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This is the first post where instead of giving neutral views i'm stating my personal views on why i love SanDhir. It is not Randhir's good looks or Harshita's perfect figure. It is not PaRam's perfect acting or Harshita's apt casting for the role. And it is definitely NOT their chemistry, because chemistry doesnt go beyond the famous look-look-hawaa-hawaa scenes and momentary sparks of getting us wet. Then why SanDhir of all the other couples of Indian Television?
Well it is solely because though their story goes with the current trend of TV leads first hating each other, trying to destroy each other, then jealousy, then friendship and finally falling in love and then blah blah blah.. SanDhir have a reason to hate each other and NONE of their arguments are meaningless.
Randhir is an chauvinist but he is NOT a misogynist. Hope you know the difference between the two; A chauvinist feels men are greater than their female counterparts and a misogynist hates women. Randhir does not hate women, but he hates the fact that women will ruin men if they are treated as equals. Sanyukta is a threat to this fixed thinking of his. Unlike other girls who either choose to feel afraid of him or ignore him, Sanyukta chooses to challenge him, test him, question him and demand answers from him. She is matches him temper, stubbornness and in being grey.
Sanyukta other the other hand is a SEEMINGLY perfect daughter, a compassionate woman, a feminine streaked courageous lady who has guts to chase her dreams that are eclipsed by her own family, clan and society. Randhir, being much better than her in every point of gender difference , is a big challenge to her. He tries to chain her, cage her and tame her which actually awakens the powermatic feminist in her. He unleashes her inner layers which she herself gets surprised. When she quarrels with Randhir she doesnt becomes like Randhir to defeat him, she becomes Randhir himself. Hence chucking out all the possibilities that she and him are any different except in bodies. You can easily see that in today's episode where she pins Randhir to the wall, glares him, reprimands him and threatens him. No. She is NOT acting like Randhir, she has become Randhir.
Together they go into the deeper levels of their tears, sweat and blood, unleash their raw personalities and set their powerhouses on fire. Because they are two sides of the same coin, or should i say ONE coin - in masculine and feminine versions.
Love,
Tich.
P.S: I wont be giving any analysis posts frequently owing to my busy schedule. I will only post weekend discussion posts from now along with my regular FF. Thanks to everyone who have been supportive of me, appreciated me, made my posts a hit in the forum since two months and made my innocent heart flutter with the showers of your comments. Dil Se, Love you all people!
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