gurmeet old interview(got from fb)

Gurmeet Choudhary played lord Ram in ramayayan and followed it up with a stint on the reality show pati patni aur who' alongside fianc debina bonnerjee, who he has been seeing for the past six years. Right now, he is busy winning hearts with his portrayal of the angry young man, Maan in Geet. When I interact with Gurmeet, I understand why he was an apt choice for his role in Ramayana. Down to earth, humble and a simple person by heart, Gurmeet's sober personality reflects in his replies and though he does get a little scandalized by our bold questions, he sportingly answers them all. So to know his views on love society and life, read on'.

Tell us about your first attraction.

It was way back in school and it was a really childish attraction. I had a crush on this south Indian girl. I found her very attractive. I remember she used to live near my house. Unfortunately, I never knew how to begin a conversation with her.

What was your first date like? How far would you go on a first date?

My first date was with my girlfriend and now fiance Debina. It was amazing. That was the time I realized, I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. How far would go on a first date? Well I cant reveal that!

What would you wear on a hot date?

I would dress up casually and wear a jeans and a shirt, with a few buttons open.

Would you call yourself a flirt?

Not at all. I don't think I flirt.

What is your take on one night stands?

To each his own. If you ask me, I don't agree on one-night stands. I am a little too conservative on that. But if people are indulging in it, its their prerogative.

Have you been attracted to someone of the same sex ever?

No way. I am not attracted to the same sex. When there are so many beautiful women around, why will I get attracted to men?

Has a guy ever hit on you?

Yes. But I didn't reciprocate. I may it clear that I don't swing that way. Such things happen and its okay as far as one doesn't go overboard.

What is your take on bi-sexuality and homosexuality?

I don't want to enforce my opinion and thoughts on somebody else. If you ask me, I am okay with somebody being a homosexual or a bisexual. Its their life and their sexual preference. As long as that somebody doesn't mess with me, I am fine with their homosexuality and bisexuality.

What turns you on in a woman?

The most important thing that turns me on in a woman is her intelligence. It always helps if she looks good and is attractive.

How would you react, if a girl made a pass at you?

I would feel extremely shy. But I would definitely feel flattered.

What are your views on pre-marital sex?

Again, I think its subjective. To each his own. I guess pre-marital sex is okay, as long as you marry that person. If you are not serious about your partner or are in a frivolous relationship, then it should be avoided.

Do you think men always have sex on their minds?

No I don't think so. I think that is a very stereotypical opinion. Men do have sex on their minds, but not always. We have other things on our minds too, like work and money.

How much importance would you give to sex in a relationship?

I give my 100% to everything I do. I believe in a relationship, all aspects are equally important. So I would say that sex is very important, if you want to have a healthy, happy relationship.

Do you see yourself in a purely physical relationship?

No. I can't be in a purely physical relationship. I need to be emotionally and mentally involved with my partner.

Do you think nice guys have a hard time finding the right girl?

I don't think that assumption is true. I had it rather easy and I was only 20. I started seeing Debina, when both of us were 20 years old. That was a pretty early age to get a girlfriend. So, I can get the right girl, I don't see why the other nice guys cant. They just have to wait for the right moment.

Why do men love bitches?

Some men love a spanking after being scraped of all the money and honey from their life! So may that's why they love bitches.

Have you experienced the casting couch?

Yes, actually, I have seen it, but never experienced it. But I can vouch for the fact that it exists in this industry.

Showbizz entities are assumed to be loose. How would you react to such assumptions?

I don't mind or care about any kinds of assumptions. People will talk whatever they want. I just hold on tightly to what I have and I am happy as far as the people who matter to me know how I am. I wont change myself no matte what people think.

Would you take back your partner who has strayed in a relationship if she regretted it later?

I may take my partner back. Actually it depends on the situation.

What is your opinion on open marriages/open relationships?

Again I don't believe in such concepts. Why be in a relationship or marriage if you don't want to be loyal? It doesn't make any sense.

Tell is about your wildest fantasy.

I wouldn't wanna share my wildest fantasy in the open. It is too wild to talk about.