Originally posted by: rachna789
😆😆😆 I was going to say just that. For some odd reason, I thought that Akash would never accept Gauri for her outer appearance. He doesn't seem like the guy who would change his criterion of a wife just like that, but he's done that already. He has only affirmed Gauri's beliefs of what a wife should be by accepting her. Now, she'll be on cloud nine thinking that her "method" if I may was right. Why does she believe that her glasses are a part of her personality? They are a part of her appearance, not her personality. There's a difference.
The only resolution I can come up with is if Akash slowly makes Gauri change, which is doubtful on its own. There's only so much a person can do for another and if Gauri wouldn't want to change even then, she'll stay like that forever. There will be no growth for her character. She started off like that and she'll end up like that. 🤢🤢
Exactly. He has validated all of the ridiculous things she has done to date. Now she will continue to partake in these outrageous acts because she thinks she "won." Playboy personality aside, I mostly appreciated Akash's attitude towards women. He seemed like the kind of person who would want his wife by his side in the office, and who wanted an equal partner as opposed to a slave or chai-making robot. He used to seem like the kind of guy who would respect a woman's right to have her own life and independence. These were his BEST qualities and the only thing about him that prevented him from being totally dispicable. Instead of showing that this is a positive, healthy attitude towards women, creatives have shown that it is WRONG and that Gauri is supposedly WONDERFUL just the way she is and it is Akash who needed to change. Maybe it's our fault as viewers. Akash may accept her but we don't 🤢
Gauri thinks her glasses and zari saris are part of her personality because frankly, she HAS no personality. She, like all her sisters, is about as interesting as wallpaper paste. Earlier in the show, when that curly-haired actress used to play her role, she had the most personality out of all 4 sisters. She was a bit goofy, bubbly, absent-minded, and silly. I'm not sure why they had to change that.
The moral behind this track is supposed to be beauty is in the eye of the beholder, is only skin deep, etc. But this isn't about beauty. Gauri is plenty attractive in appearance...but her personality and attitude are unbearable...and these behenji clothes and fugly specs just reflect that personality. How we present ourselves to the world is indicative of who we are, and she presents herself as this behenji because that is who she is. Even if Akash did manage to coax her out of this silly getup, it wouldn't mean a thing if she has the same personality dysfunction.
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