Originally posted by: ShaunSA
So with all the hate going on towards Rashi atm I felt the girl needed some kind of defense. And I have chosen to be her Knight in Shining Armour... For this round.
So what exactly is Rashi guilty off? Huh? Tell me? What was so bad about what she did that is causing her to be hated and cursed?
A few little accidents. That's all she is responsible for. Pulling out a sari pin. Dropping a watch. Spilling some juice. All in all minor events that could very easily have happened without her help.
And yet it led to such a big dhamaka. So who's fault is it exactly?
Aham I have dealt with in another post. Defend him if you dare.
So I am going to start from minor to major role-players.
All those cheap guests. How common of you! You stumble upon what is clearly a tawdry scene. But do you do what any decent, normal person would have done? Averted your eyes and walked away? Nope. You stood and watched the show. Like voyeurs in a peep show, watching shadow figures act out a sex act. Just one word for the whole lot of you... CHI!
Anita's little helpers. You know them. There are normally like a zillion of them hovering around every bride. Exactly W*F where they? Who the hell leaves a bride alone for 2 seconds let alone 5 minutes? What is she going to fix her clothes herself? So why exactly are you there then? Rather don't call yourself friends of the bride. More like evil-doers of the bride!
Next we move on to Gopi Aham Modi. So you stumble upon a scene which could very well be your husband in a compromising position with someone else. Possible even a future bride. What do you do? You stand there and gaze helplessly while the whole natak is performed before your eyes. Why exactly didn't you step in. See what was going on. And at that stage it was all still fairly innocent in spite of what the shadows were showing. If it was your hubby he would have come to his senses and left with you. If it was another man no doubt he would have done the same.
And then last but not least. Anita whatshername. Who knows what her surname is. Does she even know? So Miss Anitaji. Being the bride of the day. Marrying the man of your dreams. I assume he is the one you love. Or is he? Why exactly are you marrying him? I am confused now. Cos the way you were making gaga guys at your ex I have to wonder. If you still love him then you shouldn't exactly be getting married to someone else now should you? Because then you are no better than a common street-walker in any city in the world. Selling your body to the highest bidder. No wait you are actually worse than them. At least they are honest about what they do. You cover your act with the guise of marriage. But we both know that that's not what it is Anitaji. Cos if it was you would have walked out of that room the moment your ex entered. No gaga eyes. No speeches. No emotional letting go. Nothing. Because the time for all that was in the past! Not today!
So you see folks. Rashi is the last person to be blamed in this whole fiasco. Why should we blame her? For two people dumb enough to have failed to resolve their pasts before they can move on into the future? I'm sorry but being dumb cuts no defence!
Ashwin.. well great post, but i don't find any reason to defend rashi here.. and I can understand your POV for other characters..
Starting..(looks like I go for long rant)
1.) All ladies decided not to come for marriage.. why the hell rashi made whole family to come to marriage??
2.) Even after coming PPl realized they should go back, but why did she played a kalakari and falthu acting and stop people??
A few little accidents. That's all she is responsible for. Pulling out a sari pin. Dropping a watch. Spilling some juice.(do u really call those are small and l'll accidents?😲)3.) Ok.. went on stage, removed the pin of Anitha's lehanga( is she call a girl? imagine if it would l'll loose what would have happen? can't she think about other girl's respect or what ever?)
4.) Spilling Jucice.. why is necessity of doing that? think about her evil intentions at bg process of her mind, when Gopi gave Hand key , she is the one purposefully sent ahem to clock room, (ahem doesn't have any intention to go there)
5.) went to anitha, told her ur lehanga hook got out, when her friend was coming to anitha, who did stopped her? and people didn't bother about anitha, bcoz they she went to adjust her dress..
6.) she took her anitha to the room where ahem was and locked from outside, she also knows that how the shadow will be reflecting on curtains?
Now I will tell you why should we blame rashi.. though she acted innocently/not expected to brake the marriage, she knows how will a marriage brake better than any body.. because she had already experienced.. with the so called small/ l'll things only she broke sonal's and Jiger's marriage.. Is she a small kid that doesn't know what are consequences when bride is alone there with some other guys, top of it the dirty reflections on curtains..
2. ok.. agree she doesn't have intention to brake the marriage. then why did she done all these things? to harass gopi & modi family.. what kind of woman she is , she is making her family down in the public😡
3.) ok .. leave about her family and gopi.. what dis anitha do her, she is already broken, again she involved her in psycho game, poor girl doesn't have any idea what was plotting around her by this evil..
now tell me why shouldn't we blame rashi??
edited*** --- I am ready to defend my Ahemji, I haven't read the post.. soon you will see me ther 😉
Edited by Sandy914 - 13 years ago