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Posted: 12 years ago
I wanted to make a separate post to address this issue because in the previous post I quoted masti and this isn't just towards that member.

Someone said (I think hillydilly or pari87) said that members should be allowed to post without any issues or bashing their opinions.

Then why are members being called " insane" for their posts? Why are members called "annoying bugs" for posting? What do the members who defended Ilovedhanjalird in the other topic about being bashed have to say about this member ilovedhanjanird calling me several times in different topics and other members "annoying bugs " ? Isn't this attacking and bullying?

Why can't members freely post without being called insane or annoying bugs?
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: sk11

I wanted to make a separate post to address this issue because in the previous post I quoted masti and this isn't just towards that member.


Someone said (I think hillydilly or pari87) said that members should be allowed to post without any issues or bashing their opinions.

Then why are members being called " insane" for their posts? Why are members called "annoying bugs" for posting? What do the members who defended Ilovedhanjalird in the other topic about being bashed have to say about this member ilovedhanjanird calling me several times in different topics and other members "annoying bugs " ? Isn't this attacking and bullying?

Why can't members freely post without being called insane or annoying bugs?

Sky, couldn't you have left me out of this?????...Geez...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: hillydee

Sky, couldn't you have left me out of this?????...Geez... You know what forget it, what was I expecting anyway...Geez

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: hillydee

Sky, couldn't you have left me out of this?????...Geez...


Sk11*** hillydee

Nah yaar, you aren't in it. I just couldn't remember between you two who said it when I posted. Hey, at least I openly say things!

Edit: i didn't know you had expectations of me since we never met and do not know each other. Sorry to disappoint you with my realness tho...


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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: sk11


Sk11*** hillydee

Nah yaar, you aren't in it. I just couldn't remember between you two who said it when I posted. Hey, at least I openly say things!

Edit: i didn't know you had expectations of me since we never met and do not know each other. Sorry to disappoint you with my realness tho...


I was being sarcastic, why would I have any expectations of you?...You are too funny😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: sk11

I wanted to make a separate post to address this issue because in the previous post I quoted masti and this isn't just towards that member.


Someone said (I think hillydilly or pari87) said that members should be allowed to post without any issues or bashing their opinions.

Then why are members being called " insane" for their posts? Why are members called "annoying bugs" for posting? What do the members who defended Ilovedhanjalird in the other topic about being bashed have to say about this member ilovedhanjanird calling me several times in different topics and other members "annoying bugs " ? Isn't this attacking and bullying?

Why can't members freely post without being called insane or annoying bugs?


Sk11,

I did not comment on you, your post, or on this thread about opinions or issues by members. So do not drag my name into this post.

But your last question was directed generally, so I will give my two cents.


Generally speaking, yes, members can say whatever the hell they please. Name calling by others is not cool. And if you have a problem, report it.

On Varsha di's post, I see nothing that attacks you. She has not quoted you, or used your name and there are 37 pages before her post, so for you to assume she is talking about you, is your deal, not hers. She could be talking in general too, because it is not uncommon to make general statements in your posts. You brought up and old post into this thread, same way she could have been referring to a post claiming ovi's baby's death is karma. So if you assume something without evidence, then, there is no case here.

And as for her post, she did not call people or anyone in particular insane, she called the thought process of wishing a dead child as karma insane. Which in my humble opinion, it is. now that is my opinion in general. Not you, not anyone in particular on this forum.

so, should I be able to say what I think too? Without people assuming I am talking about them? Even if do not quote anyone or use their name in my post?

It is as simple as that. If someone quotes you and attacks your personally or calls you names, go ahead and report it. But if you want to make assumptions out of nothing, but something as small as her comment 3 mins after yours, then you simply stirring controversy where there is none.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: hillydee

I was being sarcastic, why would I have any expectations of you?...You are too funny😆


Gotta work on the sarcasm friend...

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: pari87


Sk11,

I did not comment on you, your post, or on this thread about opinions or issues by members. So do not drag my name into this post.

But your last question was directed generally, so I will give my two cents.


Generally speaking, yes, members can say whatever the hell they please. Name calling by others is not cool. And if you have a problem, report it.

On Varsha di's post, I see nothing that attacks you. She has not quoted you, or used your name and there are 37 pages before her post, so for you to assume she is talking about you, is your deal, not hers. She could be talking in general too, because it is not uncommon to make general statements in your posts. You brought up and old post into this thread, same way she could have been referring to a post claiming ovi's baby's death is karma. So if you assume something without evidence, then, there is no case here.

And as for her post, she did not call people or anyone in particular insane, she called the thought process of wishing a dead child as karma insane. Which in my humble opinion, it is. now that is my opinion in general. Not you, not anyone in particular on this forum.

so, should I be able to say what I think too? Without people assuming I am talking about them? Even if do not quote anyone or use their name in my post?

It is as simple as that. If someone quotes you and attacks your personally or calls you names, go ahead and report it. But if you want to make assumptions out of nothing, but something as small as her comment 3 mins after yours, then you simply stirring controversy where there is none.


Dabulls began speaking of how purvi got her karma.
Then I posted and said ovi got hers too and I'm happy purvi is getting hers.
Dabulls posted right after my posts nd began by saying "Yup, bad ovi got ..."

Now who is she agreeing with? Next her initial post was nearly an hour before mine. The next one right after and was related to the subject of my post. Nobody was talking about karma before.

And next thing:
I never said in my post that I approve or I wish a stillborn upon ovi or anyone in particular. But Dabulls inferred or assumed I did.

So how am I creating controversy out of nothing? Clearly she said YUP and thus answering my post. Unless there's another post in this topic where someone specifically said" ovi deserved her stillborn bc it's her karma and I'm happy and approve"

If this is the case, then this will end here.

Next, you don't need to quote or address specifically to attack. Personal attacks occur outside of this and I think you'd agree. Ilovedhanjanird has called me an "annoying bug" on several topic specifically quoting me too since that matters so much.




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Posted: 12 years ago
I would never call you annoying , had you not gone to the other thread to bash me. I called you an annoying bug because you're one. In the other thread where I was being bashed, older people who are suppose to have more maturity went in and joined in, encouraged others' posts and "LIKED" it.
I call you annoying because I did not quote you, but you SUGGEST me to stop watching the show because I said I don't like Purvi and I would slap her.
Coming to my point, I think you should stop making an issue out of everything because the group that is against Arvi will not match your opinion and just because Dabbuls23 said "insane" in the post does not mean it refers to YOU.
It could be anyone, there have been 100000 posts saying Ovi deserved it.
For stating their opinion, no one should be called "insane" but rejoicing someone's death, is not humane either.
I know this is fiction, but some of us, take matters seriously even if we watch it for entertainment. Death is not a joke, whether it is in fiction or in reality.
My question is why would you come to the other thread and partake in bashing? Okay, I called you annoying, so are you becoming non annoying by commenting there with all the lifeless ones who have nothing better to do than to observe my username and my activities in this forum lol
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

I would never call you annoying , had you not gone to the other thread to bash me. I called you an annoying bug because you're one. In the other thread where I was being bashed, older people who are suppose to have more maturity went in and joined in, encouraged others' posts and "LIKED" it.

I call you annoying because I did not quote you, but you SUGGEST me to stop watching the show because I said I don't like Purvi and I would slap her.
Coming to my point, I think you should stop making an issue out of everything because the group that is against Arvi will not match your opinion and just because Dabbuls23 said "insane" in the post does not mean it refers to YOU.
It could be anyone, there have been 100000 posts saying Ovi deserved it.
For stating their opinion, no one should be called "insane" but rejoicing someone's death, is not humane either.
I know this is fiction, but some of us, take matters seriously even if we watch it for entertainment. Death is not a joke, whether it is in fiction or in reality.
My question is why would you come to the other thread and partake in bashing? Okay, I called you annoying, so are you becoming non annoying by commenting there with all the lifeless ones who have nothing better to do than to observe my username and my activities in this forum lol


Ok you can bash me now for quoting you i can care less.
She is an annoying bug just because she is not in favor of your favorite Ovi na? Anyone against Ovi is an annoying bug according to you i'm one too cause i hate her 😃. And you are a chameleon, show your different true colors in every tread.
And i can say it any time i want, i'm happy Ovi child died cause a woman like her deserves nothing less. Call me inhumane, insane a bit#h (whatever you want) i am one get over it.

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