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Posted: 12 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anita - Thanks for the update😊


I have already thanked for the update.

I got sidetracked in my previous post while trying to decipher the JAAN and completely forgot to mention my take on the episode.😆

Singhs wanting to spend some quality time with A before she left Jaitsar was a very understandable.
But they could informed J of their plans.J would have prepared himself to face the situation.
Coming to Ganga - Sometimes she takes too much of liberty.She is just an outsider.They may have given her the background details.No one has actually discussed the relationship they have with Anandi.
Only J had discussed his relationship with A with her.But that still does not give her the right to question A why she is not preparing J's favourite dish.I think she was way out of line when she questioned A on that.

Shiv hugging J is really not needed.Understand he feels bad for J but still there are otherways to convey his empathy.😆But I guess this was to show how different Shiv is when compared with Gauri.

As for the AnSh scene.It was a nice scene.I wish they made it a little more lively.The bunny scene need not have been there.As for J rushing to terrace to witness their interaction is a much needed reality check for J.
He may know that S is the right man for A and he has lost A for ever but he still cannot help feeling the way he does about her.
This is battle between his resolve to move on in life and his desire to cling on to his memories and his weakness for A
I guess this scene was meant to tell what all thing he needs to fight when he is moving on life.

As for the scene with the family and A - This I guess is to make T connect with Anandi.
But I wish they made similar efforts to connect her with grown up Anandi too not just the child Anandi.

Shanky's performance was good and he was bang on with his expressions.
Toral is improving but lot more is needed from her side to make Anandi look convincing.









Aparna, when I read your first post explaining Ja-An relationship, I was actually waiting to know 'your take' for the episode.
Agree with you, Ganga is shown to take more liberty than required. I also didn't get why she asked A to make something special for J.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anita - Thanks for the update😊


I have already thanked for the update.

I got sidetracked in my previous post while trying to decipher the JAAN and completely forgot to mention my take on the episode.😆

Singhs wanting to spend some quality time with A before she left Jaitsar was a very understandable.
But they could informed J of their plans.J would have prepared himself to face the situation.
Coming to Ganga - Sometimes she takes too much of liberty.She is just an outsider.They may have given her the background details.No one has actually discussed the relationship they have with Anandi.
Only J had discussed his relationship with A with her.But that still does not give her the right to question A why she is not preparing J's favourite dish.I think she was way out of line when she questioned A on that.

Shiv hugging J is really not needed.Understand he feels bad for J but still there are otherways to convey his empathy.😆But I guess this was to show how different Shiv is when compared with Gauri.

As for the AnSh scene.It was a nice scene.I wish they made it a little more lively.The bunny scene need not have been there.As for J rushing to terrace to witness their interaction is a much needed reality check for J.
He may know that S is the right man for A and he has lost A for ever but he still cannot help feeling the way he does about her.
This is battle between his resolve to move on in life and his desire to cling on to his memories and his weakness for A
I guess this scene was meant to tell what all thing he needs to fight when he is moving on life.

As for the scene with the family and A - This I guess is to make T connect with Anandi.
But I wish they made similar efforts to connect her with grown up Anandi too not just the child Anandi.

Shanky's performance was good and he was bang on with his expressions.
Toral is improving but lot more is needed from her side to make Anandi look convincing.











I read ur previous post in this w/u. Perfect analysis.
@bold This is an indication to the viewers that anandi is finally and completely moved on. The third person only can raise that question to A. In the singh's family only ganga is an outsider.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well i really don't understand how come seeing AnSh and be in pain will help Jagaya accept reality😳i am still not understanding this logic because only proper time and SPACE ( most important) given to a person he forgets everything and pain becomes so light that he don't feel anything later so here time and space is required and justice always happen when a person is wrong divine justice will fall on him i don't think on a good person really this kind of justice should happen This becomes injustice here 😳


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: vidya0000


I read ur previous post in this w/u. Perfect analysis.
@bold This is an indication to the viewers that anandi is finally and completely moved on. The third person only can raise that question to A. In the singh's family only ganga is an outsider.

A has moved on as far as J is concerned.But she is part of Singh family.Her place in the family is very much similar to thta of Suguna but it is special because it is a relationship that changed it's nature.Ganga is an outsider.
Ganga still has no right to question A.I do not think anyone has given her the right to question A on her relationship with J.I don't think even J has given Ganga that right to question A.
She may be a friend of J but still she crossed a line here.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

A has moved on as far as J is concerned.But she is part of Singh family.Her place in the family is very much similar to thta of Suguna but it is special because it is a relationship that changed it's nature.Ganga is an outsider.
Ganga still has no right to question A.I do not think anyone has given her the right to question A on her relationship with J.I don't think even J has given Ganga that right to question A.
She may be a friend of J but still she crossed a line here.

but Sugna here would have cooked food for Jagaya hasn't she 😆The family is one they cannot be divided in two parts for Anandi and Jagaya here where both of them are strangers to each other so in my view Ganga only asked from Anandi because she was being considerate to Jagaya here he would join dinner as well but nothing for him and secondly she wanted to know Anandi's reaction about what Jagaya said to Anandi recently has it changed their relation did it affect it because when she came to home , they were being friends , perfectly comfortable in each other's company if Anandi hasn't come to lecture Jagaya , her lecture wouldn't have forced those words out of Jagaya's mouth today i believe Anandi would have cooked his favorite meal so Ganga only wanted to know the recent incident did it change their relation from the one she saw and she was thinking about her dactaar saa nothing for him
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Mahi its not the question of J overcoming his hurt feelings by seeing A and S. Its about J accepting the fact that A is not only married but is also in love with her husband. No one knows A more than J and knowing her he will be sure deep down in his heart that she will not be able to love anyone else. She will fulfill all the duties of a wife but the love bond may not come to her. This was also what A thought before the wedding if you remember. With this feeling in his mind he will never be able to overcome his pain since one corner of his mind will be subconsciously feeling that A still feels something for him. Hence A saying that she loves S did come as a shocker to him which Shashank portrayed very beautifully. Seeing the romantic relationship between the couple will only reinforce this feeling till it sinks into him. Or else he would be in constant denial. Anyway he has seen and heard the reality and this in my opinion is also one of the reasons for his sadness. Him getting over A will now become a lot easier. From here onwards, yes I agree he need not be in constant touch with A or S and the time and space given to him will go a long way in helping him starting a fresh. This is what I have felt since J is only slowly discovering himself and is not yet fully stable mentally.

I am off to bed so if there are any further discussions I will express my POV in the Sat's WU thread. 😆.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: mahi12

but Sugna here would have cooked food for Jagaya hasn't she 😆The family is one they cannot be divided in two parts for Anandi and Jagaya here where both of them are strangers to each other so in my view Ganga only asked from Anandi because she was being considerate to Jagaya here he would join dinner as well but nothing for him and secondly she wanted to know Anandi's reaction about what Jagaya said to Anandi recently has it changed their relation did it affect it because when she came to home , they were being friends , perfectly comfortable in each other's company if Anandi hasn't come to lecture Jagaya , her lecture wouldn't have forced those words out of Jagaya's mouth today i believe Anandi would have cooked his favorite meal so Ganga only wanted to know the recent incident did it change their relation from the one she saw and she was thinking about her dactaar saa nothing for him


Mahi - I think A would have gotten into trouble if she cooked for him and she would get into trouble if she did not.That is between Singh Parivar and A and how they handle it.DS obviously did not want A to cook for him that too after knowing how J still feels about A.It was right on A's part on not wanting to cook for J.
But the issue here is whether it was right on Ganga's part to question A.
Why should A tell Ganga what her reaction to J's declaration is?Who is Ganga to A?
Ganga has no right to ask the question.
Ganga is an outsider as far as Singh Parivar is concerned and as far as JA relationship equation is concerned.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Anita ...i still differ because this whole scenario was unnecessary The thing is now after AnSh going to Udaipur space will be provided to Jagaya so he will get over everything so the main thing here is still space which provided even now would have solved everything Anandi can't stop making him feel she feels anything for him until she won't stop interfering in his life trying to do things for him. When she will stop that he will automatically stop thinking she hold's such feeling for him The Godmother that she always tries to be his she needs to leave that and leave him only for his family he will stop considering she holds any feelings for him That shock when she revealed her love for Shiv was not for this he has accepted in him that she won't love anyone ever but it was only a thing reminded to him that hurt him When he has accepted she can marry anyone so how he can be in denial mode she won't love her husband ?When this feeling slink in him in acceptance she is married to someone not his wife anymore so this feeling she won't love anyone is no point in my view sorry but i am still not any iota of convinced 😆 when space and proper time is gonna help him in actual then this even provided to him now will solve everything When he has enforced in him she has married that too out of her own choice refusing to accept him back in her life the biggest and most painful thing he accepted to this is no point that he needs to accept she loves her husband too when he accepted marriage so automatically he will accept that with him 😆and Anandi cannot stop him considering she holds any feelings for him until she won't stop interfering in his life doing things for him even he doesn't ask for In this way she herself is making sure to him she holds something for him like in their relation for so long
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma


Mahi - I think A would have gotten into trouble if she cooked for him and she would get into trouble if she did not.That is between Singh Parivar and A and how they handle it.DS obviously did not want A to cook for him that too after knowing how J still feels about A.It was right on A's part on not wanting to cook for J.
But the issue here is whether it was right on Ganga's part to question A.
Why should A tell Ganga what her reaction to J's declaration is?Who is Ganga to A?
Ganga has no right to ask the question.
Ganga is an outsider as far as Singh Parivar is concerned and as far as JA relationship equation is concerned.

no i am not saying Anandi should have cooked for him right now but i am only saying circumstances which took such a twist Had this terrace incident would not have happened , the remarriage torture on J also not happened exclude this whole scenario lets take a look at Shekhars dinner party with Singhs, J happy A very happy , if these recent incidents would not have happened continuing from that Shekhars dinner party if Anandi would have come for night;'s stay here then i do believe this whole scenario would be different Anandi would have cooked for J then , J would not be crying but be very happy so in my view Ganga was only trying to know this had their relation which was so friendly and comfortable few days ago before these recent incidents has it changed ?Yes she has no right she has even no right to lecture J for marriage so much that he has to yell at her she is pretty naive like a child who doesn't know the limitations because she was never told she grew up on her own never given that sort of upbrininging like A has
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

A has moved on as far as J is concerned.But she is part of Singh family.Her place in the family is very much similar to thta of Suguna but it is special because it is a relationship that changed it's nature.Ganga is an outsider.
Ganga still has no right to question A.I do not think anyone has given her the right to question A on her relationship with J.I don't think even J has given Ganga that right to question A.
She may be a friend of J but still she crossed a line here.



In yesterday's episode see when A decided to cook food for everyone's taste the viewers will have that curiosity to know what she is going to prepare for j. It is obvious. But, here ds and singh's fly members cannot ask A has she cooked anything for j. Only third person can ask that question casually so here ganga asked (as anandhi and ganga are not strangers) . followed by they flashed the sabji scene of jagya too to show that she completely moved on. Hope cv's follow their this logic in the upcoming trks of jagya too.😕
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