| Love , Exist Or Just A Myth |

There Is A Word Call Love |
(apart from Family Love )
People Say It Does Not Exist ,
Some Say it Is Most Beautiful Feeling ,
Some say it is Just Attraction which Soon Ends ,
Some Say Its All In Books , Movies etc.
And some say its all about caring for some1.


But the Fact is We all do fell for some1 in our life ,
well m not saying that love only happens Once , it can happen twice thrice or more ,
But i do belive , the first person for whom u feel first , is certainly nor forgetftable ,
ppl come ppl go , but their memories stay .
So first love is not forgettable that what i feel !
Some time in a day u will miss that person presnce and u will lose a heart beat when his /her name u will hear.

But i wana ask ur guyz views that is the statement Love is A myth , it does not exist ??
U agree ? Or if u blv. than is that true that first love is unforgetable? Means yaa u can move in life ahead meet new ppl , but u will still rembr that first person.
Agree ?

Edited by Angel-likeDevil - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Ankithate

There Is A Word Call Love |
(apart from Family Love )
People Say It Does Not Exist ,
Some Say it Is Most Beautiful Feeling ,
Some say it is Just Attraction which Soon Ends ,
Some Say Its All In Books , Movies etc.
And some say its all about caring for some1.


But the Fact is We all do fell for some1 in our life ,
well m not saying that love only happens Once , it can happen twice thrice or more ,
But i do belive , the first person for whom u feel first , is certainly nor forgetftable ,
ppl come ppl go , but their memories stay .
So first love is not forgettable that what i feel !
Some time in a day u will miss that person presnce and u will lose a heart beat when his /her name u will hear.

But i wana ask ur guyz views that is the statement Love is A myth , it does not exist ??
U agree ? Or if u blv. than is that true that first love is unforgetable? Means yaa u can move in life ahead meet new ppl , but u will still rembr that first person.
Agree ?

Edited by Heart - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Angel-likeDevil

YESSS. It does exist! (no personal experience, but still )

 

 

What my parents have between them is love. ❤️ I witnessed it, and I believe in it.

 

 

I'd like to say that... people will love many people. It must not be confused with the love, where two souls meet. Where, in a relationship, two people make a soul spiritual connection that they literally become devoted to each other. Their love for each other grows by each passing day too. THIS is a completely different thing which only very few people experience I think.

 

Rest all, disappear with time. Take any couple that doesnt have a soul-to-soul connection... their 'love' vanishes with time. Atleast, from what I have seen outside, there are very few couples like the type I mentioned earlier.

 

 

There's nothing as first love, second love. Love is love. Love is love, also if it lasts. If one is able to get over the love, as in, if it disappears within you - it isnt 'love' ... it's just a crush, caused due to your harmones and adolscent psych or simply, infatuation. Difference is, some people are infatuated for a longer time... that's all. But when one makes a soul connection, he'll know it. Like I said, it'll be spiritual, divine, godly, transcending, etc. The love becomes devotion. He'll not have any more infatuations or it wont disappear , but it grows with time.. "it" is the love. 

 

The first person is always remembered because, the crush was something new to you! Your emotions were new, they were raw, full of innocence and they also peaked...as the number of your crushes increase, you are only used to it, and are well acquainted with it. (it here is your romantic emotions,  feelings)

 

Just like how, while your learning to ride a bike... your first accident will be the MOST memorable! 😆 ..infact, you'll never be able to forget it for your life 😆

 

 

 

On a side note --- People should prioritize other things that ACTUALLY need their attention - career, personality development, family, shopping, etc. If it didnt work out, it didnt! Pick yourself up, and start living in the present. Love and all is a part of life, afterall.

Agree , Love And All is A Part of Life ButOne Has To Be Happy In His Love Life Than Only He Can Concentrate in Others things , One Has To Be Cleared With His Personal Life !!
My POV

I have not been fortunate enough to experience love. But ... "love" is not a myth...the myth is about the eternal, unconditional, cheesy, cringe-inducing part that has plagued Harlequin books for centuries. True love people speak of is as much about trust, respect, understanding and devotion as it is about the momentary feeling. And true love requires a great deal of effort to actually make the relationship work - simply the feeling of "love" is not enough.

@soulbeats
Yes One should Love Himself than Only He/she Can love someone else.
But sometimes it happen that the person whom u love , their happiness mattrs to you the most , more than ur own happiness and at tyms u can call its adjustment , compromise etc but its all a form or part of Love.
Love is Selfless , thought i didnt talk bout family love or bond but as u mention about mothr n all , in family too Our parents Sacrifices their happiness at times to make us happy coz they Love us..

so
Love is self less .

Love, at the point at which it exists, may be selfless. But I don't believe it to be endless...