Thank you so much Hema for the superb update and reaplacing me 🤗😳. I am not sure if this post will appear or not, but i am still posting it.
I am not at all angry with TA for his behavior towards Charu, actually i can't expect anything else than this from him. I am not supporting him, but i am just trying to reason it for myself.
We like TA for being TA, but in the case of Charu, we are getting angry with him for being himself. If the same restaurant scene would have happened with Deepa, we would not have minded it this much. It is Charu's intention that makes us feel disgusting. It is TA's character not to doubt a girl just like that, even if people around him keep warning him. In the case of Paatt's and Deepa's warnings, he could not have minded them as he might considered it as their concern for Thulasi. And if it is Sudha, we even don't have to think how much he would respect her words. But in the case of the doctor, he has not any reason to lie about Charu. But Charu's crocodile tears have won at that moment. Only through Gokul there was a last chance to reveal about her true colour, but now it is gone. Unless Charu gets over-agitated and tries something stupidly like kissing or hugging him, TA won't realise about her.
Above all, i really think, it is the trust and love TA has for Thulasi, that makes him act or behave foolishly in our POV. According to him, he is convinced that he is being correct, because he knows nothing can separate him from Thulasi and moreover he believes that Charu knows his deep love for his wife (of course she does it, but no use for psycho brain) and that he ditched her to marry Thulasi. TA has known Charu as a girl who always shows over- affection to everyone like his mother and so to him as well. These things don't really let him to think that such a nice girl like Charu (in his POV only) could have something disgusting in her mind. He respects her affection for him, but i am sure sometimes, he feels that this is unneccessary and really uncomfortable.
I think, TA won't get angry with Charu or hate her even if he should come to know about her true colours. His guilty feelings would make him to try his best to help her to come back to reality. TA won't give up supporting Charu till she is cured or happily married to someone else. But his so called mother is going to be disowned forever espcially for making Charu's condition even worse by giving her hopes.
I ended up writing a lengthy comment, now i am really confused whom i am supporting LOL. 😕