Kunj's anger is understandable but being unreasonable is not.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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As i saw today's episode, I was just cringing at Kunj's behavior. I get that he feels angry about Twinkle hiding those photos but she has apologized and explained her motives. Instead of hearing her out, he walks away from her.


Kunj has always been a level headed person. He isn't hasty or impulsive. Thats what balances out his relationship with Twinkle. He is the ying to her yang. But right now he seems to be so controlled by his emotions rather than him controlling them. Of course the argument can be made and rightfully so that this situation has seen his father end up in a coma. Kunj has always had a rocky relationship with his father, but as it was (beautifully portrayed by Sidhant) always redeemable in his mind. He wants to have a close and loving relationship with his dad, he feels guilty of not trying harder when he did have a chance. But now he is helpless at the thought of never getting that second chance that is so crucial. This is probably fueling his anger to greater heights and he isn't seeing straight. But to the point of shutting Twinkle out completely is somewhat excessive.


Memory and common sense seems to be very selective and fickle thing. Somehow everything good Twinkle has done has been forgotten. All the times she has pleaded her case and been proven right has been wiped away. And yes that is a rule in a daily soap but taking common sense away completely should not be.


Kunj clearly sees that there was a video that was doctored to show that Twinkle was the one who leaked the pictures. He knows, adamantly so, that the girl in the video was not Twinkle. So clearly he understands thats there is a conspiracy at play here. He also knows that Twinkle exposed Purvi at the Mrs.Amritsar contest as a con artist. He is smart enough to connect the dots and realize that he is not seeing the full picture. And given all that has happened its a wonder that he has't even considered the possibility that Yuvi or Anita are behind all of this.


Which brings me to tonights episode. First of all, Kunj constantly calling Twinkle childish is starting to irk me. She has a child like innocence for sure, but childish she is not. If she were she would never have stayed in the Sarna household with everything thrown at her. She is a grown woman who has always tried to live up to her responsibilities and to be the best person she can be. In this instance her innocence is actually her strength as it has not jaded her to Usha's constant insults or the family's lack of trust regarding her actions. For Kunj to think that Twinkle can go from praying for her Father-in-laws health in the morning to planning a romantic interlude later on just makes me wonder if he knows her at all. But more than, just a few short hours ago she caught him lying about eating his food, proving how well she knows him. Based on that, does he really think she would plan a romanic get away for the two of them? The woman who can read him like a book would really try to distract him from his father's health issues?

Even if he weren't given the opportunity due to time constraints about this line of reasoning, shouldn't he have at least allowed her to explain herself? Just raining accusations on her isn't doing anyone any favors. Least of all Kunj.


Wow this post really got away from me. Thank you for reading it all the way through 😳

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Posted: 9 years ago
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i understand what he saw wasn't appropriate i didn't like how he thought that she would do such a thing but again its him not being the right mind
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: kabirslover

i understand what he saw wasn't appropriate i didn't like how he thought that she would do such a thing but again its him not being the right mind


I understand that but I couldn't bear seeing Twinkle like that. She is being accused of so many things that she has nothing to do with. But despite all that she is trying to stay strong and truthful. Kunj is really not thinking clearly but he should have a little more trust when it comes to Twinkle.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Kunj has definitely been an understanding and rational person but when it comes to someone attacking his loved one, he get super angry. His anger has been underlying part in their relationship since the beginning.
Once his father will be fine, he'll simmer down and bring Twinkle back himself.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I completely agree with you,Exactly my thoughts!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: areeba_blossom

Kunj has definitely been an understanding and rational person but when it comes to someone attacking his loved one, he get super angry. His anger has been underlying part in their relationship since the beginning.

Once his father will be fine, he'll simmer down and bring Twinkle back himself.

But I just hope that in this anger he does not do something that will make twinkle go very very far away from him and it will be too difficult to get her back!

But still somehow I think the way things are playing out they are not justifieble,except yesterday's episode.
The behaviour he had in past few episodes was just kind of Unreasonable for me,Although I get his hurt and anger but still things have gone overboard.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: areeba_blossom

Kunj has definitely been an understanding and rational person but when it comes to someone attacking his loved one, he get super angry. His anger has been underlying part in their relationship since the beginning.

Once his father will be fine, he'll simmer down and bring Twinkle back himself.


I agree that there has been a streak of anger in their marriage but given everything thing that has happened Kunj should at least give Twinkle the benefit of the doubt. Why did he never even give Twinkle a chance to explain herself? And when she repeatedly said she had no idea how this all happened he dismissed her claims as lies. This angers me the most as given everything that has happened, the number of times Twinkle has been proven right, the number of times she has been set up, the number of times Kunj has been manipulated he never even thought that there could be something else at play?

He knows that the photos are doctored but somehow doesn't believe her when she says she didn't set up the romantic (read a little cheap) rendezvous? I am sure he will simmer down eventually, but this instant leap he took to believe the worst in Twinkle really hurts my shipper heart.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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reminds me of the time when Twinkle lashed onto Kunj for the farmhouse incident. She did trust him, and knew in her heart that he won't do this, but she started to blame him in her anger...
This goes onto show how both are equal in doing mistakes and are just "normal" persons as in real life.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree 100% with what you have said. What happened to the level-headed sensible, always fair guy? This guy is being unreasonable and pig-headed. Twinkle even said she had promised his dad not to divulge his secret. Kunj kept the secret about Twinkle's dad from her and he did that with the best of intentions so he should be able to understand her motives in keeping the secret of the pictures from him. And he needs to put on his thinking cap and deduce that someone is trying to trap Twinkle. He also knows this is not the first time that this sort of thing has happened. Irks me too that he keeps calling Twinkle childish.
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Originally posted by: archonline

reminds me of the time when Twinkle lashed onto Kunj for the farmhouse incident. She did trust him, and knew in her heart that he won't do this, but she started to blame him in her anger...

This goes onto show how both are equal in doing mistakes and are just "normal" persons as in real life.


Yes! But when Kunj explained the situation to her Twinkle and exposed Yuvi's deception, she heard him out and trusted his words. There was always a little mistrust between the two of them because of this situation but Twinkle never shut down the lines of communication. She didn't let her anger stop her from talking to Kunj, but Kunj is completely shutting her out and that really pains me. But they are human and have to make their own unique mistakes.

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