Remarrige of Aham and GOpi needed or what ?

Parijatrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

Guys i do have a doubt ...

will gopi thinks Aham as a husband or as the friend of her,

as the marrige vows are taken back by her and she clearly said she is ajnabhi to aham ...

will it be right if Gopi accepts him when he expresses his love to Gopi...

as far as we know gopi is very conservative, believes in god and rituals of the society...and she always keeps her promise

does she has forgotten thaat she has taken her marriage vows back..

and what she needs to do if aham asks for his part of love as a husband from her, do you people think it is right or waht gopi will do at that moment, do you think they need to be remaaried before they start their life as a husband and wife...

Guys i just had a confusion/doubt/ please do share what Gopis action should be

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ever

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Posted: 12 years ago

It would be nice if they show goham takeing there vowd again

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gohem123

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Posted: 12 years ago

They must show aham and gopi taking marriage vows again. if not its a terrible disappointment. after all, aham had made gopi to take her vows..so literally speaking, she is not her wife now.It will be better if they show remarriage and we can have official suhaagraat...😳

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Nazma

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Posted: 12 years ago

I think it was just symbolic they are still married and Gopi still thinks of him as her husband. A remarriage or renewal of vows would be nice but I don't think it is necessary.

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Sunara

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: NazmaJ
I think it was just symbolic they are still married and Gopi still thinks of him as her husband. A remarriage or renewal of vows would be nice but I don't think it is necessary.

it is not necessary cz in Gopi's words she said 'main ahamji ke radha nahi ban sakti..par kamse kam unke meera banke unhe door se prem toh kar sakti hu na..' For gopi he was never not her husband..in her heart he was, is and forever will be her husband..
gopi is not going to think any two thoughts about it if she gets Aham's love and acceptance..

i don't know if it is correct cz the one who was forced to take back the vows was the one who infront of god forever accepted him as her husband while not expecting anything back from him..he was the one who didn't accept her as his wife in front of god though he never openly took back his vows..so i think it is fine if they consummate the marriage.. anyway they have never been legally separated..

but if they do renew their vows it'll be a dream come true for all of us..i don't think i can explain how happy i'll be if we get to see that!!cz more than Gopi taking the vows i need to see Aham accepting her with god as his witness..
Edited by princessunara - 12 years ago

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641345

Posted: 12 years ago

it's neccessary to renew the vow but not remarriage since they are not seperated legally..

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Nazma

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: princessunara

it is not necessary cz in Gopi's words she said 'main ahamji ke radha nahi ban sakti..par kamse kam unke meera banke unhe door se prem toh kar sakti hu na..' For gopi he was never not her husband..in her heart he was, is and forever will be her husband..
gopi is not going to think any two thoughts about it if she gets Aham's love and acceptance..

i don't know if it is correct cz the one who was forced to take back the vows was the one who infront of god forever accepted him as her husband while expecting anything back from him..he was the one who didn't accept her as his wife in front of god though he never openly took back his vows..so i think it is fine if they consummate the marriage.. anyway they have never been legally separated..

but if they do renew their vows it'll be a dream come true for all of us..i don't think i can explain how happy i'll be if we get to see that!!cz more than Gopi taking the vows i need to see Aham accepting her with god as his witness..

Exactly!! I don't think even Ahem has really thought that Gopi is not his wife even if he hasn't yet accepted her. And they are still sharing a bedroom.
Another ceremony would be nice to watch - maybe Ahem could be a romantic groom this time lol he very obviously didn't look happy last time.

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bluerobin

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Posted: 12 years ago

Gopi hugged ahem three times after breaking her vows, she told her desire to study to ahem when koki told her not to go to school after that " copying kalakari " of rashi , still does all the help to ahem, takes care of his necessities ( she asks aapko kuch chahiye a million times in one day ), they both sleep in the same room . Taking back the vows = not forcing ahem to accept her as his wife even though they would continue to stay in the same house .

Now i don't think koki would make ahem and gopi do a second shaadi...Second shaadi would be some sort of over drama like in other serials ...

Ahem making himself more approachable to gopi for sharing her thoughts, ahem accepting and realising gopi's worth , taking care of her as in todays episode , asserting a husband's right over her and finally apologising to gopi for all his mistreatment would be better than second shaadi ...

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Ritu

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Posted: 12 years ago

I think that if they show their marriage anniversary party they should show if Gopi and Ahem fall in love by then they should marry again as last time Ahem didn't enjoy it. This time they should do it with love. 😳

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