i don't understand Aarti's POV

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aditibd

@aditibd

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Harpreet.M
actually Yash was completely wrong. yeah the school he chose is better but still arti should have been consulted. She is his mother and she should have equal say especially since she has been on her own taking care of ansh.

ya i agree on that point he should have to talk to her properly. but why she over reacted? she couldn't see her son destroyed computer bcs he didn't know hw to operate it. that time why she feel embarrassed and went out from that room??? that is enough na every time Ansh make mistake and she says main Ansh ki taraf se aap sabse maafi mangati hun. hw many times they can forgive her or Ansh more????so now for what she is waiting for??? hw will he destroy whole Sindhya house????if he will learn new things that will helpful for him only.

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@aditibd

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: sana_ar

Yes, but then are you saying that Aarti does not know what is in her son's best interest even though she raised him alone. I think Aarti made the best decision for Aansh that fit her lifestyle at the time and then to have her decisions questioned and changed by a man that is only a husband by name is unfair. I agree that Yash had Ansh's best interest and is taking care of him but to ask Aarti to completely let someone make decisions for her son without her permission, a son that is been her entire world after her husband left her is not right. She has every right to feel upset because the decision should have ultimately been made with Aarti's approval!

ohh really she knows what is good for him? then she should definitely understand Yash's POV. after his son's karamat of destroying computer. it was horrible. and if she is so called so much caring mother then she couldn't see in that incidence her son may be died or other two also. then what is d use of her caring nature and all???

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shalgo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: aditibd

ya really well said👏. she doesn't want to share her son with anyone. not even Yash.she is over possessive.this is ridiculous.

@aditibd, @ mounika

i think you are completely wrong. even if ansh was yash's real son, no mom and I mean no mom in the today's modern world would digest the fact that the father of the kid took the decision of changing the school of their son suddenly without even informing her...leave apart consulting...this is not over possessiveness...

I and here is a wife who hasn;t even been able to build a basic relationship with her hubby and whose hubby doesn't grant her any flexibility with their daughters.

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aditibd

@aditibd

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: dvmcj

Taking kids out to parks and changing their schools are decisions that cannot be compared. They are poles apart... No parent in real life makes a decision of changing a kid's school without consulting the other parent. And Yash has been a father to Ansh for less than a week.. So I think Arti's anger is 100% justified.

ya her anger is justified before Yash's explanation but not after that. he explained her everything very calmly,coolly. and he was also 100% right.so nw it's her tern to understand his POV and be with him.

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ThruMyEyez-Nita

@ThruMyEyez-Nita

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

This is just my opinion. Aarti being a single mom, has brought Ansh up by herself and has taken care of all his needs by herself, so it is understandable that she got angry when Yash decided to change Ansh's school without consulting her. However, when Yash explained to her as to why he decided to do that, Aarti's rebuttals were not strong enough and I have to agree with what Yash said in terms of if you have the opportunity to get a good education than why should you not take it. Maybe they way he went about it was wrong but it is clear that he had Ansh's best interests at heart.

I think the underlying problem here is that neither Yash nor Aarti have ever had to ask their respective partner's opinion about making decisions. It is very clear that Yash is brought up in an environment where women are suppressed and are not consulted when making decisions. Aarti, however has had to make decisions and stand by them and has been brought up in a more liberal family and of course there is the underlying "trust" issues that she has as well. Both of them need to learn that both parents need to have an equal say in the children's upbringings.

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aditibd

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: shalgo
@aditibd, @ mounika

i think you are completely wrong. even if ansh was yash's real son, no mom and I mean no mom in the today's modern world would digest the fact that the father of the kid took the decision of changing the school of their son suddenly without even informing her
i told u i agree on that point. but her anger not justified after Yash's explanation
...leave apart consulting...this is not over possessiveness...
I and here is a wife who hasn;t even been able to build a basic relationship with her hubby and whose hubby doesn't grant her any flexibility with their daughters.

and what about that incidence where he destroyed computer??? who will take responsibility of his naughtiness, his mistakes,his disabilities??? or every time she only says plss forgive me and my son after these type of incidence.

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shalgo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: aditibd

and what about that incidence where he destroyed computer??? who will take responsibility of his naughtiness, his mistakes,his disabilities??? or every time she only says plss forgive me and my son after these type of incidence.

ansh is just a five year old...and a little naughty...these mistakes and mischiefs (especailly for boys) are very common...doesn't mean u change this school...yash could have even thought of starting computer classes for ansh...why just school..he could have counselled payal/palak to be more friendly to ansh...now even at school what is the probability that they will get along with each other well...it might create more conflicts...net net he should have discussed and thought about the issue more...especially with a person who has a common goal in mind...betterment of kids...that is Arati

and plsss no one apologises for payal and palak behaviour the way they talk to ansh and complain ti gayatri...it is arati who has to do it...becuase gayati is everready to take a shot on ansh and arati feel as a stranger in the house, that she keeps on apologising...and they have been at the place for hardly a week or ten days.

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Ubiquitos

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

What was Ansh's mistake in computer fiasco??? Payal Palak were responsible they were d ones who were trying to humilitate Ansh. Still Aarti apologized. Poor Ansh is going under such a treatment in SM plus he has himself said sorry. Ansh is just a kid !!!

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aditibd

@aditibd

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: shalgo

ansh is just a five year old...and a little naughty...these mistakes and mischiefs (especailly for boys) are very common...doesn't mean u change this school...yash could have even thought of starting computer classes for ansh...why just school..he could have counselled payal/palak to be more friendly to ansh...now even at school what is the probability that they will get along with each other well...it might create more conflicts...net net he should have discussed and thought about the issue more...especially with a person who has a common goal in mind...betterment of kids...that is Arati

and plsss no one apologises for payal and palak behaviour the way they talk to ansh and complain ti gayatri...it is arati who has to do it...becuase gayati is everready to take a shot on ansh and arati feel as a stranger in the house, that she keeps on apologising...and they have been at the place for hardly a week or ten days.

ya i know he is small i have no complained abt Ansh at all. but i think if she thinks abt costly school and can't afford it. then she should think over Ansh'a disabilities bcs of his old school where he had no more facilities, not even computer classes. and u said he can start computer classes for him then all in all cost will be same same na? then why to waist energy and time to go here and there. if he can get everything under one roof

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aditibd

@aditibd

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Posted: 13 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: asrocks
What was Ansh's mistake in computer fiasco??? Payal Palak were responsible they were d ones who were trying to humilitate Ansh. Still Aarti apologized. Poor Ansh is going under such a treatment in SM plus he has himself said sorry. Ansh is just a kid !!!

ya i know they were Payal and Palak bcs of them he by mistake destroyed that computer. but what is wrong in learn new things or update knowledge by learning computer or other essential things??? which were not available in his old school.

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