Disowned by grandparents because they disapprove of boyfriends age.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Today's episode (11-27-13)

Who is in the wrong? The grandparents "Aaji and Nani" are against Saachi's boyfriend Dhruv and disown her if she doesn't listen to them. Aaji's mocking expression using it to her best defense. Negativity around in the Prabhu house automatically forces the family member to deliberately withdraw themselves from any conversations. Being disowned by your elders is a traumatic event. Saachi needs to remember that she is worthwhile, lovable, and important.

Dhruv felt abandonment, sadness, and anger. It is perfectly normal to feel all of these emotions and he need to take time to let these feelings out. His initial reaction when Saachi the woman he loves tells him that she's leaving. When Saachi says it's over Dhruv need to remember one very important thing. Those are simply words and they don't necessarily reflect what she is feeling. It is in the heat of the moment and later she will regret. Don't assume that just because Saachi feels that she doesn't want a future with him right now, that she'll always feel that.

Dhruv willing to give Saachi time and space, even though both want to smooth things over as soon as possible, he has to afford her some distance.

Dilz a friend who helps out when Saachi and Dhruv are in trouble is a true friend unlike others who disappear when trouble arises. Her words of encouragement during the cloudy days, especially when they come from a friend who knows them well, and is there by their side without any cynical and judgmental attitude.

Dhruv, Saachi, Dilz receive bonus points in today's episode for their Outstanding Performance! They also looked very elegant in their wear!

Mugdha and Yadav gave wonderful moral support to Saachi.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Grannies have been carried away by the cheap and vulgar picture given by Ulka. Its sad they don't trust their girl and understand her feelings. They think she did this out of desperation of not being married 😲😡
It happens to many of us in life. Close family members give more pain than outsiders.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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both aaji and nani need time to accept it.DV should also seek help from his family to convince them if they r okay with saachi
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post kalpana
I think Aaji nani seeing d scenario frm ulka's point of view bcz she analysed d whole situation n Saruv relationship as cheap.
Bt still d reaction is very exaggerated ..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post dear!

Aaji Naani came under ulka's influence. It would have been better had Saruv themselves told them abt their love.. but lest hope for the best!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Priyamvada

Great post dear!

Aaji Naani came under ulka's influence. It would have been better had Saruv themselves told them abt their love.. but lest hope for the best!




Fingers crossed 😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wonderful analysis kalpana..
I thnk saachi wud realize her mistake soon tat a future widout dhruv z imposible 4 her..nd the family needs 2 realize tat 2..
rejecting a boyfrnd just cx of his age z nt fair..
hope everythng settles soon
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post Kalpana. Agree with you totally.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ak75

Grannies have been carried away by the cheap and vulgar picture given by Ulka. Its sad they don't trust their girl and understand her feelings. They think she did this out of desperation of not being married😲😡

It happens to many of us in life. Close family members give more pain than outsiders.

soo true!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i felt how Dilz was defending sanchi infront of colony people, it should have been ideally done by her family.
sanchi has always stood by her family and sacrificed her own happiness everytime for her family and its sad that noone in her family appreciates that. if nothing else, they could atleast give a chance to sanchi to explain her view point. i feel their reaction that they have stopped talking to her etc is very wrong.

someone who has loved u so much, has devoted her whole life for u, and u cant even listen to her wishes, atleast trust her she wont do wrong

im very disappointed with their reaction.

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