Does Bhabho deserve Sooraj ??? - Page 9

@Samir, I am a daughter to one and a mother of two and I would love to agree with you but I don't.  Mother brings the child into this world (out of her desire...don't make me go there) so it is her BASIC responsibility to rear the child.  I do respect mine but I would never expect my kids to respect me just because I feed them and take care of them.  That is my job.  They did not ask to be born.  They are a consequence of decisions that mom and dad took...

@Samir and ladyterp    Nice discussion. I know the topic discussed here is on general role of parents and not DABH specific, I would like to make a small point. In traditional India having sons is like an insurance for  old age and among poor having children means more hands to work. People have sons so that they can be looked after in old age when they are unable to work. The expectation even though ideally should not be there and love for your child should be unconditional is definitely huge.This is one of the main reasons sons are treated superior to the daughters as daughters go away. Ladyterp, I totally agree with you, but ground realities are very different from what is an ideal position. The way Bhabo behaves in the story is not different from 99% of households in Hanuman Galli. That will change when you break away into a nuclear setup. Edited by UMDU - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ladyterp

@Samir, I am a daughter to one and a mother of two and I would love to agree with you but I don't.  Mother brings the child into this world (out of her desire...don't make me go there) so it is her BASIC responsibility to rear the child.  I do respect mine but I would never expect my kids to respect me just because I feed them and take care of them.  That is my job.  They did not ask to be born.  They are a consequence of decisions that mom and dad took...

Here you goes my POVs why Bhabho deserve Sooraj n vice-versa:-

*A mother is not a person to lean on, but a person to make leaning unnecessary.*

*The sweetest sounds to mortals given are heard in Mother, Home, and Heaven.*

I strongly believe:- Never marry a man who hates his mother, because he'll end up hating you..
M – For the MILLION things she gave me,
O – For she's growing OLD,
T – For the TEARS she shed to save me,
H – For her HEART of purest gold,
E – For her EYES, with love-light shining,
R – For she is always RIGHT and always be.

The Best, Which Touched:-
When I came home in the rain,
My Brother Asked: Why you didn't take an Umbrella.?
Sister advised:- Why didn't you wait till rain stopped?
Father(Angrily): Warned! only after getting cold, you'll realize.
Mother: while drying my Hair, said,
"STUPID RAIN! couldn't it wait, till my child came home."
That's (Mother)
THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PERSON ON THIS EARTH…
OUR BEST CRITIC …
YET OUR STRONGEST SUPPORTER…
"M O T H E R"

So Yes, Bhabho deserve Sooraj..

N don't forget when we're occupied by negative emotions - we often lose sense to interpret between what's wrong/right.😳.

N if son doesn't utter a word in front of his mother doesn't mean he's spineless or weak. Sooraj never allowed any kinda injustice happened to my sandy baby. Sooraj has its own ways to solve problems which I found more sensible, matured, non-violent. When mother n wife both are short tempered one need son/husband like Sooraj. Also, our society really need people like Sooraj who can put sense in people n maintain calmness in critical situations..

Originally posted by: ladyterp

@Samir, I am a daughter to one and a mother of two and I would love to agree with you but I don't. Mother brings the child into this world (out of her desire...don't make me go there) so it is her BASIC responsibility to rear the child. I do respect mine but I would never expect my kids to respect me just because I feed them and take care of them. That is my job. They did not ask to be born. They are a consequence of decisions that mom and dad took...

Zindabad!
Totally agree with you.

Ladyterp aunty di khair !

@Samah:- Why are you making hybrid aunty blushing so much?😲 Now tell me why you agree with her POV?

Originally posted by: ami_dabh

@Samah:- Why are you making hybrid aunty blushing so much?😲 Now tell me why you agree with her POV?

I like to make people blush.
I can't tell you

then why my puttar is not making me blush?😕

Originally posted by: June_Anne_Mary

then why my puttar is not making me blush?😕

You're hard to plush :(