Relationship Dynamics (2.23.16)

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Adding the date just makes the title look so much more cooler LOL. Helllo peeps! So I have a break and instead of doing homework of course I chose I watch the episode and fangirl! This post is prolly gonna go from epic fangirling to me stressing out LOL.

First things first, the dances. I didn't have too much expectations from it cause I thought it might be a short little thing but omg boy was I wrong! Perfect song choices and the chemistry was alive. I forgot about all the drama, tension between the two and everything else going on because my focus was just on their body language. Kunj was so delicately handling her, it was like he was truly appreciating his wife in those moments and Twinkle was absolutely mesmerized. They were continuously in sync, with Kunj stealing my heart during Dance Pe Chance and then them together had me squealing! The way their faces were so close and towards the ending when he brought her hand so gently close to his face like I was again, squealing! Ishq Wala Love was a great choice because you can really dance to it AND it gives me innocent love vibes like aw look at these kiddies in the initial stages! And then Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi was so so so good. Like yes, Rab really did make them for each other as shown from the beginning, it was a more mature ish song like Sajna Ve, and damn I just loved it. I'm gonna leave the musical analysis to DhilDhadakNeDo LOL. The second best part was how Yuvi couldn't take his eyes off of them, he was so jealous and I mean who wouldn't be?! Twinkle and Kunj agreed to let Mahi win so she's not heartbroken but they were so engrossed in each other's eyes that took a backseat. I just really loved it!

After watching the dances twice LOL I went on with the rest of the episode and that's where the title of this thread plays its part. When Yuvi and Twinkle were in a relationship, their actions were because of or revolved around their mothers. Now with Twinkle and Kunj we have seen them do stuff for each other because of their fathers. Kunj hid stuff from Twinkle about RT and almost slapped her because of that truth that she didn't know which was absolutely wrong. Now Twinkle is hiding stuff from Kunj which is causing problems in her marital life but it's for his father. I know many people on the forum think that Twinkle should just tell Kunj already but she knows how delicate their relationship is. I actually felt bad for Manohar today WHICH IS A SHOCKER CAUSE HE SUCKS. It's his fault he has such a bad relationship with his son, but because of that now he can't go to him for help or anything. He can't risk having Kunj doubt him because Kunj would of course be on Usha's side. So I completely understand Twinkle's actions because as we have seen she thinks she can handle things on her own and she's just trying to fix this mess without having Kunj think any less of his father. Kunj did the same thing for Twinkle so how can we criticize Twinkle now. She was even hesitant about it because rmr when she asked Bebe if it's okay to lie to someone for their benefit. She knows they are a team but I'm taking this as she wants to protect Kunj this time.

I found it really adorable how Kunj was just chilling in Twinkle's changing room with her LOL, but the best part of that scene was how Kunj took whatever the dude said as an attack on THEM, not only Twinkle. Bahut acha jawab diya usne! Bechara judge, first got yelled at by Twinkle and now put in his place by Kunj. Love our babies haha!

Now onto the Precap, first of all Kunj scared ME. So I think that means Sid deserves some serious clapping because holy cannoli he did the angry part so welll! Like damn his veins!!! I'm also so proud of Twinkle for fighting back as much as she could but ofc her hero would come save her! Now I'm conflicted again lol, between whether or not I think what Kunj said was right. I completely and absolutely believe his anger is justified, but telling Twinkle she's on her own? After another horrific incident, she's been a victim of this 3 times and the second time she didn't even know! So this is disgusting to happen to her like no matter how strong a girl is or a guy for that matter, these kinds of situations are very sensitive and vulnerable. I know that when we are angry we say things we don't mean so I understand that Kunj is fed up. He thinks Twinkle almost got raped because of Mahi, her need to become the perfect older sister and all. So we can't be mad at him at that cause he doesn't know she's actually doing this to save his father. And yesterday Fangirl1012 made some great points to me! We often place characters on pedestals and think that they can do no wrong, but they are human. Kunj is angry with Twinkle's decisions, frustrated because she was in such a delicate situation and annoyed because she doesn't listen so him to blow up on her is something any husband is viable to do. But then my heart says Kunj better apologize or something because it's not fair to Twjnkle because she didn't ask for that to happen when all she wanted to do was help. Therefore I would love your opinions LOL. I'm not asking to choose sides but what do you think about my jumbled thoughts??? :P

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Damn, it looks so long on my phone LOL. Shoulda created separate threads but I get home late so one is enough 😆

Oh and PS: I loves you guys!
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teddy this is awesome
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Looking awesome..will read subha inshaAllah
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And i love you tooo much okk🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: teddyyy

Adding the date just makes the title look so much more cooler LOL. Helllo peeps! So I have a break and instead of doing homework of course I chose I watch the episode and fangirl! This post is prolly gonna go from epic fangirling to me stressing out LOL.

First things first, the dances. I didn't have too much expectations from it cause I thought it might be a short little thing but omg boy was I wrong! Perfect song choices and the chemistry was alive. I forgot about all the drama, tension between the two and everything else going on because my focus was just on their body language. Kunj was so delicately handling her, it was like he was truly appreciating his wife in those moments and Twinkle was absolutely mesmerized. They were continuously in sync, with Kunj stealing my heart during Dance Pe Chance and then them together had me squealing! The way their faces were so close and towards the ending when he brought her hand so gently close to his face like I was again, squealing! Ishq Wala Love was a great choice because you can really dance to it AND it gives me innocent love vibes like aw look at these kiddies in the initial stages! And then Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi was so so so good. Like yes, Rab really did make them for each other as shown from the beginning, it was a more mature ish song like Sajna Ve, and damn I just loved it. I'm gonna leave the musical analysis to DhilDhadakNeDo LOL. The second best part was how Yuvi couldn't take his eyes off of them, he was so jealous and I mean who wouldn't be?! Twinkle and Kunj agreed to let Mahi win so she's not heartbroken but they were so engrossed in each other's eyes that took a backseat. I just really loved it!

After watching the dances twice LOL I went on with the rest of the episode and that's where the title of this thread plays its part. When Yuvi and Twinkle were in a relationship, their actions were because of or revolved around their mothers. Now with Twinkle and Kunj we have seen them do stuff for each other because of their fathers. Kunj hid stuff from Twinkle about RT and almost slapped her because of that truth that she didn't know which was absolutely wrong. Now Twinkle is hiding stuff from Kunj which is causing problems in her marital life but it's for his father. I know many people on the forum think that Twinkle should just tell Kunj already but she knows how delicate their relationship is. I actually felt bad for Manohar today WHICH IS A SHOCKER CAUSE HE SUCKS. It's his fault he has such a bad relationship with his son, but because of that now he can't go to him for help or anything. He can't risk having Kunj doubt him because Kunj would of course be on Usha's side. So I completely understand Twinkle's actions because as we have seen she thinks she can handle things on her own and she's just trying to fix this mess without having Kunj think any less of his father. Kunj did the same thing for Twinkle so how can we criticize Twinkle now. She was even hesitant about it because rmr when she asked Bebe if it's okay to lie to someone for their benefit. She knows they are a team but I'm taking this as she wants to protect Kunj this time.

I found it really adorable how Kunj was just chilling in Twinkle's changing room with her LOL, but the best part of that scene was how Kunj took whatever the dude said as an attack on THEM, not only Twinkle. Bahut acha jawab diya usne! Bechara judge, first got yelled at by Twinkle and now put in his place by Kunj. Love our babies haha!

Now onto the Precap, first of all Kunj scared ME. So I think that means Sid deserves some serious clapping because holy cannoli he did the angry part so welll! Like damn his veins!!! I'm also so proud of Twinkle for fighting back as much as she could but ofc her hero would come save her! Now I'm conflicted again lol, between whether or not I think what Kunj said was right. I completely and absolutely believe his anger is justified, but telling Twinkle she's on her own? After another horrific incident, she's been a victim of this 3 times and the second time she didn't even know! So this is disgusting to happen to her like no matter how strong a girl is or a guy for that matter, these kinds of situations are very sensitive and vulnerable. I know that when we are angry we say things we don't mean so I understand that Kunj is fed up. He thinks Twinkle almost got raped because of Mahi, her need to become the perfect older sister and all. So we can't be mad at him at that cause he doesn't know she's actually doing this to save his father. And yesterday Fangirl1012 made some great points to me! We often place characters on pedestals and think that they can do no wrong, but they are human. Kunj is angry with Twinkle's decisions, frustrated because she was in such a delicate situation and annoyed because she doesn't listen so him to blow up on her is something any husband is viable to do. But then my heart says Kunj better apologize or something because it's not fair to Twjnkle because she didn't ask for that to happen when all she wanted to do was help. Therefore I would love your opinions LOL. I'm not asking to choose sides but what do you think about my jumbled thoughts??? :P



I agree completely..their dance was magical..kunj was so smitten by her..and twinkle too loving the moment..

about the precap lets see how it unfolds..kunj has every right to get angry..she always lands herself in trouble..kunj will be seriously concerned this time..lets see whats in store for us..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hiding about the MMS/blackmailing thing from Kunj was a practical decision by Twinkle because Kunj-Manohar is equation is very sensitive so without proper knowledge n prove approaching Kunj not a good idea so YES Twinkle has a valid reason, but what I did not get is, exactly kya soochke Twinkle entered in a room in that area? It was a very stupid move in my opinion

Regarding Kunj's anger...it was in the hit of the moment, he was not in his sense, finding Twinkle in such a situation he lost it completely but I am sure he did not mean whatever he said, n he will be back to his loving n forgiving self soon

Even I love his chilling in her changing room hehehehe
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Posted: 9 years ago
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great post...agreed with wat u said
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I can 100% see why Kunj is so frustrated. He loves this self-sacrificing and over-caring attitude of Twinkle but he's just mad she's not including him because he's starting to think of them as a team but she continues to act solo. He wants to go on all these missions with her, even with the stupid Mahi ones if it means he can be with Twinkle.
I also loved that he used "hum" and didn't retract his hand from hers when he realized he was holding it. Man, today they were just magical (their lips were like mm away from each other haha). I also loved how Twinkle was totally throwing attitude towards him because she's mad about yesterday and him saying he doesn't care. Agar wife nahi irritate karegi to kaun karega lol.

I continue to love Yuvi's smirks and also when he gets slapped haha. Kunj looks like he was legit about to do that.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you for mentioning me in your post I am going to present both sides so bear with me
Kunj's P.o.v: He is in a confused state right now. On the surface he believes that he just has a contractual relationship with Twinkle but deep down he has started developing feelings for her. He is trying to process these feelings. Right now he has an innate desire to protect her and from the get go he believes that Twinkle should not participate in the Mrs Amritsar competition. He want her to chose him and value his opinion indirectly he wants validation from Twinkle that their marriage is indeed real. We have seen time and time again how Kunj has supported Twinkle. He has always been there for her but every guy has his breaking point. Kunj is a human being he is bound to burst at some point and the rape attempt just fueled his anger. In his eyes Twinkle is wasting her time and effort on her save mahi mission she is even hurting herself in the process. His reaction is really in character and human any guy would be furious if something like this happened to their wives after they asked them to be careful. Kunj at this point feels like that Twinkle does not care about him and her own well being. Very few people have the strength to control themselves and keep their emotions in check in times like these. However due to recent events his new found feelings Kunj is unable to maintain a calm mindset. He has had enough and he wants Twinkle to know too that he can't take more of this therefore he shouts at her that they should separate he is even trying to tell himself this that he should not care about her but he is failing. Kunj my boy no matter how loud you shout we all know that you really care about her and will always do.

Twinkle on the other hand is in a complicated situation courtesy of Yuvi god I feel like smacking his head lol. She knows that Kunj is hurt by her decision to participate but on the other hand she knows she has to protect her father in laws image. I get why she isn't telling Kunj. Kunj and his father have a fractured relationship and Kunj is bound to doubt his father which might weaken their relationship further. Twinkle will tell him when she finds strong proof that he is innocent. Also Twinkle was always shown to be a head strong girl she believes that she can solve this problem on her own. She feel she is indebted to Kunj has he has at numerous times helped her family so now she wants to help his. She can't tell him the real reason and that hurts her a lot. There was this line in Arrow that I will quote here:
"Not being able to tell the people closest to me the truth doesn't hurt anyone worse then it hurts me" she would do anything to forfeit and make Kunj happy but the circumstances do not allow her to do so.

It's heart breaking when both of them are right in their own way. I just hope they resolve things quickly😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes! The date does make it cooler, haha. I agree with what you said...Kunj is not perfect so we can't expect all this from him. Sidhant is a great actor. The precap was amazing.

- Meghana

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