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Posted: 9 years ago
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Okay this is in response to someone who think leeches like cherry love women , heck they dont women are not object to lust over and love is
"To understand the unsaid , to be there for ur partner , to be able to protect ur partner be their for him and understanding "
I really dont understand why do ppl equate physical proximity to love because if that was love then all rapists will claim to be great lovers , bec love is much more than physical proximity "

And i really dont understand why ppl just want physical proximity in arrange marriage love take time and in show they are actually showing well

And just bec Kunj respects his girl and banters with her doesnt mean he is gay and can we pls stop insulting gay ppl like this

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Ragini.

I couldn't agree more...

I am sorry it is annoying when ppl justify leeches like cherry that is reason girls still suffer in households where their brother in laws eye on them and they are suppose to keep quite bec of family 🤢
Heck even yuvi is better than cherry for 7 yrs as he didnt get physical with her 🥱
Cherry for godammn saked tried to rape her and he is said to love her an twinkle should give him bhaav wow
Ppl go crazy in justifying there fav actors character be it yuvraa fans who think it is okay to murder force a girl bec oh that is love u can treat her as an object but if she decide to move on u have all right to haasil her or cherry fans who think it is okay to lust girl 🤢🤢🤢
Actors and characters are 2 different and i am sure even zain or ra wont ustify their characters
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: BeingAnonymous

I am sorry it is annoying when ppl justify leeches like cherry that is reason girls still suffer in households where their brother in laws eye on them and they are suppose to keep quite bec of family 🤢

Heck even yuvi is better than cherry for 7 yrs as he didnt get physical with her 🥱
Cherry for godammn saked tried to rape her and he is said to love her an twinkle should give him bhaav wow
Ppl go crazy in justifying there fav actors character be it yuvraa fans who think it is okay to murder force a girl bec oh that is love u can treat her as an object but if she decide to move on u have all right to haasil her or cherry fans who think it is okay to lust girl 🤢🤢🤢
Actors and characters are 2 different and i am sure even zain or ra wont ustify their characters

It it actually insane that people can go to any level to justify something like this. Even raj and zain have told numerous times that they are doing this only because the story demands it. They in no way advocate their reel persona.
and what dumb logic is presented to justify cherry's unchaste intentions.
They need to understand that love isn't always physical. Sometimes its the ones who never got to actually hold you their arms that actually appreciate you for who you are. This is kinda the case with twinkle and kunj. He need not be intimate with her to show his love for her. And i personally feel that intimacy isn't everything.
They are giving each other space and time and are gradually growing closer.
Just because he isn't vocal about his love doesn't give people right to say that he doesn't harbour any feelings whatsoever for twinkle.
Intimacy takes time. It can't be forced or engineered.
So it's quite normal for twinkle and kunj to take things slow.
And no matter what, how can someone even justify cherry's lecherous intentions? People are so blinded that they are actually advocating that he is right because kunj is taking things slow. So what, its completely okay to eye your sis in law? Who cares about what message that is sending.
We just blindly support out favourite right.
Disgusting i tell u

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Ragini.

It it actually insane that people can go to any level to justify something like this. Even raj and zain have told numerous times that they are doing this only because the story demands it. They in no way advocate their reel persona.
and what dumb logic is presented to justify cherry's unchaste intentions.
They need to understand that love isn't always physical. Sometimes its the ones who never got to actually hold you their arms that actually appreciate you for who you are. This is kinda the case with twinkle and kunj. He need not be intimate with her to show his love for her. And i personally feel that intimacy isn't everything.
They are giving each other space and time and are gradually growing closer.
Just because he isn't vocal about his love doesn't give people right to say that he doesn't harbour any feelings whatsoever for twinkle.
Intimacy takes time. It can't be forced or engineered.
So it's quite normal for twinkle and kunj to take things slow.
People should cut them some slack..

This exactly is problem I have watched shows were all people demand is physical intimacy heck that isnt love i will be bit vocal and say i started hating JR when too much of intimacy was shown in that here in TEI i like how they are not showing love at first sight it is gradual and which is what i appreciate , Kunj responds to twinkle heck he doesnt even care for his life when it is her in danger but that doesnt mean he has to be physical always and that scene yest is oh so normal all couple have such teasing even in real life and do ppl in real life only have physical intimacy 24/7 na it is understanding and love so why cant shows show that , and tei is doing that really well
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Supporting ur fav actor is not wrong till date SRK fav perf to me is his KKKiran one to me that doesnt mean i justify the character
I have loved many actors in negative role bec they are damn good dont mean i justify their character
Here zain and Raj both are doing well and making look character convincing but their characters cant be justified
I just dont get fandom they justify wrong characters and even positive fandom they take to whole new level and sometime hate actor offscreen why cant ppl differentiate reel and real
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with you completely and I probably couldn't have said it any better. What Cherry feels for Twinkle is lust and love and lust are very, very different things. If we can say that Yuvi doesn't love Twinkle, then to say that Cherry loves Twinkle would be a contradiction of ourselves. As you said love isn't based off physical proximity, It is based of an understand and a mutual bond. Twinkle and Kunj are nearing that bond. To love doesn't mean to hug and kiss, it means to understand and cherish. If we can call rape, love then I must say there is something very wrong with our community. I don't mean to be offensive but putting rape and love on the same line and trying to justify Cherry's doings is just plain stupid and wrong. Sorry for the long and droning on comment but I have noticed people justifying characters like Yuvi and Cherry. Most of this is done on Twitter but some have also popped up here on IF. If Yuvi and Cherry love Twinkle, then love must be a very disgusting. Love is a beautiful emotion, please just let it be so. Good post and great message.
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Originally posted by: Perwinkle

I agree with you completely and I probably couldn't have said it any better. What Cherry feels for Twinkle is lust and love and lust are very, very different things. If we can say that Yuvi doesn't love Twinkle, then to say that Cherry loves Twinkle would be a contradiction of ourselves. As you said love isn't based off physical proximity, It is based of an understand and a mutual bond. Twinkle and Kunj are nearing that bond. To love doesn't mean to hug and kiss, it means to understand and cherish. If we can call rape, love then I must say there is something very wrong with our community. I don't mean to be offensive but putting rape and love on the same line and trying to justify Cherry's doings is just plain stupid and wrong. Sorry for the long and droning on comment but I have noticed people justifying characters like Yuvi and Cherry. Most of this is done on Twitter but some have also popped up here on IF. If Yuvi and Cherry love Twinkle, then love must be a very disgusting. Love is a beautiful emotion, please just let it be so. Good post and great message.

I couldnt help but be annoyed seriously being girl it is even offensive to think that such characters are justified and called as love and by girls themselves🤢
Something is so very wrong with society then why do our blood boils when khap orders girl to marry her rapist or a politicial says boys will be boys ?
We cant have double standard if we what is wrong in real is wrong in reel bec cinema reflects society and this day we need progressive stuff not regressive one
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: BeingAnonymous

I couldnt help but be annoyed seriously being girl it is even offensive to think that such characters are justified and called as love and by girls themselves🤢
Something is so very wrong with society then why do our blood boils when khap orders girl to marry her rapist or a politicial says boys will be boys ?
We cant have double standard if we what is wrong in real is wrong in reel bec cinema reflects society and this day we need progressive stuff not regressive one

Exactly. If as a girl we are justifying these sort of acts, then what message are we sending to boys. If we ourselves are saying that rape is love then we are openly inviting men to rape us. I'm going to sound extremely racist now but this is why India is still considered a developing country. This is why countries like India, Bangladesh, Pakistan are still considered 3rd World Countries. I don't meant to be racist but that is the truth. If as a girl we are justifying rape, that proves we have no self-respect. And the reason why we're justifying the character is because we like the actor? I mean seriously? I have no problem with people liking Raj and Zain. I personally think their very good actors but in no means will I ever like their character. Raj and Zain themselves would never justify their character. There's a limit of justification and rape is crossing that line. If girls are justifying rape then we are in for a dark, dark world.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Perwinkle

Exactly. If as a girl we are justifying these sort of acts, then what message are we sending to boys. If we ourselves are saying that rape is love then we are openly inviting men to rape us. I'm going to sound extremely racist now but this is why India is still considered a developing country. This is why countries like India, Bangladesh, Pakistan are still considered 3rd World Countries. I don't meant to be racist but that is the truth. If as a girl we are justifying rape, that proves we have no self-respect. And the reason why we're justifying the character is because we like the actor? I mean seriously? I have no problem with people liking Raj and Zain. I personally think their very good actors but in no means will I ever like their character. Raj and Zain themselves would never justify their character. There's a limit of justification and rape is crossing that line. If girls are justifying rape then we are in for a dark, dark world.

No India is not only country i have seen overseas ppl justifying in some hollywood movie of lust as love whch is what makes me get annoyed also a lot of fandom is teenagers i suppose what mentality have u been brought up with do u think ur parents dont love each other they do do u see them physical ? heck no so i dont understand teenage fixation with physical intimacy😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You said it all

I would not even like to take Kunj's name in the same sentence with Yuvi & Cherry specially Cherry

Yuvi is insane who does not even know the meaning of love & Cherry is just disgusting

Regarding Twinkle-Kunj personally I "Admire" their relationship, its so pure & beautiful

Physical thing is the "Last n ultimate stage" of love, love is a feeling, love is a journey...

Actually love is beyond any description, people can only feel it from the depth of their heart

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