I am responsible for your state - Riddhima

U cannot build your love castle on the ruins of someone's life…U cannot weave beautiful dreams with the threads of someone's broken heart…U cannot sleep in peace knowing someone is dying a thousand deaths because of you… U can never be happy knowing you have taken away the sunshine from someone's life forever… Thts the power of an emotion called GUILT!

Sometime back Ridhhima had uttered these words to Armaan "Doosron Ko Dukh Dekar Kya Hum Khush Reh Sakenge??"… At that time she was talking bout hurting Sid and her father… Funny how roles get reversed…Today these same words apply for the man she fiercely loved once… She can never move on truly with Sid till she s satisfied that Armaan is at peace… Because she has hurt him… It's a fact! But a bigger fact is, it couldn't be helped…

I don't need to get into the guilt part of it and how it is weighing her down… It has been beautifully explained in a post by the Magician herself – Pocahontas! And just to add onto that, when you hold yourself responsible for someone's miseries, that feeling is so overwhelming that you tend to lose sight of everything else! And that is what we are seeing now… She has forgotten everything and her only task is to make sure Armaan is alright because every blow that he gets, weighs her down even more… The guy is on a path to self destruction and if someone dear to us would be doing something like this – we will move mountains to make sure he relents… And here is someone who s been such an integral part of her life so how can she let him be… Especially when she knows very well that he is not over her yet! And she can help him… Uske dard ki vajah bhi hum hain aur dava bhi…A fact that was stated by none other than her husband – Siddhant!

I don't even wanna get into the jealousy factor and what she feels seeing Shilpa and Armaan together…  Its blatantly obvious! Someone very correctly pointed out that if there was jealousy involved, she would have started disliking shilpa and her proximity with armaan only after she saw them together… But ppl here are forgetting that she had taken an INSTANT DISLIKE towards Shilpa…And thinks she s a bad influence on EVERYONE let alone armaan… And the poor girl is gonna face her wrath once again today! I feel for her… I really do!

As for Armaan, poco has rightly said that yes, he has released her but he has to release himself now! Unless he does that, he will not be at peace and automatically that will affect Ridhhima and in turn Siddhant! We have been shown a beautiful and high on emotion precap… Although I don't necessarily agree with throwing a song in ,again, am sure it will bring a highpoint in the show and culminate into the Sidmaan showdown… Hopefully, Siddy widdy can knock some sense into our beloved brat Armaan and we can have our favorite Dil Ka Doctor back with a bang – this time, with his angel by his side!

Cheers!

Rapz

PS: I have not restricted this post to a SR post only... But am in no mood to debate or argue with the intellectually challenged lot so spare me the horror and ignore if you cant be civilized!

 

Even as an AR fan, I do agree with your post😳
But if Armaan is to "move on," I wish it were not from under pressure. If he moves on solely for the fact that he wants Riddhima to be happy, it is not moving on at all. It is once again loving the same girl and losing his own life for her. If he is to truly move on, Riddhima and Sid both should not force him. They should let him do this on their own, just like Riddhima did. She chose her decision herself [okay, Shanky Papa helped her somewhere😆]. Armaan should be given the time he needs to get over the girl of his dreams, in my opinion😳

Awesome post....Its strange to see that some fans are saying that Armaan should not move on and continue his Devdaas Giri for the sake of his 'Immortal Love'.....I really pity on their thoughts...

Awesome post !! 😃

Totally agree with you. Its the guilt of destroying somebody's life, a good man's life, one who she cares about, thats eating up Riddhima. She can literally see Armaan hurting himself in front of her, because of her. So how can she turn her back and walk off ?

Jealousy's not in question at all, like Riddhima said, according to her Armaan needs a stabilizing influence right now, someone who can understand him. And Riddhima thinks that Shilpa is not that person because she sees her as an immature kid from Day 1.

-Aditi

amazing post rapz

i agree it to some extend bt i dont wants armaan to move on because others wants or because someone else wants he should moveon only when he wants he should go somewhere and think what he wants from his life starying the same place where sr is will make it dificu;lt for him someone soul and life now someone else wife is no so easy to digesnt as it os easy to say

@sonikudi1 totally agree with u. & lovely post 4 the 1st time i am loving ur post

Yes even i believe that Armaan should not be forced to move on... In fact i dont think that's possible! There has to be a willingness from his side...And that s y i said, he has to help himself... he has to release himself... he has to believe in himself and in his life ahead... Whether he does it alone or with Shilpa remains to be seen but the fact of the matter is, he has to Take a Leap of Faith!

Thanks everyone for liking the post and discussing it in a sensible manner.. 😳

WOW!!!.........superbly written.......loved it........can i say i wanna hug you???????.......

Rapz,😊