Why do men think about SEX all the time? - Page 4

Originally posted by: _twilight_

Do the females fantasising get fogiven or are only males allowed to indulge and later forgiven for such involuntary thoughts

Originally posted by: joie de vivre

^I know right. Especially if one has never quite been sexually adventurous before - such as myself - the very prospect of manoeuvring through relationships seems bloody scary as hell. How on earth does one build trust etc with a man if you think he's primarily into you for the sex? It's especially harder to wrap your mind round these mores when one comes from a conservative background where sex is something people have after getting married. Sometimes, makes me glad I'm single, and even more determined to remain so for however long I possibly can (which can be forever, if I so wish). 

Then again, like female sexuality, male sexuality is something which is often discussed by bruiting about stereotypes. Women DO think about sex, some women probably think about sex with every fit male they clap their eyes on, some fantasise about sex with acquaintances or friends or potential boyfriends, some only think about having sex in committed relationships and some after marriage. There's no one pigeonhole into which billions of people can be shoved into simply owing to their gender.  If anything, such stereotypes make it harder for those who don't fit the description to navigate through the minefield of relationships. 

Originally posted by: Freethinker112

I have no problems with fantasies. But you should not indulge them if the other party is not willing, as it is illegal. And if you are voluntarily in a committed relationship, you should not act on it even if the person in your fantasies is willing.

Originally posted by: _twilight_

By indulge I meant only the 'thoughtful" ones  😆 or could you have meant to say that it is illegal to do that without consent of other party 😕 

Originally posted by: Freethinker112

You can "think" all you want. What I meant by indulging without the consent of the person you are fantasizing about was "rape".

Freethinker you mean you take consent from the person before fantasizing about her 😲 How on earth do you manage to do that dude 😲 

Originally posted by: Freethinker112

So, you are saying you are beautiful? 😉 😆

I used that term because attraction is a personal taste, and everybody likes different things. But if you are very pretty, i.e. if everyone considers you attractive, yes nearly every man that you met would have thought of having sex with you. It does not have to be so scary, as it can be separate from emotions, you see. I mean he can sometimes fantasize about you but that does not mean he is always thinking about it when he is with you. It's like it is a different part separate from emotions. Arrgh, it is difficult to explain. But yeah, no need to be scared so much. 

Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife

I am average looking I think.

Modesty ?😆 
Is there any manwho does not mentally have sex with every woman(Beautiful) he meets?

 

Of course there are 😃

And does the emotional part during sexual relationship have no importance to man?

I'll let Freethinker answer that one 😆