Originally posted by: cottencandy
I understand your point view! But what Nivi did to Sid is nothing compare to Sid did to Nivi.π The different between Viren and Sid is Sid is a strong character Viren is a week character. Viren do stand up for Nivi but the same time he has lot of bad qualities such as jealousy, envy, childhood issues...etc. I am taking about Viren not KM!π Viren got envious over Nivi's project last week same jealousy he had towards to Sid since he was a child. Sid is on the other hand told her to go forward with it. So Sid and Viren are two different characters. If I have to pick a man for Nivi I would say go for Sid because he understands her mind far better than Viren. Understanding plays a major role in relationship. I agree with you don't let the look deceive you but girl friend...Sid is a HUNK! I can't help saying this. I rather marry an honest man.. a man who has integrity, value above all loves my family...girl...you don't know what you are missing...the rest I can handle it!π
@Sandy I don't like you are saying kill him off I don't desire they killing Viren off. I like both guys but Nivi's stand point I like to see her with Sid. She loved him because of her family she ditched him! Viren could have helped her to win Sid instead he also despised her.I happy to see Viren is changing.π
hi 2 points regarding the whole viren jealousy track although i really really hated this track- actually hated hw they went ab the whole track it shouldnt hav happend so fast it should have happened gradually coz inreality men r often than not afraid of powerful woman especialy if these woman happen to be their partner n they get ahead of them( nt all men though n the problem here is that wit viren character although the acting was great -it dnt go wit the basic nature of this character coz he has been protrayed as being very open minded. nt that i am sayin that men who r open minded wnt get jealous if their partners happen to be more successful than them( its got to do wit their ego) bt the thing is it dnt go wit this character n the place he was in.
-the thing that i also likd ab this track was that it showed that even though he realised that his family did lov him( i still wnt say as much as they lov sid though still think he is their favourit) when a person has been so insecure 4 such a long tym it just dnt disappear into thin air coz we r told we r loved its deep rooted- it takes tym to remov it from your lif n its a path that a person has tak alon-(u have to learn to lov yourself)
furthermore it is a very long n hard journey to remove the selfdoubt that 1 has ab themselves- the feeling of nt being good enough, of nt being pretty enough no matter hw many ppl tell u that u r u need to believe it yourself. n alth viren has been shown to realise that his action were wrong, he needs as an individual to realise that he needs to work on himself, he needs to lov himself n if he is in a bad mood or upset he needs to speak up then n there to talk n nt only to talk wen he cnt hold it in anymore.wish the cts could explore this in the serial bt they would mess it up.
bt another thing i dnt think its really jealousy that is eating this character up its someth more its lik look at me, i am aliv, look at my good qualities as well n i think we all kind of feel that way sometim as wel in lif wen we r at work or school or at home especially if we r insecure ab ourselves- n this maybe interrupted as jealousy bt in actually fact it is the insecurities that we hav in ourselves. as 4 sid n nivi i think the cts of this make them a bit to perfect 4 my likin u cnt relate 2 these character there pain yes bt overall no.
ab sid being the best man- i just dnt kn i mean being nice, trustywothy being dependable is all very well bt the thing that this character lacks is that he dnt seem to have a back bone- he needs to open his mouth n speak wen someth is nt rite- his silence 4 me is worse than some1 who has done someth bad- a person who watches injustice being done is just as bad as the person who commits the injustic n his character has been shown to watch injustic being don to ppl all the tym n he justifies his actions , his silence as being 4 his family- i dnt think this charcter is an honest character sorry.- i think he is the weaker character nt viren coz viren once he has realsied his true nature will alway stand up 4 the truth 4 the 1 he loves
the reason i think viren is a better 4 nivi is coz in the beginn he understood how her mind worked bt he dnt kn her heart, her soul sid kn her heart n soul bt still doubted her. viren nw kn her heart n soul he will never doubt her character.
sorry i said he should die- wish he was better actor though
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