Teri Meri Doriyaann Episode Discussion Thread - 36 - Page 74

Originally posted by: hellodona

Yeah you can care for multiple things at a time. Sahiba was worried for Seerat after Garry's death and also wanted to know what Angad wanted to tell her. It isn't that he cares about diamond the most, it is that he cares about diamond, his mom and everyone but Sahiba.

It tells you he never wanted a confession. Just like he doesn't care if she cooks for him or knows his likes dislikes. Once something is done he shifts the goalposts. He just wants ways to put her down.

Read that he is wary of her confession , if she truly feels that. How exactly do we deduce that? Neither the acting, nor the dialogues, nor the story backs it up.

Sahiba wanted to know if he loves her to give it all, she asked him post his not that great proposal attempt in peach suit to tell her if he loves her and now that she realized his words were addressed to her she is giving it all like a slave. But Angad never cared about how she feels so now that he knows she will always stick to him like a glue he is comfortable enough to leave her in hotel alone.

Anyways, one person delivered a proposal looking into the eyes of the guy and still thinks she hasn't done enough and should do a lot more for him.

Another person proposed half heartedly to back of some woman and got offended that she did not accept his words immediately. Shows who values whom more.

My point being: Sahiba has always been the giver in her relationship with both Angad and Seerat and still made to feel like she is a bad partner/sister consistently.

If she gets break from serving her husband who doesn't give two hoots about her, she should help Keerat who has always loved her.

Originally posted by: hellodona

Yeah the current whatever from Sahiba isn't love. It is being made to feel guilty and gaslighted by a toxic family and now she keeps telling herself she needs to do more and mould herself for him. Lost her identity fully.

With Angad I genuinely haven't ever seen him step out of his comfort zone for Sahiba unless she is about to die. He did not agree for work, his family was more important, he agreed for education only because he said he wanted his wife to be a graduate and then tortured her, he did not want to break his unnecessary dosti with bhabi despite repeated requests, he also knew there was a stalker for long time but he made no efforts to protect her till very late all because his ego was hurt, he did not care about her hand injury or her getting slapped because his client harassed his bhabi.

Trust me I am trying to rack my brains but I can't recall a time he truly cared about her emotional well being or trauma.

The only time I have seen genuine emotions is when she is about to die which now doesn't make any sense because why do you want her alive, so your mom has someone to put down.

On the contrary I have felt he did step out of his comfort zone a couple of times. He was changing ...because he hated her so much...He had started trusting her, he had started loving and caring for her, he went to her art whatever it was to support her even when they were going through a rift concerning Simran.. There are umpteen instances according to me. I used to believe he genuinely loved Sahiba, but his love was toxic. Now, all this became a NIL Or became invalid to me when he started treating Seerat di with extra care. That is where I felt.. Good Lord! Sahiba deserves better... Then when he exposed Seerat I was like okay.. Thank God! He did that... He atleast shows more regard to his wife... But then he again ends up gaslighting his wife 👰 and starts taking the greater than thou attitude.. Which again put me off...

Now coming to Sahiba... Shes definitely much much better than Angad as a person. Much better in respecting relationships, much better at keeping boundaries, trusting her spouse... But she faltered when it came to showing her emotions to him. She often comes across as a caring loving person in general.. I even felt at times she disregarded his attempts at making her feel special (but well, he has disrespected and insulted her hundred times more). So neither Sahiba nor Angad is all good as lovers/spouse. But in Sahibas case if they had showed her to have been hurt or still traumatized by what he did to her.. Her indifference would have been counted... I would have told she did the right thing...

Having said that Angad has traumatized her a lot. Sahiba never gave trauma to Angad. The way he insulted her during the MU in front of Seerat and supported her evil sister... Going by that I thought the makers would make him apologize. They would make him realize his mistake but Behold!!! Sahiba is the one to blame! She is responsible for Angad not keeping boundaries with Seerat and supporting her! This is where I really felt Angad was horrible!! He just bailed out like that!

Disclaimer: Again just my opinion🥲. Also the story is disappointing me more day by day... I am losing my interest.

Yeah ig thats the sad, unfortunate reality.

To me it seems like getting Sahiba to assume all blame and accountability and also confess her feelings was like a game for him. It was complicated. Not only did he have to make Sahiba forget abuse meted out to her and see his "acchai" , he had to do it in a way where she feels guilty for "misunderstanding" him too. He has been playing it for a while plotting everything he can do to see her surrender because how can anyone not fall for Angad Singh Brar and worship the ground he walks on. And now game is done and dusted. Mission accomplished.

Jitnaa dimaag emotional manipulation mein lagata hai utna business mein lagata toh he'd have smelled a rat regarding this Sunny Sood and diamond deal.

Its interesting how businessman Angad has actually no business acumen or sixth sense about business issues like Sahiba does but is an expert manipulator of family like no one else. He has everyone -Mongas and Brars all dancing to his tunes and he knows the exact cards to play to make people feel guilty or do what he wants. And emotional Sahiba has a good business sense but has no understanding of interpersonal dynamics and is so naive that she easily lets not just Angad but Santosh, Ajeet, Seerat, Manbeer , Daarji, Inder, Bebe, Jasleen, Kiara etc etc walk over her and forgives way too easily

https://youtu.be/2SoL0Sal98c?feature=shared

Originally posted by: hellodona

Anyways, one person delivered a proposal looking into the eyes of the guy and still thinks she hasn't done enough and should do a lot more for him.

Another person proposed half heartedly to back of some woman and got offended that she did not accept his words immediately. Shows who values whom more.

My point being: Sahiba has always been the giver in her relationship with both Angad and Seerat and still made to feel like she is a bad partner/sister consistently.

If she gets break from serving her husband who doesn't give two hoots about her, she should help Keerat who has always loved her.

Agree with everything except last part. Keerat is a decent sibling - ok. But Keerat is often conveniently missing from everything crucial pertaining Sahiba. She didn't do anything to help Sahiba despite knowing the stuff that happened leading to her leaving Brar house. And she claimed its cause Sahiba told her not to. Really?! Sahiba neh bola and she agreed. Thats it?! She just watched mutely as Sahiba had to deal with so much. This despite her personality supposedly being unafraid to call a spade and to confront people head on unlike Sahiba who is diplomatic and peace maker personality.

Yeah he might have but the next instances just nullified anything he did. And fact is he isn't oblivious to mental trauma, he understands his mom's trauma for being cheated on to the point he supported his mom's decision of sending Simran at night with strange men till Sahiba was declared dead, he understands Seerats emotional state even when she cheated him and offered him ema, with Sahiba he doesn't understand even a basic ask that he should maintain decency with his bhabi.

I know he changed from his og self towards Sahiba but his attitude towards Sahiba was because he believed she was a gold digger who trapped him in marriage(from Gcs screenplay because his behaviour with Seerat was lifted from Ghum). He did not really change, he just put her through hell and realized she didn't trap him into marriage for his wealth. So I don't count that as character development, his mu cleared that is it.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Agree with everything except last part. Keerat is a decent sibling - ok. But Keerat is often conveniently missing from everything crucial pertaining Sahiba. She didn't do anything to help Sahiba despite knowing the stuff that happened leading to her leaving Brar house. And she claimed its cause Sahiba told her not to. Really?! Sahiba neh bola and she agreed. Thats it?! She just watched mutely as Sahiba had to deal with so much. This despite her personality supposedly being unafraid to call a spade and to confront people head on unlike Sahiba who is diplomatic and peace maker personality.

Idk. Keerat has gotten watered down a lot. But no, Sahiba hasn't done a damn thing for Keerat in a while. It is only Keerat helping her prove she is innocent to Angad during Garry track and jail track. Sahiba is the elder sister. They should show her helping Keerat out in crucial times at least once.

Originally posted by: shanakanj

https://youtu.be/2SoL0Sal98c?feature=shared

Just guesswork by them based on past precaps. Ghar waale will come to Mumbai based on this...but lmao voice over ko pata nahi kuchh bol raha makers ne zaroor aisa hi twist rakha hoga ki Garry badla lene aayega.

Until now keerat has never been in trouble or been relevant at all. Only now she's going through stuff with the lusty coach. Otherwise Keerat basically stays away or follows what Sahiba asks her to do to help out in a sticky situations. But khud ka dimaag ya pov nahi hai. She just lets things happen. She's not so much younger that she needs to stay mute. She could have exposed Seerat way back if she spoke up. By the time Keerat reacts, she's missed the bus!