Calm down it is not Abuse, RK isn't evil!

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Posted: 11 years ago
What is wrong with people thinking that RK is being abusive or disgusting or physically 'beating' Madhu. This isn't real life, it's reel life and we aren't watching a wife beater. and before some self righteous person posts about mental torture and mental abuse, this isn't that either. Madhu isn't being tortured or broken, yes she is hurt and upset but she is just an angry and spiteful towards RK although in her instance it's warranted. 

You all need to relax, what we are seeing is what RK has been doing all along, it's the only way he knows how to fix things, like he said to Madhu, he isn't normal, his methods are never normal.

It's a tv show and more over the characters of both RK and Madhu have extremes, Madhu gives as good as she gets which is why RK admires her tenacity and attitude. We're all adults and know that this is a tv show for our entertainment purposes, these characters are melodramatic sketches and nothing is to be taken so seriously.

RK wasn't forcing her in a physical manner, he knows that right now the only way he can even think about fixing things and redeem himself is by getting Madhu in front of him so that she will listen.

How can he redeem himself when Madhu won't even listen to him, and no this isn't a serial where a character like RK will just sit back and send flowers to her, he's not written and etched that way.

Yes what he is doing is petulant and childish but that is how RK does everything, even when he was uniting Madhu's parents he took the step of concocting a story of both of them being in accidents, he does things in big grand filmy style and hence why he felt that the only way he can bring home Madhu is by literally picking her up.

When he's with madhu, when he was putting on the Holi did you not see how gentle he was with her, when he lowers her defences and anger and when she actually looks at him and isn't fighting him off he is very tender and gentle with her.

But right now Madhu is angry, she's hurt and wants to ignore her pain rather than deal with it, she thinks that by forgetting RK and avoiding him everything will be OK, but really she's not being honest with herself either, she's not tackling the issue of dealing with her heartbreak and emotions., she's just done what her sister and mum told her to and that is to be strong and move forward. But in life you cannot move forward unless you deal with your past.

RK isn't beating her, and nor would he, he's trying to do what he feels he can to make her see that he is trying to make amends.

IF he can get her to listen, then maybe we might see him try to redeem himself and better himself. 

The guy is only now learning to soften up with his Mum after years of ignoring her, so obviously it's going to take some time for things to get right between him and Madhu.



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Posted: 11 years ago
Awesome agree with each word. Kudos to u for this post. Rk is not the villain..agree
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Posted: 11 years ago
agree with you.i cant stand others bashing RK anymore.
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Awesome post
totally agree...
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Posted: 11 years ago
people know that this is only a serial but do not forget that some young people are impressionable and I think it is not very moral to show a woman being morally abused by a man. And I can tell you that the moral violence is very painful ... what is shocking is that people can love a monster like rk, this is not normal, it is disrespectful to people and God, insult the poor, speak badly to everyone, not to mention bittu slap, he ruined the holi for Aryan has not even thanked Sultan for help the day of the car accident. How can we appreciate a character like that? We watch TV to relax, move and have a good time, not to see a horrible man insulted everyone.
the producers will eventually react but I think many fans of the serial are disgusted. The producers had everything to make a fantastic story with madhu and rk and they blew it, they will lose a lot of viewers, it's already begun.and if viewers do not watch the serial, it will be stopped. It is engraved for the actors who will be unemployed, viewers find other series to watchπŸ˜›
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Posted: 11 years ago
It's definitely no abuse;and although she might not want to return back now, how many of us actually believe she wouldn't forgive RK given enough time spent with him. I for one, know for a fact that Madhubala can and will forgive RK so i really have no qualms whatsoever with him forcing her to come home. This was really the only way, she wouldn't have walked on in after what he did to her with her dignity intact so it's good that RK made it easier on her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
totally loving it. he himself said he is not normal.
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Posted: 11 years ago
Awesome post...RK is definitely not a villian.  Love this said about Madhu:
 
But right now Madhu is angry, she's hurt and wants to ignore her pain rather than deal with it, she thinks that by forgetting RK and avoiding him everything will be OK, but really she's not being honest with herself either, she's not tackling the issue of dealing with her heartbreak and emotions., she's just done what her sister and mum told her to and that is to be strong and move forward. But in life you cannot move forward unless you deal with your past.

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Posted: 11 years ago
though im used to RK bashing on dis forum now but it still bothers sometimes..idk why people can't understand d difference btw reel n real life characters..
very nice post..πŸ‘
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: nazmobile

What is wrong with people thinking that RK is being abusive or disgusting or physically 'beating' Madhu. This isn't real life, it's reel life and we aren't watching a wife beater. and before some self righteous person posts about mental torture and mental abuse, this isn't that either. Madhu isn't being tortured or broken, yes she is hurt and upset but she is just an angry and spiteful towards RK although in her instance it's warranted. 

You all need to relax, what we are seeing is what RK has been doing all along, it's the only way he knows how to fix things, like he said to Madhu, he isn't normal, his methods are never normal.

It's a tv show and more over the characters of both RK and Madhu have extremes, Madhu gives as good as she gets which is why RK admires her tenacity and attitude. We're all adults and know that this is a tv show for our entertainment purposes, these characters are melodramatic sketches and nothing is to be taken so seriously.

RK wasn't forcing her in a physical manner, he knows that right now the only way he can even think about fixing things and redeem himself is by getting Madhu in front of him so that she will listen.

How can he redeem himself when Madhu won't even listen to him, and no this isn't a serial where a character like RK will just sit back and send flowers to her, he's not written and etched that way.

Yes what he is doing is petulant and childish but that is how RK does everything, even when he was uniting Madhu's parents he took the step of concocting a story of both of them being in accidents, he does things in big grand filmy style and hence why he felt that the only way he can bring home Madhu is by literally picking her up.

When he's with madhu, when he was putting on the Holi did you not see how gentle he was with her, when he lowers her defences and anger and when she actually looks at him and isn't fighting him off he is very tender and gentle with her.

But right now Madhu is angry, she's hurt and wants to ignore her pain rather than deal with it, she thinks that by forgetting RK and avoiding him everything will be OK, but really she's not being honest with herself either, she's not tackling the issue of dealing with her heartbreak and emotions., she's just done what her sister and mum told her to and that is to be strong and move forward. But in life you cannot move forward unless you deal with your past.

RK isn't beating her, and nor would he, he's trying to do what he feels he can to make her see that he is trying to make amends.

IF he can get her to listen, then maybe we might see him try to redeem himself and better himself. 

The guy is only now learning to soften up with his Mum after years of ignoring her, so obviously it's going to take some time for things to get right between him and Madhu.
 



Calm down it is not Abuse, RK isn't evil!

Excellent post.πŸ‘