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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Latha.I

Oh...then I missed the part where Latha asked Raghu and sumitra to sleep together in one room...😲

I thought it's obvious to Latha and rest of the family...that Raghu will sleep on terace...the way he did when he 1st brought shivani to his house...

here Raghu himself has bought sumitra home...so latha did same thing what she did to shivani when he bought her home for 1st time...

in my opinion neither shivani nor sumitra has the right to push Raghu out of his room and occupy his room...they both should go outside find shelter in some room...till one wins the race and right to enter his room...

latha didn't ask raghu n sumitra to sleep together ... she said sumitra could sleep there n then shivanitoo came n she looked at as if why r u here? n then raghu came n told that the 2 girls will share the room ... n she looked not liking it... we could assume that she expected raghu to sleep there too , as she looked surprised when raghu told the two will adjust here... which is way diff from shivani coming there n living , bec if u remember shivani entred the house as raghu's wife !! n then later when they knew that the marriage was fake lathe herself told shivani to continue stay there n abide by rituals n all n what would neigbours think...
but who is sumitra? is he raghu's wife? his GF? his mistress? who is she?
just bec raghu gave her his word , latha can't let an unmarriaed girl stay in his room! n raghu's divirce too hasn't come to force!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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and as per Latha...I think if shivani has the ri8 to get influenced and insult people under misunderstanding...same can be applied to Latha also...and Latha is not influenced she has seen with her own eyes...what all Raghu went through...and not until she saw R in jail...did she loose her cool...circumstance can chagge any person and that applies to all...but I'm happy that at least under changed situations also she is being cordial to shivani...and did not use a single word of insult against her till now...unlike shivani who when lost temper called an elderly woman as step...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhakarn

latha didn't ask raghu n sumitra to sleep together ... she said sumitra could sleep there n then shivanitoo came n she looked at as if why r u here? n then raghu came n told that the 2 girls will share the room ... n she looked not liking it... we could assume that she expected raghu to sleep there too , as she looked surprised when raghu told the two will adjust here... which is way diff from shivani coming there n living , bec if u remember shivani entred the house as raghu's wife !! n then later when they knew that the marriage was fake lathe herself told shivani to continue stay there n abide by rituals n all n what would neigbours think...
but who is sumitra? is he raghu's wife? his GF? his mistress? who is she?
just bec raghu gave her his word , latha can't let an unmarriaed girl stay in his room! n raghu's divirce too hasn't come to force!


That is what my point also Dhanya...shivani entered his house as his wife...for the 1st time itself...even then he slept on terrace...and Latha did understand his reason...what I'm saying is now this new look of Latha should not be misunderstood as her wish for Raghu and sumi share the room...either sumi...or the legal wife shivani...R is gonna not share the room...ri8...for now...and Latha does know that...too...so I don't think she wants it that way...only reason I think she got sumi to his room is...that he himself bought her to the house promising of marriage...yes as of now sumi is no one in the family...relation wise...but he is just looking from his angel...he refused shivani and bought sumi...so for Latha priority goes for sumi...and when R got shivani to the room...she looked more kind of surprised only...I did not see any dislike for shivani there...and she did not express any thing in words also...she once again gave away to her son's wish...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dhanya, to me its too quick for them to have another major MU... I think the difference will be Raghu's behaviour..He is not Shivani...So minor MU may happen but nothing to major...

As general viewer pov, i think they have a better understanding of the situation and able to see the picture more fully...At times they probably thought Shivani was mean to Raghu as well as they probably feel that ppl are being mean to Shi now

Its not a crime to be in love but taking hasty steps to give away her property was irresponsible on her part...I am not defending Raghu's family but they had hopes attached with Shi money which evaporated as fast as their hopes were raised...They reacted accordingly...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Latha.I



That is what my point also Dhanya...shivani entered his house as his wife...for the 1st time itself...even then he slept on terrace...and Latha did understand his reason...what I'm saying is now this new look of Latha should not be misunderstood as her wish for Raghu and sumi share the room...either sumi...or the legal wife shivani...R is gonna not share the room...ri8...for now...and Latha does know that...too...so I don't think she wants it that way...only reason I think she got sumi to his room is...that he himself bought her to the house promising of marriage...yes as of now sumi is no one in the family...relation wise...but he is just looking from his angel...he refused shivani and bought sumi...so for Latha priority goes for sumi...and when R got shivani to the room...she looked more kind of surprised only...I did not see any dislike for shivani there...and she did not express any thing in words also...she once again gave away to her son's wish...



No latha... 2 r diff things actually... if society sees shivani in raghu's room ( we know the locality its so easy to see other house) then there is no problem... she is his wife... but if they see sumitra? ... latha was the one who asked shivani to continue putting sindoor n mangal sutra n all that to show society so that they r not made a laughing syock ...but noe she could get a complete stranger inside her wedded son's room n that too with his wife still his wife n luving in the same house...?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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as per R's time taking on S love...I think it would be fair to give him some time ti digest what just hapnd in his life...not in his wild dreams can he think of his malkin turning to be his wife...I don't call it inferiority complex...it's just unimaginable for him to see himself as malik sa's damad...it takes time for him to understand a girl's heart who without 2 nd thought left everything to be on par with him...

shivani took 3 sweet days imagining him all over the places...discussing with her friend and pouring her heart out confirming herself that she is in love with R

but for R it's just one...day...she confessed in the mrng and landed up in his house by eve...poor guy totally shaken...will have to wi8 till he sees images of her and discuss with his mom...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sheena-



Dhanya, to me its too quick for them to have another major MU... I think the difference will be Raghu's behaviour..He is not Shivani...So minor MU may happen but nothing to major...

As general viewer pov, i think they have a better understanding of the situation and able to see the picture more fully...At times they probably thought Shivani was mean to Raghu as well as they probably feel that ppl are being mean to Shi now

Its not a crime to be in love but taking hasty steps to give away her property was irresponsible on her part...I am not defending Raghu's family but they had hopes attached with Shi money which evaporated as fast as their hopes were raised...They reacted accordingly...




I understand di... lets see how the mu will be...

Raghu's family reacted the wat each of them r... but found raghu's behavior inadequate... the raghu i have seen should have told shivani 'don't-take-bauji's-words-seriously -or-to-heart' just to male her feel better... but he didn't... n that's why i am surprused...tthat's all
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: dhakarn

i don't think anybody in the forum wanted raghu to reciprocate to shivani's love confession... all were wanting him to listen to his heart , more like as bela pointed out ... but he is still clinging on to his insecurities n prejudices ... n frankly most r confused of his silence ... which i think CVs haven't given us explanation ...

as for latha its more her actions itself speaking agianst her... especially her arranging for sumitra to stay in rahu's room ? where did her self respect n family's respect n all those lectures on sanctity of marraige n all go?
n regarding the first MU where raghu suffered , it was an MU n that was why shivani too were involved ... but here there is no MU what so ever ... atleast till now... if he considers shivani as his malkin as he says , he should have stopped his family from berating her or atleast apologised for their behavior - bec first n foremost thing , his family has no right to talk about it... n the raghu we have seen so far would have apologised or atleast told shivani not to feel bad of his family members words... he did nothing ...that's quite surprising , given his character...
n as for shivani 'forcing' herself on raghu, i thought the matter was thoroughly discussed on another thread ... she was being a girl desperate in love trying to reach up to her man ... n even yesterday , even after all the insults n humiliations , she has decided to stay on to protect raghu n his family who humiliated her to no end from sumitra...




nope ..R not rejecting shi bcz of his insecurities or prejudices ..he just has not realized his love for her n has still to come out of the shock of her confession n it is not so easy for him to accept shi as his wife as he has always thought her to b a princess n himself just a sevak .Yup I think todays epi may throw some light on R silence abt the property .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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agree sheena all have different POV n none can claim that only he or she is right .Different natured people tend to act differently to same situations .So now hoping that R will not b shown so naive n dumb like shi n will do think n act to situations .

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