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why is TA hesitant about approaching T in MM's house?

karthika

@KarthiN90

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

HI friends,

What u all think about TA's decision of sending someone to convince thulsi

share ur views friends...

thanks vjayam for raising this question in promo thread...

sorry friends first option mutilple times paste panni irukaen...care pannathinga...

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jinju

@jinju

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Posted: 13 years ago

No doubt its his ego that's preventing him. If he finds it embarrassing to apologize in front of Padma. He should have apologized in Bangalore itself wholeheartedly only J and MM were there. Both are not going to think anything.

It is not a small mistake so he cannot expect her to understand him and come running behind him. Like T said idhu chinna pulinga sandai illa its a serious issue. It is dumb of him to expect her to forget everything and come and live with him like nothing happened between them.

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anithu

@amrithatec

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Posted: 13 years ago

Tamil is not a person who is full of egos i personally feel...This much has happened and he is unable to face his wife and also he preety well knows if he goes to mm home padma will insult and if thulz hurt him it will be a cake to padma...Thats the reason

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anithu

@amrithatec

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Posted: 13 years ago

Karthika i know for what option you will vote nnu😆😆

Edited by anituram - 13 years ago

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Arizes.

@Arizes.

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Posted: 13 years ago

I feel its mixed up reaction from TA
1) Embarrasement that he (husbd) lost and his wife won...Ego is based on this only and not his character...(A hsbd's ego)
2) She ignoring is an insult for him, when she spoke back to J, he readily gave a reply but does not understand why she is ignoring...
3) He expects Net result to be 100, but w/o hardwork...
Many number of failures will teach him the lesson for success...T rightly said learn the mistakes and come up together..

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Ranuja

@Ranu.

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Posted: 13 years ago

To add to Shubba akka's point.. TA is still not understanding how much he hurt T to the point she is questioning whether he still loves her or not. You can tell that all the excuses T pointed out to K&D of why she didn't just go with TA was because she is scared of being hurt again.

Yes, TA forgave Jos but atleast he was able to tell by Jos' actions that he was sorry for the things he had done but how has TA shown to T that he was sorry? Obviously he has to take the first step to go there and sooner he realizes that, the happier both of them will be... and viewers too 😛

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Smiles-20

@Smiles-20

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Posted: 13 years ago

Nice poll!

It's kinda a mix of some of the options. But Tamil's ego is not that high and he does not care what Padma says.

He thinks Tulasi will just forget and forgive everything that happened which is wrong to think. He needs to understand her first though.

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Mahadevan Venkitaraman

@maha2us

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

What I will say is he is unable to face Thulasi as it is found that he was wrong and she was right. This point he once told Joseph also.

But if he believes Thulasi has to understand him, then it does not say high about him. Both husband and wife have to take the initiative to understand oneself and understand the other person. If husband or wife expects the other person to understand him/her first, that is an egoistic approach. In any partnership, understand first and then seek to be understood. Interestingly, Thulasi is seeking to understand herself. The only thing she says is she won't make hasty move.

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Gayathri Shridhar

@Gayashri

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Posted: 13 years ago

Good poll Karthi, but as few others said, some points are overlapping...but i chose for what they show rather than what is ideal...what they are showing is sure he wants T to understand him by herself...