Bani Depressed!

Hello you lovely ppl,

I've been watching Bani since the preggy thing came up and I think she is really depressed. She is not the girl she used to be. The girl that dared to stand against Jai and pronounce that he would build and orphanage at Mount Abu and name it after her dad, just to make him pay for the insults he made towards her dad. She is not the girl who dared Jai and got her sister married in his own house. She is not the girl anymore who stand up for what she believed is right. The Bani we r watching now, is silent. Doesn't speak a word even when the worst insults are thrown at her and her family. The Bani we r watching now is not the girl full of life, but a girl who is at the edge of totally falling apart.

Bani never used to be scared of Jai. She respected him, but was not afraid of him. But after she got married to him and she started falling in love with him she didn't lose onlt her heart but also herself. Especially after the preggy thing Bani has lost touch with her true person. She has taken so much of sorrow and pain that now she has almost reached her limit. She looks totally exhausted not only physically but mentally too. It seems as if things don't affect her just as much anymore. E.g. Jai holding her back from leaving and apologising to her didn't seem to affect her as much as we thought it would and as it would have a couple of days back. She didn't tell him she forgave him and her staying in Rano's room is a stong indication that she didn't forgive Jai. She hasn't digest everything that happend to her and I think it will take a long time before Bani overcomes this shock. The only question is will she have or get enough time to recover before she gets knocked down again by another blast. As we all know none other then Rano will give it to her.

hai grumpyy,

that was what I was thinking......
were is herself respect and the guts to go agains jai.....

god ( sorry not god but writers), bring that back....

i think that at the end of the episode, when jai says thanx to bani for talking with and goes, she was hoping he would ask her to come bak to their room, not just leave her. I think she really wanted Jai to make some move or indication that he wants to be with her especially after finally acknowledging that she is HIS wife, and that he had been angry and jealous after finding out about her alleged pregnancy.
I think that is y she looked really down when he left her.

come on jai...flirt with her,make advances etc...do something, don't let her get away!!! 😉

jai.... call bani to ur room,,,, pamper her,....

make her feel gud.... u r missing out something by not calling bani...

but bani staying in ranos' room indicate that she has still not forgiven jai

Great analysis Grumpyy. Hopefully we will get to see the spunky Bani soon. Shes just to depressed and confudsed with our lover boys behaviour. Soon he confessess his love for her the better, this will bring back her old confidence and spunk.

Originally posted by: tbabhra

i think that at the end of the episode, when jai says thanx to bani for talking with and goes, she was hoping he would ask her to come bak to their room, not just leave her. I think she really wanted Jai to make some move or indication that he wants to be with her especially after finally acknowledging that she is HIS wife, and that he had been angry and jealous after finding out about her alleged pregnancy.
I think that is y she looked really down when he left her.

come on jai...flirt with her,make advances etc...do something, don't let her get away!!! 😉

Agree with you as well, he should have told her "lets go to our room and sleep", that would really have been worth watching.😆😆

Cant waut to see how their romance progresses. Hopefully on the fast track.😉

she shud still keep her personal views. but she shud tell him her feeling before it to late

Pari

THAT IS SO TRUE YAAR BANI REALLY NEED'S TO SPEAK UP FOR HER SELF.BUT I THINK THE REASON SHE DOESNT SAY ANY THING IN HER DEFENSE,IS THAT SHE IS HEAD OVER HEELS. IN LOVE WITH OUR CUTIE PIE JAI.AND SHE HAS YET TO RELAIZE THAT SHE IS IN LOVE.BUT STILL YAAR SELF RESPECT IS ONE THING AND LOVE IS THE OTHER.BANI REALLY NEEDS TO LET JAI KNOW HOW SHE FEELS.

Originally posted by: tbabhra

i think that at the end of the episode, when jai says thanx to bani for talking with and goes, she was hoping he would ask her to come bak to their room, not just leave her. I think she really wanted Jai to make some move or indication that he wants to be with her especially after finally acknowledging that she is HIS wife, and that he had been angry and jealous after finding out about her alleged pregnancy.
I think that is y she looked really down when he left her.

come on jai...flirt with her,make advances etc...do something, don't let her get away!!! 😉

Hhhmm yeah might be. She is just too confused I think. Like she told him b4 she never knows what to expect from him and this sudden change is confusing her even more. Just like kubare said Jai needs to take some action. He has to show Bani her place in his life. She needs to be able to trust him again and to find the peace she used to get when she was around him even though he treated her badly. But then again Jai must not do things over hasty. He has to take time and strike a friendship with Bani first, so she can trust him again and confide in him as never b4. 😉

i think that the more depressed she looks in front of jai the better!!cos this way he will constantly feel guilty and will try harder to make her happy 😉 😉 😉.

i've noticed too!! all the sparks seems to have gone!!