Originally posted by: Polki_Zofi
Fatman is insensitive to the women in his life, there was never a doubt on that . He is very materialistic, and he uses brain for everything in his life, with heart only to compliment whatever the brain dictates. It is a common trait among many men. Unfortunately there are many girls who, in the illusion of "power" and "security" run into such men and end up being used by them. I don't know the story of the KUDI, but I wonder why she did not evaluate this man before marrying him. Also, Vaishali. Well, being sincere in his work is very good, but a person so much insensitive to the woman cannot hide is in life actually, specially on how eager he is to please his girlfriend or how he actually proposes her 😊. Each touch, if truly felt, can testify his love a million times. But for that the girl must also have her hear purified from only "NEEDS" ... the aspect of only the "NEEDS" being fulfilled bringing in compassion and satisfaction would always restrict the room LOVE can really have in that relationship. Very bad decision by the KUDI and VAISHALI ... well I think that a person should be able to see through to some extent atleast, it is not as impossible as some would wonder 😊. Even if he was only putting up a "show" before the marriage, but then, I really have known girls who want to blindfold their eyes in some sweet dream that the man is "perfect" ... just because he will be able to take care of the "visible" needs ... . It doesn't take a man to be very smart, very social, or very witty ... or very resourceful ... to be a very good life partner ... atleast that is how I see it ... there are often the small things in him, which are more specific to the girl, and only that girl can find out if she really wishes to 😉.what happens is in the euphoria of the first two years .........many little things go unnoticed . The girls ........according to the iNDIAN way were 'inexperienced ' . He was their FIRST boyfriend , First MAN and FIRST husband Only husband . He covered his tracks well ..........he doesn't even EMOTE withouth thinking .
Fatman will leave somewhere with the KUDI? I wonder if he will. Maybe he will leave and take away the child? It does seem he is more interested about the children. But will not be surprised if he leaves all and just goes away to start things anew for himself. Although that would be very out of character I would feel, as he took alot of trouble already for Varun (his son) and seems to have been more careful than the mother about his unborn child. Hence, I would think that his primary interest might be in extracting his children from these "carriers" (as he seems to view them) ... and then flying away somewhere cosy for himself 😆😃. So he can eat and drink and float on a clear blue pool 😳😆.Very true . He regard the women as CARRIERS of his child .
Vaishali ... KUDI ... least interested about their life, about their identity, while Vaishali being an exceptional mother - having no interest in the life laying in her womb. The most stupid reasons they have ... but as they choose it for themselves, how much blame should the fatman take? It is his way of life, and they seem to have agreed to submit to it. If you open the door of a cage and walk into a bear's den, then not even scream when it attacks you (thinking that your loved ones may panic if they realize) ... then how will you blame the bear? Maybe later you can isolate the bear, even neutralize it (as they do in eco parks) but REALLY! 😕 Vaishali is a VERY stupid girl .
Then ofcourse, taking advice from Archana and Manav 😆😳😃😳😆 ... its not a surprise they would love to give such advice 😆😃, why not? they have been given the honors for things they actually don't have the capability 😃😊😳. Like sweet cute and bouncy kids they came eagerly infront to give advices 😳😊. Manav goes very high on emotions, while Archana is sooo sensitive 😃. They would do much better romancing each other, having kids, taking care of their immediate responsibilities (their parents ... in a good and rightful way) ... <-- as these are already in great requirement of their utmost attention.U know people were voting for Archana for taking Vaishali to her home , saying she needs SISTER more than MOTHER . I differed . MOTHERS r far more experienced than SISTERS . Her type pf problem needed an ELDER . It needed EXPERIENCE of life ..........what experience does Archana have ? And see her personal history ..........she had WRECKED her own marraige . Not at all FIT to give ANYONE advice .
The mother in law of Vaishali don't look wrong in anything. She is taking is in her hands, she doesn't want to be hold responsible for Sulochana's death (as everyone seem so certain she must die on hearing her children's problems 😃). She want's to come to a solid information before coming on the discussion table perhaps. Its a great big allegation on her daughter in law, and her activities are too vague for the woman to really know what she should be doing as a responsible mother and mother in law in such circumstances 🤢. She is NOT wrong . She wanted to confront her bahu with PROOF . She has been observing RUBBISH since a long long time .
Archana in confusion 😊. But I feel that she wishes to give her man, Manav, an opportunity with his ideas on the issue. Perhaps she thinks that her love can make things right this time 😊. In her mind, its him who will win the hearts, minds and all the battles with the wrong 😃. Yes yes she is not so intelligent, she should consult with him surely ... but she is ARCHANA 😊. How she is not being loved by Savita? 😊😉 ... hopefully all will come to their right minds 😃.
How and why is Savita telling the little child about her animosity against her son and his wife? It is the right thing? I mean, emotionally or legally? I don't know about how it can be seen in India. So in emotional perspective, it is going to hamper the child's psychology surely. He doesn't have the cognitive ability completely formed, but children in these stages soak up information and take attributes from their surroundings to start building their own characteristic. Feeding with negativity will not do benefit for his love to Savita. I can only be very sure of it ... negativity is negative for everyone ... the victim and also the person from whom it came in the first place. Never does good for anything ... Savita should have controlled her emotions when with the child I felt . If she feels so lonely, she can pray to God! 😊 ... or go to some friends 😊 ... or go and have a talk with Manav straight on this, not attack and fight. The woman seem to be fighting against herself, and somehow digging the grave of all that she longs for, including the child's emotions for her ... hey its just how I felt 😉😳 (I am not against Savita 😳😆 ... just wondered 😉).Polki Savita is BEYOND grasping whats right , wrong , positive or negative . She is in DEPRESSION . All she has is the cild and she clings to him and talks to him coz in her mind she is ALONE , ALL have left her . And her husband and children have done NOTHING to correct that impression . Vandu is nice but she is currently facing her oWN problems . Rasika is giving her HELL once more .
I feel sad for this child ... really very bad. How he is rejected really. Grandmother is definitely not a mother. Mother is irreplaceable. How could she! Growing up with atleast one parent was all that the child deserved. Is child something you can just donate? NO! 😕Just stick around and u will see ........in PR , they donate and exchange babies like CURRENCY .
Where is Satish's GIRLFRIENDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD?????????? 😆😲😆 .... where??? She must come! ... Varsha is having her life straight and she can do so well in the bank. No need to have Satish with her, she can get some Bank manager easily 😊. Both can do financial analysis ... draw tables 😉 ... find the FOREX market movements ... predict currency rates ... make millions 😆👏😊... while Satish and some better girl (in behavior, heart and looks 😉) can have the life that they deserve for themselves, even if much simpler 😊She will come SOON . Let this Dharmesh track end .
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