is it really gunjan's fault??

ok..so gunjan's in for a HUGE heart-break... 😭 but then, is it really her fault??

I mean..ofcourse many wud say tht its her fault..why does she hav to be so naive abt it?? but then..tht's how she IS..rite?? she has time n again told sammy tht ppl at her town always believ wat they see...I kno, it isnt sammy's fault either...coz tht's jus the way he IS..again! plus, I can very well understand gunjan's POV rite now..coz I had been thru a similar phase in my life..I had this best friend..whom I liked a lot..n I thought tht he likes me too..jus coz he was very caring n understanding towards me..n believ me, everythin abt gunjan's thoughts n feelings tht they hav shown in he serial...thinking wat he is thinking..whether to call him or not.....whether he is thinking the same way abt me.....losing ur sleep at night...its like watching myself again! ( though maybe I'm not as naive as her..I was jus plain foolish! ).. but then, here's the thing..wenever u like someone...there's always some hope...n after sammy has done soo much for her..n ppl saying time n again tht he has never done this for ne other gal..gunjan's bound to get her hopes built up....plus, even a small sign from him can make u think tht he likes u...n its not like u do it on purpose...u jus cannot stop ur feelings from being increased in depth day by day....there's nothin u can do to control them..unless u r really a verry headstrong person due to which u can shut down those feelings...like shutting off the tap to stop the water from flowing!

so, I for one feel tht its nobody's fault..its jus the way they both are! wat do u ppl think??

P.S. mods..I kno tht discussing personal things is not allowed here...n if u want to close/trash this topic I completely understand...but I jus thought tht since it was related to the serial..it wud be ok! 😃

mads, i love reading your topics. u bring up such good points 👍🏼

Of course its not Gunjan's fault. she is analyzing her thoughts and samrat's behavior. i guess she has come to the conclusion that Samrat s going through the same thing she is right now! plus, this is her first time becoming such good friends with a guy too, and also, her first time crushing on a guy 😳 i think her feelings are totally justified. she is sensitive, emotional...she believes what she sees but not totally...she does analyze situations before jumping to conclusions (which is one thing I love about her character!)

i don't think either one (samrat or gunjan) is at fault her and thats the beauty of their story. 😳 they are just two people with different personalities and attitudes. samrat is a more jovial, happy guy who is not too serious about anything. gunjan is a more contemplative, serious and quiet girl who usually lives in her own world. along with the pleasant moments there will be some tough ones since they r opposites. 😊 and opposites will surely attract 😉

its really not Gunjan's fault!!i mean is it her fault that she luvs Samrat?is it her fault that Samrat treats her diferently?i just hope nothing bad happens to them,poor thing,she's giving the best give ever to Samrat and seeing him giving roses to another girl wud really hurt her feelings.

mads that was an awesome topic! a valid point indeed! 👍🏼

i think its her fault to keep sp much hopes on him

i think its not gunjans fault bcos she is doing what she is actually. but i wud also like to tell that if i wud have been in her place i wud never think how gunji does. i cannot blame gunjan only bcos she is a quite, emotional, sensitive, reserved, and innocent kind of girl. she will obviously fall for such things when her soul will get something which completes her that was lacking inside. most important thing she is a town girl who are "actually" fall for such things.

No its not.. any girl with a guy friend like that will surely fall for a guy who does soo much for them... the only thing is I wished she didnt think he felt the same!... but i guess in a way i blame samrat... a little bit.. coz of the things he says... esp as he knows shes different.. and yeah we all love the flriting he does. but some things he says are just not nesseccary.. esp the rose thing.. about waiting...

Originally posted by: MohitSanayaFan

mads, i love reading your topics. u bring up such good points 👍🏼

Of course its not Gunjan's fault. she is analyzing her thoughts and samrat's behavior. i guess she has come to the conclusion that Samrat s going through the same thing she is right now! plus, this is her first time becoming such good friends with a guy too, and also, her first time crushing on a guy 😳 i think her feelings are totally justified. she is sensitive, emotional...she believes what she sees but not totally...she does analyze situations before jumping to conclusions (which is one thing I love about her character!)

i don't think either one (samrat or gunjan) is at fault her and thats the beauty of their story. 😳 they are just two people with different personalities and attitudes. samrat is a more jovial, happy guy who is not too serious about anything. gunjan is a more contemplative, serious and quiet girl who usually lives in her own world. along with the pleasant moments there will be some tough ones since they r opposites. 😊 and opposites will surely attract 😉

thanks soo much riya 😃.. yeah, I kno they will be in for a rough phase sometime too..but considering how beautifully the creatives hav hadnled their story until now..the awesome understanding tht they hav shown...I'm sure tht they will carry forward the story in the similar manner....😳😳😳 wait n watch policy..as usual! lol..

Originally posted by: mads

ok..so gunjan's in for a HUGE heart-break... 😭 but then, is it really her fault??

I mean..ofcourse many wud say tht its her fault..why does she hav to be so naive abt it?? but then..tht's how she IS..rite?? she has time n again told sammy tht ppl at her town always believ wat they see...I kno, it isnt sammy's fault either...coz tht's jus the way he IS..again! plus, I can very well understand gunjan's POV rite now..coz I had been thru a similar phase in my life..I had this best friend..whom I liked a lot..n I thought tht he likes me too..jus coz he was very caring n understanding towards me..n believ me, everythin abt gunjan's thoughts n feelings tht they hav shown in he serial...thinking wat he is thinking..whether to call him or not.....whether he is thinking the same way abt me.....losing ur sleep at night...its like watching myself again! ( though maybe I'm not as naive as her..I was jus plain foolish! ).. but then, here's the thing..wenever u like someone...there's always some hope...n after sammy has done soo much for her..n ppl saying time n again tht he has never done this for ne other gal..gunjan's bound to get her hopes built up....plus, even a small sign from him can make u think tht he likes u...n its not like u do it on purpose...u jus cannot stop ur feelings from being increased in depth day by day....there's nothin u can do to control them..unless u r really a verry headstrong person due to which u can shut down those feelings...like shutting off the tap to stop the water from flowing!

so, I for one feel tht its nobody's fault..its jus the way they both are! wat do u ppl think??

P.S. mods..I kno tht discussing personal things is not allowed here...n if u want to close/trash this topic I completely understand...but I jus thought tht since it was related to the serial..it wud be ok! 😃

very very well written mads! i hav been thru a similar phase as well... n therefore even i can totally understand what u went thru n what gunjan's going thru... infact i am sure most of us hav experienced this "butterflies in stomach" feeling, n "loads of expectation" phase sometime in life!