I'm not making this post for verbal judo. Neither am I here to rationalize his actions in love nor create controversy. Just presenting my 5 cents opinion...
The qs. is ...Is Shiv's Sincere Love the coz of Ajee's serious Stress?
The answer is an emphatic NO😃😎
Lets get deep into the subject to understand AnSh & the CV's😆
Every time he tries to get closer to his Ajee, she makes a face as if she has been smacked in the face. I don't blame her for this. She has stayed with J who was afflicted with hubris😡
Yet man of the moment, Shiv forges ahead in full speed like Rajdhani express in Ajee zone as he wants to give her a very fulfilling experience of a married life from the word GO😆. His eyes are full of love and admiration for his lady love😳
Shiv Raj Shekhar is a man deeply in LOVE with his newly lawfully wedded wife😳. It is no secret that he feels strongly attracted to her and gradually the attraction has grown into deep admiration, respect and LOVE. He has successfully professed his love to his lovely wife in private as well as in front of all by putting payal on her feet and thus binding her to him.
Shiv is not wrong at all...he is not pushing but is trying to be PERFECT hubby in her eyes (according to his value system). He knows that she had loved J but she was cheated or dumped by J for other woman. So he gets it somewhere Ajee feels a bit inferior and hates herself for loving a man, who did not love her back.
He does not want Ajee to let go of her MORALS and sacrifice everything for him and his love. That is not his objective at all but he does not want her to feel that he has compromised and made a sacrifice by marrying her. If he gives her space that will mean he is trying to adjust according to her mood and whims. He has seen her sincerity in all things in life so he wants to be her sincere lover and partner. 😳
Later on she may say you sacrificed your first month of married life coz of my past. He wants her to feel loved that's why he mentioned about the expectation of the first night. Poor guy must be feeling like a trapeze artist. I feel somewhere in his mind, he has done the calculations of her past hurts and is doing all the touchy feely stuff to make her feel like a new bride...he is doing it for both of them. . . for their love filled future which they should not regret later they both missed out coz of some discomfort and shyness.
In the past she had only told him that she is ready to move ahead with him...in Ajee's own words... I don't want to change anything in the past nor do I want to go back there now. So he had told her if you are trying hard to forget the past and create a new chapter in your life I'll help you in leaping forward in AnSh Love Land. You just have to keep your eyes, ears, heart & head open.
Then she said talked about lagaav when Shiv had almost called off the wedding. She told him and the whole family loud and clear that he showed him..."LAGAAV ka roop"😳 which she has been craving for such a long time. Shiv gets it that she also loves him but is covering it up with respect Izzat & bharosa. He had said that I'll keep trying jaab tak vo mere pyar ko swikaar na kar le ...so man is on a mission now...he has declared his undying love for her. But the thing standing in the way of her dream and happiness is the person Ajee herself. She has to break away from you & me to "WE". Shiv has understood that she is pure but is not able to deal with the change very well, and this is a BIG change...accepting him as her hubby from mind , body and soul. So he is egging her. Her happiness and smile are very important to him and he wants her to be happy always so that together they can have a happy and beautiful life.
Anandi carefully locked the door after Ira left and obediently went back to her CS😉 and instead of taking orders ordered him to go and take shower and he did comply without any resistance with a smile on his lips😉. After he left she was stressed ... it can be rather stressful when you're unable to do your job to its fullest because of past bad memories😛.
Ajee is appearing to be in a state of shock at her own refusal to comply😉. This is happening as she is getting ruled by her head right now...she is doing the same mistake he had done during the J fiasco. He had admitted his faux pas and said... faisla mujhe dil se lena chaheye tha per maine adikar dimag ko di diya. Ajee is doing the same thing... Shiv is safely secure in her heart but she wants to keep him locked in safe deposit box. J is clouding her thoughts ...he is on her mind. Dahhh all the drama lies btw this dil aur dimag ka yudh.
But the end result of this highly melo dramatic questionable behavior of Shiv will break Ajee's silence & she'll confess whole heartedly..."I do love you CS, more than you actually know. I have loved you for a long time, I just cannot deal with change very well, and this is a change, me declaring my love for you as you are completely mine. You are beautiful in every way, and most of all, I want you to be happy so I can cherish you for all my life."
Drama drama hai re Rama for this confession 😲🤪
Let me know your views without hurling abuses and minus virtual karate chops😆.