Oh Teriiiii...Wat a Dhamakedaar Post!!! 👏👏👏
My 2 cents:
I honestly believe the concept of True Love is HIGHLY OVER RATED - something we will only find in Movies n Books!
Now, i have been a DMG viewer from day one - and i do believe that what AR shared was not just Infatuation - but Love (Mona, dont hate me for disagreeing with you 😕)...
But.... Wat i also believe is that you cannot spend your entire life only on the basis of love - had that been the case, people would not think 500 times before getting married!!!
So what we are talking bout is basically A Relationship! A Relationship is the final product which requires many ingredients and Love being one of them - Not the only one mind you!
If i see AR's relationship (in the past i mean), then i see a lot of love, a huge amount of attraction, a great sense of care and concern for each other but... some vital ingredients missing - like trust...understanding.... respect (to an extent)... giving each other space... and basic compatibility...and these are extremely extremely important issues! Yes they really did love each other a lot but when we talk bout a committed relationship - u need to nurture it with many more things! Which couldnt happen in AR's case - thts y they fought so much and separated so many times (yes i knw its a show n all tht but this is wat was conveyed)
For me, love has to be unconditional - and tht means having to let go! If it means my partner doesnt love me back, so be it - i dint keep a condition before falling in love with him tht he will love me back and love me with the same intensity and passion??
So from where i see it now (AR's relationship) - I see physical intimacy and attraction being given a lot more importance than the other vital ingredients that make a relationship tick! Does ridhhima trust armaan? Does she understand him? (Armaan himself said so many times tht she never did) Does she respect him the way she respects sid? Are they compatible enough to spend their life with each other? I have my doubts! Yes, they are compatible physically (atleast thts wat is being shown as of now) but emotionally and psychologically...are they at the same level? Will they ever be?
Gr8 Post again Mona! Ppl really need to see beyond the 'obvious' to understand the meaning of love! Its funny, coz everytime, ppl talk bout AR's relationship and love - they say oh she took a bullet for him, he was ready to give up his life for her, he did a hunger strike!!!!
Tel me, today if the situation comes, will ridhhima not be ready to take a bullet for sid? Wont sid lay his life on the line for her? (he did it so many times when he hardly knew her unlike armaan who did tht coz he loved her) so how's it different? Intimacy? Is tht the parameter? Whatever happened to trust, faith, understanding and respect...Not expecting anything in return? I see these ingredients in SR's relationship today!
Cheers!
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