Bani, for the first time I dont agree with your points here. In the film, kya-kehna Saif knew very well that Preeti is pregnant and he just didnt want to take her responsibility. Later, he realised somehow and came back. But yes, there was no guarantee that he will support her through out.
But this is a totally different scenario. I have always seen (and appreciated) your analysis of Sadhna. Sadhna is a character who wants to win hatred by love. Whether she is right or wrong, I dont know. I can not be Sadhna but looking at her character I can definately start forgiving people who gives me pain. This much change this character can do with anyone. She is not so-called powerful woman who just snubs off the people who comes in their way. She is a totally different person who wants love and peace by giving love and peace. I dont know in reality how much it works. But atleast if we see in the serial, how she has changed Vinu, Kaushi and Nani is just amazing. I am not talking about Ragini. Ragini is a very good character who can not think bad about any one just like that. But replacing hatred by love is something which is very difficult. It is like winning many battles. And only Sadhnas can do this. Because no one else has this power.
Coming to Alekh, do u think Alekh is living happily now? Yes, he should have supported his wife. True. But, if you see his character, he blindly believes someone without any basis. First it was choti ma and now his mother. He doesnt understand that these are the people who gave him so much pain in the name of love. And when he comes to know this reality, he will be shattered. He NEEDS Sadhna.
And for Sadhna, apart from jiji and mamaji, Alekh was the only one where she found love. Though he was mentally unstable, she got the love, affection from Alekh. Yes, she was not trusted by him many times (now). But her husband is blind (not like Saif of "Kya Kehna"). She WANTS Alekh.
I think these two should stop giving priorities to others and start everything fresh. They should know the importance of husband-wife relation. And this can be done by others like Ranvir-Ragini. There is no harm in putting this idea to this couple. These two are too emotional and worst part is they both dont speak up for themselves. When both are like that, it is others duty to make them understand this point.
I have understood Sadhna's character from your beautiful analysis only. Infact, I started watching Bidai after reading your posts. Hence, I strongly feel only Sadhna is right for Alekh.
I am not using any logic here. Because I feel, logic and Sadhna doesnt go together.
If it is any other girl, then what you are telling is right.
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