How will Emily feel if her dream is taken from her

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Emily tells that if Sandhya loses , she will lose only her dream and Sooraj will take care of her. Does she know the value of some dreams? What if she loses her dream. Her dream is to have a good future for her child. What if she loses that? I mean miscarriage or a fright of miscarriage. Will she realize what does a dream mean? Will she know what it is to take someone's dream away from them intentionally? What do you think. What will make Emily realize taking away someone dreams can result in fate taking away your own dream?

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..Anusha.. thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Can you compare losing a child with any thing else?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anushaji I am not comparing. But understand that they are enough women in the world who dont mind doing an abortion for their career , or are not that excited about pregnancy as they were not prepared for it or it just happened. So for such women if a natural miscarriage happens they wont be shattered, they will feel sad but get on with life as for them career at that point is more important than the child. Dont tell me it is not like that and every woman is super excited to be a mother. That's a myth
But on the other hand a woman who is prepared to be a mother, whose world revolves around that , their dream is about the baby a natural miscarriage is shattering. Emily belongs to this category.
So priorities for different woman at different stages differ. Telling that to let go of a career dream will not be shattering because Sandhya is a woman does not appeal to me. No person has the right to tell what is important for other and as per me if you try to take something important for other person intentionally, then fate should take what is most important to you.
There is a saying in Malyalam " Pottene chetti chathical, chettiye Daivam chathikum"( It means if you betray an innocent person, God will betray you)
Edited by shruthiravi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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ur absolutely right! emily dsnt realise the importance of a person life dream! she wld only learn that lesson the hard way, that is by losing what she holds dear n has made her life's mission.. right now that wld be mohit reciprocating her love n 2nd her baby(if she is those type of women who is ready n emotionally attached during her pregnancy)!

btw how many mnths wld em's pregnancy be by now? just curious coz i havnt a clue
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shruthi, Emily is desperate. She is pregnant and afraid she will be thrown out by Mohit. She has had a love marriage and her parents will blame her for the mess. She can neither go for an abortion nor can she think of divorce. She is not sure Bhabo will support her vis a vis her son. Bhabo has not given her any impression that she will support her till the end. If she complains about Mohit to SurYa she is afraid his resentment and indifference towards her will increase. The society in which she lives is very regressive and unkind to divorcees and single mothers.What do you expect her to do given the circumstances ? In her position anybody would think that dreams are not as important as saving a dying marriage. Sandhya has a supportive husband , with time she will console herself but her child will be brought up fatherless. From her stand point I don't think she is wrong in what she says. People may view her as selfish but to my mind at the end of the day we all look at our self interest before others. To take a single sided view is wrong.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shruthi, I'm not super excited to be a mother. It's a lot of hard work and responsibility. As for whether people lose their babies or not, I'd rather not play God.
End of the day, Sandy is going to become Sandhya IPS. So it's a settled question for me.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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shruthi
iam sorry for making this serious post a fun post
i doubt whether she is pregnant
neither the cvs showed anything serious about it nor i can see teh physical change in her

pregnancy is confirmed at least after 45 days,
the day she fell unconscious in the market was before teh gaav track that is during the month of march
its already 4 months after that
by now she should be 5 months preggy
but her physic remains the same

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Posted: 12 years ago
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thala dabh calendar wont match with real one.emily may be 3 months preggy
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If you ask any woman, one can endure the "pain of giving up her ambition" but not "pain of losing unborn child". It's damn hell terrible pain and top off it society/relatives are ready to taunt/torture the woman for not being able to deliver baby successfully.

Ems is doing all this out of her "ignorance".. but for this "losing unborn child" is really rude punishment. I know we don't have control over birth/death but still from bottom my heart I'll never wish any woman go thru such a phase in her life be it reel/real life!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think Bhabho and Mohit are being extremely cruel pushing Emily into this competition and putting this much pressure. Mohit is being a terrible jerk. Bhabho, if she had any real concern or humanity could have told Emily that she has overheard the chit fund convo and that she realizes that it was not Emily's fault. She could have encouraged them to be more responsible in the future. She could have made it so that Mohit pays back with tuition money slowly. Anyway no one else in the family knows about chit fund loss so Mohit would not be losing face.That is how a real mother would behave. Bhabho is on a mission to defeat Sandy and cares nothing about MoMlii or the child.


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