Jetha and Daya are truly made for each other - Page 2

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: dia.207

Sorry friends but I dont agree...
Should Daya's mistakes really be compared to Jetha...

A marriage or even a relationship require love n care but it stands on FAITH...
In any relationship one might tolerate his or her spouse's unconditional support to his family..one can also endure few troubles created by partner but I dont think any girl would ever tolerate that her husband has feelings for another woman.

Ok Daya might be the worst wife but atleast she never thinks of any other men except jetha...she is only jetha's and jetha's...

Jethalal is a good husband or I should say a very good husband..he tolerates daya...n her stupid family but what he does to babita thats called CHEATING...

Because atleast for me only touching someone is not cheating but having feeling for someone else wife n trying hard to spend time with her specially when your wife is so innocent to understand that is cheating.

Kisi ko trouble karne main and kisi aur ko like karne main bohot difference hota h

As I said in my main post,neither jetha nor daya are perfect human beings. Both of them have made many mistakes in their lives. And we can't compare that jetha's mistake is bigger than daya or vice versa.U have this explanation that it's ok if daya troubles her husband because she doesn't like any other guy.In that case,some people may also say that jetha never troubles or neglects daya for babita.

I feel both of them are equally wrong. And both of them are not 100% committed to each other. If jetha flirts with babita and 'cheats' on daya then daya also supports her fraud brother and doesn't mind troubling jetha unnecessarily for the sake of others. So none of them are perfect.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Both are imperfectly Perfect for each other. But Jetha's flirting should not be compared with Daya's mistakes.
They are perfect for each other because of their similarities even in their mistakes. Not because of the compensation of mistakes. Jetha can or can not be blamed for Flirting with Babita, because its confirmed that if there is choice Jetha would choose Daya. Similarly Daya may or may not be blamed if Sundar mints money from Jethalal because its every sister's wish that if his brother asks for money he should get.

Jetha and Daya are perfect for each other because theyhhave confessed it that they love each other most in world, if there is situation to choose one Daya would choose Jetha over sundar. But sometimes both get taken away with emotions when Sundar and Babita are there. Not only Jetha looses senses for Babita, daya also does.
But When there is question of one's life they would choose each other that's love.
When Sundar removed stairs from jetha's house during renovation, Abdul saved from Jetha falling, then Daya called sundar and ordered him to get the stairs within day.
Same Jetha, during electricity current he did not show his bravery to impress Babita jee. He showed bia love for Daya.
Mistakes of both are equal. Jetha can not be forgotten for swimming track. But Daya also never thinks that she should not believe her mother's superstitions,
Jethalal sometimes cheated Daya and fail to understand that what he does is somewhat wrong, because he would never tolerate Daya liking some other men. No woman can tolerate Her husband liking some else Woman. But similarly Daya also insulted him in society innocently, or have disobeyed Him and supported Tappu when Jetha was right, because she loves tappu too.

So Disha may not get husbands like Jetha. But Disha can get husband like Dilip Joshi for sure :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dilip sir is an amazing man...I would be more than happy if she gets a husband like dilip sir...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The TM has made a very good post.Hats off to her!
Yes,jetha and daya are not perfect human beings. Every human being has good as well as bad qualities and jetha and daya are no exception.

Jetha's bad qualities are he is rude,arrogant and flirts with babita. No matter how much he loves daya but most of the times he forgets his morals and ethics when he sees babita. He doesn't realize that he is not supposed to have feelings for another woman no matter how pretty she is.He loves flirting with babita so much that he does that even in the presence of iyer and daya. But the TM and Mansi have explained it very well and I too have said that his true love is daya and he will choose daya over babita any day.

Similarly Daya too forgets her ethics when it comes to tapu and sundar. She is so blind in their love that she doesn't want to see their mistakes or even if she sees them,she forgives them so easily. She forgives tapu when he gets jetha arrested in the false charge of child labor. She forgives sundar for coming in disguise of his own mother to claim her prize money. She forgets her usools,her ethics for these two and for these,she will never be forgiven.But she's not blind in love for jetha. She can forgive tapu and sundar, no matter how much big mistakes they do but she can never forgive jetha for even a minor mistake.In the new year track,she enjoyed seeing jetha get punished for making a drinks party plan.Just imagine, if it was sundar in the place of jetha ,she would have definitely told champak to forgive him.So she is biased towards tapu and sundar.

So none of them are perfect. Jetha is unfair to daya by having feelings for babita. Similarly, daya too is unfair to Jetha in the case of tapu and sundar. So both their mistakes are equal and big.Both of them are cute little hypocrites.😳😆

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