[Open Post] Love Sex aur Dhoka ......

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yesterday I tried to understand everyone's perspective But overwhelmed the reader with many questions

So from the serial's and general perspective let try understanding only these three areas

Many (Shashank Padma Shilpa JP Jiggy even armaan at one point) felt that Sid and Riddhima were in love. But these two never had a physical relationship. Riddhima on her honeymoon also said that though we are not together yet we are together. I feel this is love. So I infer that the physical aspect did not bother her or Sid for that matter. So was a loveless marriage? physical yes but also emotional?


It is a saying that Marriages are made and broken in the bedroom. Sad but true Sid and Riddhima's marriage story is this.

Is physical intimacy which really defines whether a marriage is complete, successful and you are truly in love with your partner?


Riddhima was very caring towards armaan and loved him? This care actually lead her to be unfair to her relationship. Toh usne dokha diya Sid ko ????.......was she really unfair to Sid cause she cared and loved armaan???? But What if she is caring towards Sid when married to armaan? Would that be right and fair? Kya ye dokha nahi hoga???



Since Riddhima called her marriage farz and it being loveless
then why is Riddhima so upset of her failed loveless marriage and divorce? There was no love from her side hence she should not be so upset. If she only cares for Sid she should be happy he has not taken offense and will move to better life where he will be loved? What bothers her? Whom does she love and in love with? Can a lady do all that Riddhima did with Sid only out of farz in real?????


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Very impressive post but I dont think that anyone has any logical answer to your questions. We all know the fact but some fan groups just trying to overlook the factors. The sudden change of story if anyone think logically will find no answer that why did the unexpected turn. DMG is ending and I can challenge that if AR marriage was happened and SID was there then we could have a great probability to see how much RID cares for SID.

It is clearly visible that RID already had started to grow her feelings towards SID. I dont care whether anybody agree with me or not. But the truth is that to make their story more attractive the Creatives decided to do something like EMA which actually have fallen them in No Mans Land. Except some die hard Phorever fans everybody know that Nothing can justify to prove that RID have no feelings towards SID.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Sid ke saath dhoka tho hoya hai .................national TV pe bhi bola hai ...............neutral view point se bhi bola hai..................aur CMG ne usko glorify bhi kiya hai ..............iskeliye majority ne distaste ke saath serial ko dhekhna chorh dhiya hai...............

aur farz ke naam pe no woman tell her husband tht I want you to say the beautiful 3 words ILU forever............really??! if its farz then a woman is not on gun point to romance her husband
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Very beautiful post

I feel Sid and riddhimna had a beautiful pure relationship
They were truly made for each other and would have the strength to make their love their greatest bond !!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Excellent post Dj

But to find a logic behind dis show is itself illogical

We all ( except few people ) vry well know dat what Riddhima did was not out of FARZ it was Bcoz of LOVE

I can't believe dat
Just Bcoz of FARZ she surrendered herself to her hubby in d red red night, just Bcoz of FARZ she was feeling his presence , just Bcoz of FARZ she re-married him
Just Bcoz of FARZ she confessed & kissed him
Just Bcoz of FARZ she told him to repeat those 3 magical words again & again

and if all dat was FARZ den Riddhima being sad & crying 4 her broken marriage & divorce makes no sense . She should hav ' moved on ' wid Armaan Bcoz there is no boundations on her

And yes what she did in d 'disclaimer' scene was DHOKA
She cheated on her husband & no one in d world can deny dis fact

How much hard these talli CVS try to justify their current track but dey can never justify dat SR relationship was FARZ & Ridz had no feelings 4 Sid

Just 4 d sake of TRP's dey played dis dirty game of showing EMA but see what their plan backfired & instead of given dem TRP's d show is ending in another 2 days

B/w I wanna know d diff B/w ' LOVE & IN LOVE ' Bcoz I hav seen many people chanting these words
It would b nice if u can tell me d diff
Thanx
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sidma_love

Excellent post Dj

But to find a logic behind dis show is itself illogical

We all ( except few people ) vry well know dat what Riddhima did was not out of FARZ it was Bcoz of LOVE

I can't believe dat
Just Bcoz of FARZ she surrendered herself to her hubby in d red red night, just Bcoz of FARZ she was feeling his presence , just Bcoz of FARZ she re-married him
Just Bcoz of FARZ she confessed & kissed him
Just Bcoz of FARZ she told him to repeat those 3 magical words again & again

and if all dat was FARZ den Riddhima being sad & crying 4 her broken marriage & divorce makes no sense . She should hav ' moved on ' wid Armaan Bcoz there is no boundations on her

And yes what she did in d 'disclaimer' scene was DHOKA
She cheated on her husband & no one in d world can deny dis fact

How much hard these talli CVS try to justify their current track but dey can never justify dat SR relationship was FARZ & Ridz had no feelings 4 Sid

Just 4 d sake of TRP's dey played dis dirty game of showing EMA but see what their plan backfired & instead of given dem TRP's d show is ending in another 2 days

B/w I wanna know d diff B/w ' LOVE & IN LOVE ' Bcoz I hav seen many people chanting these words
It would b nice if u can tell me d diff

Thanx



See I will say what once Lennie has explained to me.........

You can love everyone like brother sister mother etc

But you are in love with you significant half i.e. your partner

I feel for Riddhima it is Sid whom she is in love with but does not realize and she says she loves armaan but everyone thinks she is in love with him

What are your thoughts ...............
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: dmg_dj



See I will say what once Lennie has explained to me.........

You can love everyone like brother sister mother etc

But you are in love with you significant half i.e. your partner

I feel for Riddhima it is Sid whom she is in love with but does not realize and she says she loves armaan but everyone thinks she is in love with him

What are your thoughts ...............



Dj thank u so much 4 telling me d deep meaning behind dis
& thanx to Lennie also
I think u r right 4 Riddhima it was Sid wid whom she was IN LOVE but she never realized dat & now see its result, today she lost her true love , she has lost
d person who was wid her wen everyone was against her , d person who gave her a new life & a reason to live
I seriously pity her she don't know what she lost
Thank u once again
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sidma_love



Dj thank u so much 4 telling me d deep meaning behind dis
& thanx to Lennie also
I think u r right 4 Riddhima it was Sid wid whom she was IN LOVE but she never realized dat & now see its result, today she lost her true love , she has lost
d person who was wid her wen everyone was against her , d person who gave her a new life & a reason to live
I seriously pity her she don't know what she lost
Thank u once again



well said!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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well for me Ridz is afool who does not know love as I have stated the 1st fight AR have ridz will think or compare Armaan with SID and cry that she made a wrong decision of marrying A...and so onnnnnnnnnnn🤢
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Another fantabulous post....But as Sidma-love said to find logic behind this show itself is illogical....The CVs had suddenly taken a U turn back to A_----R and now they will justify it by all means...But their every attempt fails miserably...These days I am just praying that there is no Season 3...That would be a pathetic torture on those who haven't yet lost their sanity on account of this show.



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