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-Sush-

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Posted: 14 years ago

My dear Zu posed a very interesting question on of my other threads...KKG has fixed La's love story, she has fixed Payal's why doesn't she do any thing to fix her own?

Here are the song lyrics from Shaleigh that sort of capture why...

You treat this like a game
But it's my heart
And it's breaking
All because of you

The hourglass is running out
And you're still trying to fill it up
But I lost hope
You should too
But this situation we're repeating
Overrated is what you made it

What can I say
What can I say
When all you do is push me away
What will I say to you
When it all comes down to

You acted like you cared
But you don't
Stop pretending cause you're hurting me
My first impressions disappeared
Your tones had words so cruel
You always do as you please
And this situation we're repeating
Overrated is what you made it
No!

What can I say
What can I say
When all you do is (when all you do is) push me away

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nnOMk5b-RCk[/YOUTUBE]

This love story can only be fixed by one person...Arnav himself...perhaps by his own choice or by the choice of Devi Maiya.

EDIT: Just to be clear...I am not making this post for the blame game...My point is...the major problem with the story is Arnav's reluctance to fall in love...and strong reaction to chop it off at the moment it starts taking over him...As Shwets has beautifully summarized it below...Khushi really has no choice in this matter now ...

Please comments/ post feed-back and do listen to the song...it is AMAZING... Granted not every word in this song reflects' Arhi situation but some words do...which are the ones I posted above...

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sbk2

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Posted: 14 years ago

Logged in to check if there was a new post from you...Voila!!

I've never heard this song before Sush, (I'm not inclined towards Western music, unless its Bon Jovi or few select ballads) but the lyrics! - looks like Khushi's heart singing out to Arnav!

Perfect selection Sush 👏

I know there'll be arguments from both sides - ones saying that Khushi did not let Arnav speak when he wanted to clear things and the others saying that Arnav is the one who pushed Khushi away.

My view? Both Arnav and Khushi are driven by their respective weaknesses. Both are the way they are due to circumstances forced on them by fate and life. Both are obstinate.

Khushi is obligated to her family and thinks she owes her happiness to them. She is ready to become a martyr and sacrifice her happiness to honor their wishes.

She either does not know or is in denial of her feelings for Arnav. She did try to ask him on Diwali night - but Arnav shut her out completely and crushed whatever hope she had for this relationship to bloom.

Now she's engaged to Shyam. Unless Shyam's real face is revealed, I think she will not break off her engagement to him - and this is only for the sake of her family because she thinks this is what her parents (or rather her Babuji wants).

She has absolutely no support from Arnav in this matter either. He is getting married to La...so on what basis can she back out from her engagement?

Arnav took the decision of his marriage to La himself. It wasn't really forced on him by his family nor was he pushed against a corner by anyone.

He took that decision to take control of his emotions, because he thinks he was becoming weak.Love is an alien feeling to him - he does not know what it is and despite being in love with Khushi he too is either in denial or is ignorant of its significance.

But, unlike Khushi he has no majboori, except his ego to back out from his marriage to La.

In a way we can say that Khushi agreed for marriage to Shyam because Arnav pushed her away.

She's obstinate too - after being rejected so cruelly her defenses came up and even when Arnav tried to send feelers to her on a couple occasions, she put up a wall.

The situation is very complicated - I do not think Khushi has any choice in this matter now.

Arnav does.

He can set things right, because the only things he has to sacrifice for this is his misguided beliefs and to an extent his ego.

Sorry, today I'm not getting a chance to type my thoughts properly since my kids are constantly demanding my attention! I've been called away thrice already!

Not sure I made sense at all...but since I reserved a post, I decided to type whatever I could!

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-Sush-

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Posted: 14 years ago

Here is more...

and more:

It takes two to Tango...

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Aisha

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Posted: 14 years ago

Heya Sush...I totally agree with you, until Arnav doesn't get rid of the mentality that he cant love..wont love...he doesn't need love..love causes hurt/pain, him and KKG can never be. He needs to overcome this first, before he can accept what he feels

I do feel Arnav is on his way to seeing love in a different light,he looked really proud of Akash standing up for his love, something which Arnav would normally think in his words is ''unbelievable''

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AquaBluez17

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Posted: 14 years ago

Ya seriously since KKG is just being clueless.

The girl should go watch some more Yash Raj Movies!!

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incandescent

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: AquaBluez17
Ya seriously since KKG is just being clueless.

The girl should go watch some more Yash Raj Movies!!

The problem is that she has watched too many YRF movies. She expecting her prince charming to play violin outside her home 😆

Par uska prince charming to Laad governor hain !!

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-Sush-

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: AquaBluez17
Ya seriously since KKG is just being clueless.

The girl should go watch some more Yash Raj Movies!!

I disagree Mya...It is a deliberate decision by Arnav to reject it...not hers...

In Yash Raj movies...the heroine does not fight the problem of hero so precisely rejecting her...

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ravenheart

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Posted: 14 years ago

Yes Sush it is only Arnav who can make things better between the two. She will not act on it bcoz she is engaged, she considers La her friend & lastly but most importantly she doesn't believe that someone like Arnav can fall in love with her. Arnav's actions lately has not helped the cause either. She knows that she feels something for Arnav but is afraid to delve deeper.

Khushi is emotionally closest to Arnav than any of her family member. I doubt she has realised this bcoz though she says she is very open and shares whatever is in her heart with her family - it is not quite true.

As for Arnav, he is more in love with her than she with him. At the moment, he takes her for granted as she seems to always come back to him. The day she doesn't turn up when she is supposed to is when he will realise what he has actually lost.

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Posted: 14 years ago

On a serous note, I don't think KKG even realizes there is a love story. She is aware that there is attraction on both sides but I don't she considers it love. She is only subconsciously aware.

So if she doesn't even know it's love, how can she fix it?

I think Arnav's 'kabhi haan kabhi naa' attitude is making her more confused about the whole thing. On top that, I think she deliberately brushes off her feelings for Arnav because of his relationship with La. Being the kind of person that she is, I don't think she would consciously consider being involved with a committed man.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Hi Sush, you posed the question & had the answer too😉 Yep, it takes 2 to tango...😳 ASR is a tough nut but Khushi is working on it & I see it cracking slowly but surely...😆 Until then Bollywood drama's galore...🤣