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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: dkatmala
It is not about agreeing or disagreeing, it is a matter of what is the real picture. When he said none of the family member should ask him to bring shyam back to home, the person whom he expected to support him and his ideas, just went against him and brought shyam back. You said about the "US factor", he did not feel that factor when she went against him. He said his house, he has even said that to his Di also before. In anger, we would say just anything. At that time what he was supposed to do, just ask Khushi kya kardiya tumne yeh, wah qabile tareef he, he cannot say that. I definitely respect your view point, but from this once incident, we cannot say that he has lust for khushi. If that was the case, then things would not have been in this shape. Once again, I am not arguing with you.

He said right, he said she is my sister, I know how to deal it. He said right. No one waited for him to handle the issue. Still I feel, it was his family matter without even asking a single word to him, she should not have done this. Whatever may be the case. She has love towards that family, I agree, but certain matters are much important than that.

Thank you.

Agree with what you have said. I have also said at he was right in being angry, upset and in yelling at Khushi. What I found distasteful was how he said it all... It was crass, IMO.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: venkata
Sorry i have to disagree with you. There is saying that in anger you blurt out some word which you can not taken back. Even i am married and if i have some disagreement or mu even he tells me to get out frm my home that does not mean that he do not love me or lust me. see whatever ASr has spoken today is out of anger.

@BOLD: That's the point! You can't take words back (in the initial episodes, Shyam had warned him about it once, if you remember). They have come such a long way in coming together and just this one sentence could hurt whatnprogress they have made! He reminded her tpyet again today, that this house was his! The logical thing would have been to "talk" about it, but knowing ASR that would be unthinkable. When you put together the fact that he has a short fuse and he is "in love" the logical thing (for me) wold have been for ASR to just ask Khushi to leave him alone! I would have gladly accepted that.

Just had to add... Regarding what your husband may have said in anger. Dunno how long you have been married and how you got married, but I would be really pi**ed if my hubby were to ever indicate something was more his than mine! And he knows it!

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: ipkknd_2011

Trust me, when I say I understand the meaning of love more than you do (at the very least!). I am a much married woman (no, I did not have a typical arranged marriage) with 2 children. My husband and I have weathered many ups and downs in life together.

What ASR feels is not love! Like I said, I understand he is upset. When you love someone, the linebetween yours and mine blurs! There is only US! What will be next? The aukaat lecture, Di ke liye shaadi, another 6 months of toture??

But really,am also a married woman & with 3 children but i guess this time if u see from ASR's angle, then he is perfectly right. His anger also is justifiable. I don't know about other people, but when husband gets angry ,then their reasoning power diminishes,that's all. in fact, he would have strangled snakewa when he uttered khushi's name. But u know, u like it or not,it is this same ASR with character that pulled people to this show. He is short tempered but with a heart of gold...

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Deb_Barun_Arnav
ASR rocked today...everyone needs a piece of mind from ASR now..bohut ho gaya Arnav bankey rehna..Khushi brought his biggest enemy for this now our Mighty ASR is back with bang..

@BOLD: Excuse me, but Shyam is a bigger threat to Khushi. She brought her own biggest enemy. No, I am not defending what Khushi did. ASR was right in yelling at her, but reverting back to "yours and mine" was distasteful and unnecessary.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: innocentgreen

But really,am also a married woman & with 3 children but i guess this time if u see from ASR's angle, then he is perfectly right. His anger also is justifiable. I don't know about other people, but when husband gets angry ,then their reasoning power diminishes,that's all. in fact, he would have strangled snakewa when he uttered khushi's name. But u know, u like it or not,it is this same ASR with character that pulled people to this show. He is short tempered but with a heart of gold...

I did not say ASR's anger was unjustified. I only said what he said was uncalled for.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Trust me dear, I perfectly understand what you are trying to say...

I would have been surprised if ASR DID NOT get angry...!

I was half expecting Khushi to retaliate with an"AAPKA Ghar...sirf appka!! "...Alas, the minute things that rattle us go unnoticed on theses guys!

And mind you this is the same ASR who was trying to teach Khushi to have haq on him and his house. And just when she did that, he reminded her that she has no haq... His retaliation like, like I don wanna talk to you, etc. etc would be okay, but that dialog about "dont do what I ask you not to do when in MY house killed the feeling of love"

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: minnie2308
Trust me dear, I perfectly understand what you are trying to say...

I would have been surprised if ASR DID NOT get angry...!

I was half expecting Khushi to retaliate with an"AAPKA Ghar...sirf appka!! "...Alas, the minute things that rattle us go unnoticed on theses guys!

And mind you this is the same ASR who was trying to teach Khushi to have haq on him and his house. And just when she did that, he reminded her that she has no haq... His retaliation like, like I don wanna talk to you, etc. etc would be okay, but that dialog about "dont do what I ask you not to do when in MY house killed the feeling of love"

Thank you! I was beginning to wonder how my thoughts cold be way off! Most of the replies here have professed to me about why ASR yelled! I already get that! I know why and he was justified, but what he said was not!

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: srijaaa127
Lust really??? 😆

Sure seems like that to me. If you think otherwise, please tell us why. Because, he feels a gust of wind when she is near,felt an out of body experience when he was kidnapped and almost died, because he could not watch anyone else lust/touch Khushi?