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Posted: 18 years ago

Hi to everybody. Of late, people seem to be suddenly realizing how arrogant Karunya is and how sweet Sandy is and the less said about Anuj the better. Just one question to all- how many years have all these people spent with these three guys to brand them as arrogant or sweet? I'm not talking in favor of anybody here but trying to say that it's too early to brand anybody anything.  It takes not just 1 or 2 but some years to understand a person totally.  Basically, people come under the grey shade category. For people who are new to these shades let me introduce to you black which represents 100% negativity (For ex., Ramola Sikand, Mandira, Pallavi, Kamolika etc.) and white represents 100% positivity (for example, Tulsi, Parvathi, Jassi, Prerna etc.). The shade that lies between these two is the grey shade which we all human beings come under for a simple reason that we all are neither completely bad nor completely good. We all have our grey shades. If somebody tells me that s/he never gets angry and never gets jealous then s/he is a plain liar because it is human to have all those feelings. If there is someone who doesn't have any feelings then they are either Gods or saints. We have conditioned our mind to such an extent that we start seeing those imaginary 'Mr. / Ms. Perfect' characters in people around us and start branding them if they are not up to our expectations. Grow up! These characters can be found only in Ekta Kapoor's serials, not in real life. Trust me, real life is not as complicated as what Ekta portrays in her serials. Ekta has no option but to add all that masala to get high TRPs as she's answerable to her shareholders. Try to look at people and this world through sheer objectivity. Remember, nobody's perfect.

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Posted: 18 years ago
i totally agree with u lovlina. 👏
Posted: 18 years ago
guys this is a music show we are not here to judes personalities.
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Posted: 18 years ago
Exactly and votes should be given on the basis of talent and not who's sweet and who's sour or bitter.
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Posted: 18 years ago
well yeah yai dis iz singin compet !!
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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: lovlina

Hi to everybody. Of late, people seem to be suddenly realizing how arrogant Karunya is and how sweet Sandy is and the less said about Anuj the better. Just one question to all- how many years have all these people spent with these three guys to brand them as arrogant or sweet? I'm not talking in favor of anybody here but trying to say that it's too early to brand anybody anything.  It takes not just 1 or 2 but some years to understand a person totally.  Basically, people come under the grey shade category. For people who are new to these shades let me introduce to you black which represents 100% negativity (For ex., Ramola Sikand, Mandira, Pallavi, Kamolika etc.) and white represents 100% positivity (for example, Tulsi, Parvathi, Jassi, Prerna etc.). The shade that lies between these two is the grey shade which we all human beings come under for a simple reason that we all are neither completely bad nor completely good. We all have our grey shades. If somebody tells me that s/he never gets angry and never gets jealous then s/he is a plain liar because it is human to have all those feelings. If there is someone who doesn't have any feelings then they are either Gods or saints. We have conditioned our mind to such an extent that we start seeing those imaginary 'Mr. / Ms. Perfect' characters in people around us and start branding them if they are not up to our expectations. Grow up! These characters can be found only in Ekta Kapoor's serials, not in real life. Trust me, real life is not as complicated as what Ekta portrays in her serials. Ekta has no option but to add all that masala to get high TRPs as she's answerable to her shareholders. Try to look at people and this world through sheer objectivity. Remember, nobody's perfect.

Well said Lovlina. 👏👏👏

I agree with you 100% . People are a 1000 times better than what the TVs portray. Deep down everyone is good, because all of us come from the same source and we have the same core.

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Posted: 18 years ago
Lovlina, you are sooo right.

Many people are very concrete in their thinking and believe the world is full of black and white like our wonderful TV serials or our movies.
The truth is we live in shades of grey .
Anyway, for people to assume one person in Indian Idol to be more arrogant then the other has another thing coming.
To be honest is not to be arrogant. Infact , the scarier ones are those who dont display their true feelings.
We have to get over are desire for everyone to be like Tulsi. This is not reality.......

If we are intelligent , we will focus on the singer who is the most talented of the bunch and who has been the most consistent performer. We know who that is.....
Don't let another Amey Date tragedy happen again.
Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: ranig

Lovlina, you are sooo right.

Many people are very concrete in their thinking and believe the world is full of black and white like our wonderful TV serials or our movies.
The truth is we live in shades of grey .
Anyway, for people to assume one person in Indian Idol to be more arrogant then the other has another thing coming.
To be honest is not to be arrogant. Infact , the scarier ones are those who dont display their true feelings.
We have to get over are desire for everyone to be like Tulsi. This is not reality.......

If we are intelligent , we will focus on the singer who is the most talented of the bunch and who has been the most consistent performer. We know who that is.....
Don't let another Amey Date tragedy happen again.

honest ppl are never appreciated, we alway like ppl who only say sweet things.

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Posted: 18 years ago
lovelina you r 100 percent correct
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Posted: 18 years ago
Thank u guys. 😊 I only wish we start looking beyond those personal things and focus on singing and talent of these guys.