All that heartbreak that Stefan gave Elena.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi there,

Now, having seen the episode and having heard Stefan's super angsty frustrated 'leave me, forget me , hate me' speech to both Elena and Damon , i think that even though Damon and Elena's intentions are in the right place , maybe their route is wrong. You can't just get up , grab Stefam's collar , inject him , persuade him , pack him up in your car and get him back to Mystic Falls and in your life.

In the new episode, when Stefan aggressively and desperateky tries to knock it into his brother's head and his beloved's heart , you realize that on teh surface , there is no bloody way Stefan can come back to Elena and Damon. Coming back with them will mean breach of contract with Klaus, a full on betrayal , worse than that the revelation that Elena Gilbert is ALIVE. Its like unleashing Klaus' merciless wrath. Klaus , if he gets even an inkling that Elena is alive and that Stefan has been fooling him , he will turn everyone into bottles of blood and put them in his deep freezer. Then? Everything finished. So, instead of trying to take Stefan back to MF , Damon and Elena need to find a twisted way that may reach Stefan but does not go through them. They need to figure out and sort out Klaus because its Klaus who is the key to Stefan's release.

Klaus' grasp on Stefan is getting emotional now. He has unlocked a chapter of Stefan's memory where we come to know that Stefan and Klaus were besties , almost like brothers and that Stefan was almost in love with Klaus' sister Rebecca. Unlocking of that memory can alter Stefan's emotions and stance as far as Klaus is concerned. He was attached to this were vamp in the past and we will see the repercussions now. Notice Stefan's expression when he says - " We were friends." Its pleasant and nostalgic. And what does Klaus say to that? We are friends. Point being, that if by chance Stefan forges an emotional bond with Klaus or even worse both Klaus and Rebecca , his loyalty will cost him high. We know Stefan's problem, right? He protects the ones he loves. Infact , he can go to insane limits as we can see what he has done to himself to save Elena and Damon.

And in this emotional and moral schism, where is Elena's Stefan? He is still there. The ripper and Klaus' slave inside him threatening to break him away from Elena but his undead heart not letting go of Elena. Yes, Stefan is sinking deeper and deeper into his dark side and a life that threatens to kill every ounce of goodness in him, but Elena refuses to let go. Elena's Stefan in Stefan just cannot let go.

Its symbolical how Elena stood curled up in the closet that had an entire list of Stefan's victims. Yet , when she saw him peep in , there was nothing but emotional relief that she finally did see him. It didn't matter if Klaus was prowling around behind the screen. Elena, standing aganist that whiteboard screaming VICTIMS and that expression on her face - well, Stefan's evil side can shake up Elena but can it make her love him any less? I think not.

Later , you just have to see Elena's face when Damon sends Stefan to see her and tell her himself that he wants her to go back to Chicago. Elena seemed in an emotional trance and you can figure out that she can't believe that she is seeing Stefan right in front of her - in flesh and blood- taking her name - talking to her. She tells him what she has always told him- she tells him that she had to be here because she wants him to come back to her , come back home. And Stefan? Weighed down by his life , his circumstances and his belief that there is no road that leads back to Elena tells her in the harhest manner possible that he is not coming back to her. She should go home, forget him , forget that epic period of love that she had with him and just get on with her life. He is not the same Stefan and that is that . But does Elena care? She refused to be protected if it meant not having Stefan in her life. Stubborn , resilient , rigid , indelible love. That is Elena's love for Stefan.

But once again, for her sake, her life and relegated to his own darkness , Stefan broke her heart and walked away from her. To Klaus. From Elena and Damon to Klaus. From his promise of light to dungeons of darkness...

Stefan has put a THE END to everything and he has abandoned Elena. You see that frozen heartbreak on Elena's face when she tells Damon with a dry face threatening to burst into tears - JUST DRIVE. There is no reason for Elena to hope that Stefan will ever come back to her. So, what will Elena do now. Forget Stefan and get on with her life? Who knows...

The dialogue that told you that just why Stelena are Stelena was :

Stefan: You shouldn't be here.😡
Elena: Where else would I be?🤗

Love and luck always,❤️
GOD bless everyone.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I totally LOVED this episode and perhaps the best so far.

Oh man..."I don't want to see you,I don't want to be with you"..that was painful to listen and even tho it was heart breaking, it was needed. I am glad Stefan for once gave her a reality check and ended things with her. When Damon, Alaric and others told her, she was not willing to listen and needed it to hear from Stefan himself. Whatever, he said will not really change anything for her but from now on, she will stop going after him but never give up on him or the hope of getting him back one day.

Oh before I forget it...the closet scene when both finally saw each other and the silence and exchange of looks said it all. No words needs to describe how much they love each other.

Like you mentioned above, there is no way Stefan will return back with them, they need to find a way to get on Klaus. Now that his memories are back, and he used to have a thing with Rebecca..how will this play out and that too with Katherine back..both are going to kill each other in the process of trying to get Stefans attention😆😆


Finally we got to see why Klaus wanted Stefan and we have always thought what will turn Stefan more over to the dark side and now we know. It's the flashbacks from his ripper days and it was nice..Klaus has always considered Stefan as his brother and we saw he values friendship and has a soft side. and even better, he was inspired by Stefan..😲

Elena and Damon are unaware of the fact that they hold the key for everything. Its the necklace Elena has and its even more interesting..it used to belong to Rebbeca😲 I didn't see that coming...interesting twist and turns😛




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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aahaana

I totally LOVED this episode and perhaps the best so far.

Oh man..."I don't want to see you,I don't want to be with you"..that was painful to listen and even tho it was heart breaking, it was needed. I am glad Stefan for once gave her a reality check and ended things with her. When Damon, Alaric and others told her, she was not willing to listen and needed it to hear from Stefan himself. Whatever, he said will not really change anything for her but from now on, she will stop going after him but never give up on him or the hope of getting him back one day.

True that. Now, at least, Stefan doesn't have to worry about Klaus running into Elena just because she is trailing behind or stalking Stefan. Yes, Elena is heartbroken but at least she is alive. Damon is alive and MF is more or less safe from Klaus' wrath. I hope Elena waits for Stefan but do you think waiting is enough? Stefan is giving no hints or hopes of coming back to her and that is killing.

Oh before I forget it...the closet scene when both finally saw each other and the silence and exchange of looks said it all. No words needs to describe how much they love each other.

Like you mentioned above, there is no way Stefan will return back with them, they need to find a way to get on Klaus. Now that his memories are back, and he used to have a thing with Rebecca..how will this play out and that too with Katherine back..both are going to kill each other in the process of trying to get Stefans attention😆😆


Aha, the closet scene was such an expression of love. No words but you had love screaming in that closet. I still can't get over Elena's expression. 😳...Stefan's memory returning is another test of his love for Elena. Is his love for Elena real enough to keep Rebecca just an ex? As for Kath , i again get the feeling that she still loves Stefan. Even in the new promo , you can see that she is in a way looking out for him. I think we are gonna see a lot of Stefan and Kath as well this season.


Finally we got to see why Klaus wanted Stefan and we have always thought what will turn Stefan more over to the dark side and now we know. It's the flashbacks from his ripper days and it was nice..Klaus has always considered Stefan as his brother and we saw he values friendship and has a soft side. and even better, he was inspired by Stefan..😲

Elena and Damon are unaware of the fact that they hold the key for everything. Its the necklace Elena has and its even more interesting..it used to belong to Rebbeca😲 I didn't see that coming...interesting twist and turns😛


Stefan's love and loyalties are about to get torn betweeen Damon and Klaus. That will happen. And i want to see what runs thicker for Stefan. Damon's blood or Klaus comradeship. The necklace will be needed now and i think the necklace will bring Stefan and Elena face to face again. 😍




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Posted: 13 years ago
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Klaus suprised me in this episode and showed his emotional side. It was new for me that his sister had an affair with Stefan back in 1920s. They were soo in love with eatch other and Klaus and Stefan were good friends. Its looks like while this story develops we are gonna see lots of vunarble sides of Klaus. That necklace that Elena has on her neck is originally from Klaus sister. It must be such a difficult time for Stefan that he cant be with his Elena. Stefan forgot tha past and the worst part is that Klaus reminded him that they were friends and his sister his lover. Am curious how this story further develops.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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RESERVED. Have lots to say.😭

on a brighter note, I can't wait for Elena, Rebecca and Katherine to have a scene together. it'll be fun.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Woah poco...love the analysis of the whole episode...brilliantly said...👍🏼

but my question is :" Has Stefan really changed after knowing the 1920s chapter of his vampire life or he is just wearing facade to protect his love Elena and his only family Damon??
It was really painful to see Stefan breaking up with Elena...the shocked and heartbreaking look on Elena was so painful...I dont know what is going to happen next with stelena??
are they just gonna end stelena like this and go on with delena??

this epi was a real shocker...I agree with you guys, seeing an emotional side of Klaus was kinda surprising and morever the real shocker was rebecca and stefan's story...and now the need of the hour for Klaus and rebecca is the necklace which is actually worn by Elena...I hope we see some Stelena scenes because of the necklace 😳
i absolutely cannot wait for the coming epis..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: qazplm



on a brighter note, I can't wait for Elena, Rebecca and Katherine to have a scene together. it'll be fun.



oh I didnt think about that...now that will be somethign really interesting to watch out...😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you so much for replying, everyone. I guess more or less everyone is heartbroken this season and that includes us as well. BTW, why do you think Kath is following and warning Stefan? Does she still love him in her own twisted dark way?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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you've got a way with words when you analyze relationships. and I love your analysis because you really seem to get the characters and their motivations.

I personally think that the person most broken by Stefan's decision is Stefan himself. He may now remember Rebekah and Klaus, and may even care for them (as shown in the flashbacks), but he undoubtedly loves Elena. He has done everything he's done till now to keep Elena, Damon and his friends in MF safe. And no matter what he does here out, no matter what he says, pushing Elena away, making her hate him (though I doubt she's really capable of hating him) is the hardest thing he's had to do. And he broke his own heart to keep Elena safe. He knows that Damon will take care of her, take care of MF in his absence. So he will keep his end of the deal with Klaus to keep Klaus (and now Rebekah) away from MF, and finding out that Elena isn't dead.

The scene in the closet is just - I love that they can communicate without saying anything. You can see that a part of Stefan is happy, is glad to see Elena - because he's missed her, and he loves her, the same way you can see Elena is so happy to see Stefan alive, even after finding out what he's capable of, how many people he's tortured and killed. In that moment, she's forgotten Klaus is just outside, and he's able to breathe. One silent glance - and they're reassured of their love for each other. Even if Stefan breaks her heart at the end, that glance will remind her that Stefan's still there. Her Stefan is still there somewhere, and she just has to be patient, and come up with a plan that doesn't involve going head to head with Klaus because that's just plain insane.

Can I say that I'm enjoying the KlausStefan bromance though? The flashbacks show a vulnerability to Klaus I wasn't expecting. He 'killed' his family because they saw him as an abomination, he resented them for it. He liked Stefan because Stefan didn't care. Stefan liked him despite his 'freak' nature. As much as I want our Stefan back, these moments are definitely fun to watch.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: PinkChocolate

BTW, why do you think Kath is following and warning Stefan? Does she still love him in her own twisted dark way?


Most definitely, in her twisted dark way, she still loves Stefan.

For Kath, she's always wanted what she couldn't have. Be it her scandalous baby out of wedlock, user and abuser Klaus or two brothers at once. Having almost everything she loved snatched from her, she's turned into what can only be classed as nothing else but a bitch. However, we've seen rare glimpses of her where she quietly regretted and sometimes, repented, her actions. She may not have changed wholly (and I hope she doesn't) but she's definitely in the process.

In the epi 3, we saw that she knew Stefan way before she turned up at the Salvatore residence, albeit Stefan not knowing. She probably followed him for the necklace, knowing it has a link to the man who's hunting her down, but I think she set eyes on him from then, on her very first glance.

Now, as much as she admits that she likes the ripper Stefan, I don't think she quite does. She admired the quiet, tame yet playful young man who was infatuated with her. He was prepared to lay down his life for her, and she was prepared to let it happen but not without feelings. She admitted so herself that she's been following him in her 'dead absence', so why won't she do it again now? But, of course, she can't go and exactly save Stefan herself, Klaus is still on her tail. So she informed others who she knows are definitely looking for him - Damon and Elena. Wise move.

They say you realise the worth of something once it's gone. Stefan's gone for her. Long before he was gone for everyone else and himself. She's realised, and now she's gonna fight in the best way possible to find him again - tactfully. She's just gotta download the rest of the Save Stefan crew on how it's done.

Now I can't sign out without a lil cheery whoop of GO KATHERINE! I missed her, it was good to her kickass nature back on the show.

Oh and...Poco! Long time. Or shall it be Choco, now that the female warrior's been overwritten by the temptational mixture of pink and chocolate. There's no way I'm calling you Pinky, though. Sorry for going off topic from Stalena but you asked the question and you know I never write small!
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