...even ruhi stayed far away from him...he was busy making money like a money machine...why she doesn't affect him...he was aloof with her becos she look like shagun...

why this double standards...both are his kids...he needs to treat them both equally...

his obsession with adi is a danger sign...that crazy women knows that his weakness is adi...she will used him as a weapon to separate and destroy his present life...

if adi ask raman to leave ishu and stay with shagun and ruhi...this man will surely agree becos he obsessed with his son...

the day adi steps in Bhalla's house with conditions...thats the day he will loose his relationship with ishu...and will compel his daughter to hate him...she is attached to ishu by soul...and even a little scratch her mother suffers...she fight the entire world for her...the prove was how she fight for a her mother during pooja fiasco...she showed bala's mother her real place...if ishu is separated from ruhi...raman is going to face hatred from his daughter...he will loose his wife and daughter just becos of his son...he will have his son with him...but he will loose the two angels who loves him the most than anything else in the world...his wife and daughter...

tdy i feel bad for ruhi more than ishu...she has no option but accept raman's past and live with it...but ruhi...raman has never gone this crazy for her...i feel bad for the little girl who loves her father immensely...ruhi is with him is becos of ishu only...once ishu is gone from his life...ruhi will be also gone...he needs to understand this...

i don't really understand his obsession for his son...he needs to be obsessed for both his children...

unknown to him...he has given crazy women to dream even more and live in delusional world that he still love her...her non-stop rant of taunting ishu will not stop and wants to make her believe that raman loves her...

tdy raman only did blunder...and nothing else...he has paves way for the future...and the future spells only danger

Edited by Mages - 11 years ago

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Krutika

@loveyhmnew

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Posted: 11 years ago

People reading this please drop a comment. And please help me come out this hating phase soon.
May be some positive persuasion
will help me.

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Mages

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: loveyhmnew
People reading this please drop a comment. And please help me come out this hating phase soon.
May be some positive persuasion
will help me.

lets wait and watch...its my advice...

its a daily...we have to be prepared for the best and worst together

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Kanika

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Posted: 11 years ago

Completely Disagree..

Their marriage was marriage of convenience, he did not promise anything to Ishita as a husband so its not cheating if he still loves Shagun. He loved Shagun, she betrayed him damaging him permanently. Many relationships break with mutual consent and in that case you don't forget your ex totally, noone can. Feelings fade with time and there is nothing wrong in cherishing beautiful moments you had with your ex. However is relation now but there was time when that relation brought smile on your face, that person was reason for your happiness once upon a time, why should you disrespect it? For everyone, priorities are different. Yes Raman is not only father in this world, but for some people becoming father is more important than others. It depends on individual and we dnt know how important it was for Raman. For Raman, Shagun was fist love, his first touch, first kiss, first baby he had with Shagun how can he forget and why should he forget? Shagun cheated him giving him scar. His love changed into hatred. Your first love may not be your true love, but its FIRST LOVE. Raman needs to love someone else to behave indifferently to Shagun. And its not at all wrong from Raman's side if he stil has feelings for Shagun as he did not commit to Ishita anything.

By acknowledging today Shagun as his son's mother I started liking Raman more. And saying he deserves to go back to Shagun is too harsh. Relationships take time to build. Just because IshRa got married can not stop Raman having feelings for Shagun as their marriage is not normal marriage.

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Shazeena(shez)

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: kankabhor
Completely Disagree..
Their marriage was marriage of convenience, he did not promise anything to Ishita as a husband so its not cheating if he still loves Shagun. He loved Shagun, she betrayed him damaging him permanently. Many relationships break with mutual consent and in that case you don't forget your ex totally, noone can. Feelings fade with time and there is nothing wrong in cherishing beautiful moments you had with your ex. However is relation now but there was time when that relation brought smile on your face, that person was reason for your happiness once upon a time, why should you disrespect it? For everyone, priorities are different. Yes Raman is not only father in this world, but for some people becoming father is more important than others. It depends on individual and we dnt know how important it was for Raman. For Raman, Shagun was fist love, his first touch, first kiss, first baby he had with Shagun how can he forget and why should he forget? Shagun cheated him giving him scar. His love changed into hatred. Your first love may not be your true love, but its FIRST LOVE. Raman needs to love someone else to behave indifferently to Shagun. And its not at all wrong from Raman's side if he stil has feelings for Shagun as he did not commit to Ishita anything.

By acknowledging today Shagun as his son's mother I started liking Raman more. And saying he deserves to go back to Shagun is too harsh. Relationships take time to build. Just because IshRa got married can not stop Raman having feelings for Shagun as their marriage is not normal marriage.

Well I agree with you..actually u brought something positive 😊 but one thing I can never forget that raman said "mjhe ab baap banne ki khushi nai milay g" he got no right to say such thingx wo b infront of that shagun 🤔 it was kinda insulting for ishita 🤔 and about love I totally agree that no one could stop him loving shagun..but he should have respected ishita infront of that women 😡 this is the only thing which made me think this way about raman 🤔

M totally disappointed by raman's todayx behavior 🤔

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ALISHA SHIRODKAR

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: love_lock

Well I agree with you..actually u brought something positive 😊 but one thing I can never forget that raman said "mjhe ab baap banne ki khushi nai milay g" he got no right to say such thingx wo b infront of that shagun 🤔 it was kinda insulting for ishita 🤔 and about love I totally agree that no one could stop him loving shagun..but he should have respected ishita infront of that women 😡 this is the only thing which made me think this way about raman 🤔
M totally disappointed by raman's todayx behavior 🤔

well said. Agree

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Kanika

@kankabhor

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: love_lock

Well I agree with you..actually u brought something positive 😊 but one thing I can never forget that raman said "mjhe ab baap banne ki khushi nai milay g" he got no right to say such thingx wo b infront of that shagun 🤔 it was kinda insulting for ishita 🤔 and about love I totally agree that no one could stop him loving shagun..but he should have respected ishita infront of that women 😡 this is the only thing which made me think this way about raman 🤔
M totally disappointed by raman's todayx behavior 🤔

YEah, if it was said to insult Ishita, I wouldn't have liked either. I was thinking he said that because he wont have physical relationship with any woman now as there is no love in his heart left after what Shagun did and not because Ishita can't be mother. Thats why he said he did not mean what Ishita is thinking when he met her. Frankly, he stood with Ishita so many times, I will give him benefit of doubt for this. And for me it was not to insult Ihhita but rather telling Shagun that she gave so many scars to him that he cant have physical normal relationship with any woman now.

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smilydear

@smilydear

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: kankabhor
Completely Disagree..
Their marriage was marriage of convenience, he did not promise anything to Ishita as a husband so its not cheating if he still loves Shagun. He loved Shagun, she betrayed him damaging him permanently. Many relationships break with mutual consent and in that case you don't forget your ex totally, noone can. Feelings fade with time and there is nothing wrong in cherishing beautiful moments you had with your ex. However is relation now but there was time when that relation brought smile on your face, that person was reason for your happiness once upon a time, why should you disrespect it? For everyone, priorities are different. Yes Raman is not only father in this world, but for some people becoming father is more important than others. It depends on individual and we dnt know how important it was for Raman. For Raman, Shagun was fist love, his first touch, first kiss, first baby he had with Shagun how can he forget and why should he forget? Shagun cheated him giving him scar. His love changed into hatred. Your first love may not be your true love, but its FIRST LOVE. Raman needs to love someone else to behave indifferently to Shagun. And its not at all wrong from Raman's side if he stil has feelings for Shagun as he did not commit to Ishita anything.

By acknowledging today Shagun as his son's mother I started liking Raman more. And saying he deserves to go back to Shagun is too harsh. Relationships take time to build. Just because IshRa got married can not stop Raman having feelings for Shagun as their marriage is not normal marriage.

Sorry to disagree on this point ... Marriage itself is a Promise. Marriage may happen because of any reason BUT MARRIAGE IS MARRIAGE. Loving any other women/men while you are in a Marriage, is at some level betrayal of your partner. I AM NOT SAYING RAMAN LOVES SHAGUN AT THIS TIME, NO! NO one can LOVE A person who betrayed you, That can only be Denial or Obsession only .

I love ISHITA today, as she asked and told him the real truth of RAMAN that he behaves with SHAGUN, just like he has right on her, right as a husband and wife shares. I agree with her .

The way RAMAN open up with Shagun was wrong or we can say he still feels somewhere down there in his heart that she has that special place in his life that he can talk heart with her AND that was DEFINETLY NOT because she is ADI'S MOM .

I love Ishita to understand and still manage to come up with flying colors. I always feels Ishita's soul is much more damaged then Raman's.

Raman I always feels a little partial towards ADI then RUHI and this proves today again as they preserves ADI's STEM CELLS but not RUHI's!!!

Definetly today Raman got some Black marks on his personality and definitely today's talks will effect Ishita to accept that she can ever be accepted by her husband .

Edited by smilydear - 11 years ago

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