Come on guys, cut her some slack!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Guys.....Guys.........please!!
I know the turn of events are very sad and frustrating. Abha comes across as a woman with no backbone.
Because she is not reacting the same way that Karan is we find her love lacking, we want to knock some sense into her! 😡
But we cannot compare Karan and Abha's situations. Karan is in a situation where he can take matters into his own hands but Abha is not............atleast she cannot take any drastic steps. Her situation demands that she think through properly and come up with a solution.
Abha comes from a very protected environment, she has pretty much followed her parent's advise in everything she did in her life. For someone who could not even tell her dad that she was working and earning money for the family, how can you expect her to declare that she is married and that too to a guy whom the Thakur hates with every living breath of his??
I mean give her a break! 😊
Plus Thankur is a heart patient who has already had a heart attack, where as Jagmohan is hale and hearty. Won't any child be concerned about his/her dather's health? A father who has dotingly raised them?
And the threat from Jagmohan, how can you expect Abha to ignore such a threat?? I am sure if someone was threatening Jagmohan, Karan also would have stopped to think before he took any decisions.
In fact I feel Abha is the one who is trying to hold on to both the relationships. She is trying hard not to give up on her parents nor on Karan.
A few episodes ago when her sister tells her that the marriage might not be valid because you did not participate in it wantingly, did'nt abha refute her by saying that she now accepts herself as being actually married and that she loves Karan very very much?? Sure she is not reacting the way we want, but I think she is behaving as her situation requires her to.
In fact the future track is when I will be upset with her if she does not do something. She needs to very quickly inform Karan of what happened before any more misunderstandings crop up.
Now is when she needs to get with Karan and devise a plan to get out of the mess.
Now is when she needs to inform Karan that his dad is threatening her.
Now is when she needs to tell Sanskaar she is already married and seek his help.
Now is when she needs to confide in her mother and seek her advise.
If she does not do this, then this track is going to be really painful. It will be so difficult to see Karan suffer like this! He deserves so much better! 😕
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Posted: 16 years ago
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pragalbha beautiful your text to say nothing of simply bravo👏👍🏼
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Yes, I have to second that. I appreciated your perspective on this, and I think in some respects you are right.

You know when we take photos, they are mere snap shots--stills. Videos show movement, direction, progression. With Abha, I feel like her character is a still. She does not grow emotionally or intellectually. It's easy to blame her background, and yes, it does have a lot to do with it. But at some point you meet other people who are different, do things differently, prize different things. If you can't learn from them and move, progress, evolve (as with the video), then there is no life in one's life. I expected more. I expect more of her.
Edited by gp00 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Pattinson6: Appreciate your appreciation. 😛
gp00: True, and I am sure she will change. The character is slower than Karan. And that is because of her background. She cannot run away from it. As they say you can take a girl out of the country but not country out of the girl similarly we can take Abha out of her family but not the family out of her!!! 😆
As fans of the serial we have no option but to give her time to change 😆 But I am sure all of us will run out of patience unless she starts making the changes you are suggesting!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think Abha is capable of more I saw him stand up to Shelly on several occasions and Vimal all just does not know to separate things lol
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Posted: 16 years ago
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right...

ABHA is not wrong the situation and the environment is wrong..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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wonderfully put into words dear
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Posted: 16 years ago
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In fact the future track is when I will be upset with her if she does not do something. She needs to very quickly inform Karan of what happened before any more misunderstandings crop up.
Now is when she needs to get with Karan and devise a plan toget out of the mess.
Now is when she needs to inform Karan that his dad is threatening her.
Now is when she needs to tell Sanskaar she is already married and seek his help.
Now is when she needs to confide in her mother and seek her advise.
If she does not do this, then this track is going to be really painful. It will be so difficult to see Karan suffer like this! He deserves so much better

I agree with you Pragalbha. Only, I would have appreciated it if she had the presence of mind to not agree to the marriage with Sanskar and bought herself some time. She could have done all the above without adding further complications to her situation.
Edited by silcop - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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One said yes it is peace, a war that is not said but the concern is that the war is already in place, so tends to confront once and for all
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Abha still deserves slack---she has really done nothing today to change.

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