Why does Jeevika and Family want a baby so soon???

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I can't keep quiet any longer on this. Why is everyone in their family so eager for a baby so soon. 🤢They have been married only a few days. Just returned from honeymoon.😲 Shouldn't they wait for some time to get to know each other better and settle down before a baby. A baby is a big responsibility and I don't understand anyone who hurry so soon. This is the time for enjoying the married life and romance. 😉
I thought today they would be relieved that it was a false alarm but they were shown to be sad. Why?? Its not like they are married for 2 years and she is still not getting pregnant.
I have 2 friends (one guy who had arranged marriage and one gal who had love marriage) who had babies right after their respective marriages. Both of them hid the fact about the babies as long as they could as they were so embarrased it being so soon. A few people in office even teased them about forgetting to use protection during honeymoon. I had to console them that it was ok and things like this happen sometimes. Still, they were embarrased and everyone who knew them was amused.
Anyone agree with me or is it still a trend in India to have babies ASAP??
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Posted: 13 years ago
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good post!!!!!!!!!!!! even i feel the same thing!!!!!!!1
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Originally posted by: gksk


I can't keep quiet any longer on this. Why is everyone in their family so eager for a baby so soon. 🤢

</div>They have been married only a few days. Just returned from honeymoon.😲 Shouldn't they wait for some time to get to know each other better and settle down before a baby. A baby is a big responsibility and I don't understand anyone who hurry so soon. This is the time for enjoying the married life and romance. 😉<div>I thought today they would be relieved that it was a false alarm but they were shown to be sad. Why?? Its not like they are married for 2 years and she is still not getting pregnant.
I have 2 friends (one guy who had arranged marriage and one gal who had love marriage) who had babies right after their respective marriages. Both of them hid the fact about the babies as long as they could as they were so embarrased it being so soon. A few people in office even teased them about forgetting to use protection during honeymoon. I had to console them that it was ok and things like this happen sometimes. Still, they were embarrased and everyone who knew them was amused.
Anyone agree with me or is it still a trend in India to have babies ASAP??




You are rite...in most places in the world ppl want baby after proper plan and planing...but in India all the relative and husband specially want a baby as fast as possible...weird abt it's the truth...they think it's a way to prove manilness...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agreed. I don't want any baby track now. Its too soon.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lolz...Dis is da reason India is suffocating wid so much population!!!🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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dude i was thinking the same thing! it is way tooo soon!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well it is not any typical serial in which hubby wife have to compromise of not being in finacialy strong condition... viren is a sucessful lawer and they dont need any money all the time two things work romance and viren is settled + mature so having baby is not a problem if family want the baby then surely ther would be no embarrasment
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Firstly nice post :D

For this show, a pregnancy track at this moment in time would be premature to say the least.

Jeevika and Viren are newly married couple, settling into their new life together. They need to romance, have fun, get to know each other more (since they had an arranged marriage.)

Their disappointment over the false alarm is natural as if you think you might be pregnant and the family were aware of the fact, turning out not being pregnant will be upsetting. If the family didn't know (which is better, instead for getting their hopes up) then the disappointment might have been less as it would have been a personal thing between Viren and Jeevika. But like Maanvi said, they are still going to keep trying. If that's what they want.

Having a child is a huge responsibility it doesn't just change you as a person but changes the dynamics within a relationship, as there is a third person to think about. Having children straight after marriage happens all the time, hell, I'm a honeymoon baby. But it does change the dynamics of a relationship, as haven't got use to be husband and wife, and suddenly you're a mother or father.

The day track about Jeevika's false alarm, I don't know if it will play in future storylines. But it did bring across a healthy, practical and mature approach to being parents and finding out you are pregnant.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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What is embarassing about getting pregnant almost straightaway after marriage? 😕
Viren and Jeevika are married, in love and i'm sure all the members in the family are mature enough to know what goes on between husband and wife. Pregnancy is the result of being intimate.
Its upto the couple to decide when they want to start a family without pressure from anyone. If they're not using any sort of contraceptives then its going to happen. Pregnancy is the result of being intimate.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You're totally right !
It's dumb how having a child becomes a whole FAMILY thing when it's only supposed to be between the couple ..
The family gets away with just playing with the baby ..
The parents are the ones who have to take care of it ..
I honestly think Indian drama need to start showing a new side to this ; people don't just get married to produce kids!

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