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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#11

i m just fed up of this behanchara.

why CVs r not understanding that ppl r neither liking behanchara nor the pyaari OTT redeemed behna's so much SS.

CVs shud just once do away behna's SS & behanchara. i m telling SR will again b in top 5 on TRP chart.

and plz can sum1 slap shomi.i m not much pissed off wid swara as she was really hesitant but its shomi whos advice which is creating havoc.as swara needed sum1 2 make her cum out of the dilemma .and shomi shud'd given her gud advice instead of asking he r 2 lie 2 sanky..

i m not saying swara is not at fault but here main culprit is shomi.

i don't think there"ll b seprn of swasan but sanky will deftnly start behaving like he did during maalkin track.

and more than shomi & swara i m pissed off wid CVs & RS who r hell bent on giving sum1 SS and in return getting low quality of show & TRPs.i wish RS soon cums 2 her senses.😡

Edited by tiny15 - 9 years ago

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nimmi

@Banjaaran25

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: lucky.m

.Nimmi ...Thank god I watched torture and made this post .. atlesat I get to see you bangaram🤗 ..😳 Kuch tho acha hua .. 😉..Bring it on .. hitting bed .. will check in morning ...😉

bangaram🤗🤗

haha.. love you ra.
i may go banjaaran once again but had to rant a final time.
will try to be around coz i love my girls.. but ...

thank you for this post.
agar yeh dharam yudh hai to boss adharm yudh kya hai?

good night sweet heart.
beautiful dreams.

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kamila.

@Seriously.

Inactive

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#13

@ Nimmi.. machi.. big hug. How are you..?? Just don't forget me.. you'll be in my heart till my last breath..

Lol..

Kam..

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nimmi

@Banjaaran25

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Vaiyambar...
@ Nimmi.. machi.. big hug. How are you..?? Just don't forget me.. you'll be in my heart till my last breath..
Lol..

Kam..

awww Machi..
you are a darling🤗🤗. girl i am so touched.

me is phine re. trust life is being as beautiful as you are for you.
i will NEVER forget you. know that!
you just don't forgive special one's like 'you'.

LOL.
and more and more.. LOL

jhappis❤️

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Nupur

@Nupur_5

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#15

I'm so frustrated, annoyed & angry with Shomi & Swara!

I still can't believe is this the same Sharmishtha Bose who single handedly raised her daughter with self-respect & dignity, who was so strong!!??

After reuniting with Shekhar when truth came out, & specially since FP track Shomi Bose turned into Mishti Gadodia in true sense!

What the effing hell she was saying? What kind of suggestions she gave to her daughter?

And Swara disappointed me big time!

I have no doubt that Swara loves Sanskaar more than Ragini or anyone else, equal to her mother Shomi Bt her biggest problem is she don't express her love or think about herself, Sanskaar & them until situation is extreme like ATSH days or Kavita track or Rajat track!

She spent most of her time running behind useless, undeserving & ungrateful people like Ragini, Shekhar, Laksh, Maheshwaris, Dadi bcoz she knows they won't understand even the very obvious things & to knock some senses into them, she remain busy that she don't even think to think about herself, Sanskaar & them!

And she expect that Sanskaar will understand her & her unsaid, unexpressed feelings unlike others who don't understand her neither care about her!

And her belief on Sanskaar is always right bcoz Sanskaar DOES understand her without her saying anything!

Bt Swara should also think about Sanskaar! The difference between Swara & Sanskaar is - Sanskaar is more vocal about his feelings! He said & expressed his love more often & in every given chance! While Swara even though loves Sanskaar but needs jhatkas or extreme situations to express her love & think about Sanskaar!

She always count on Sanskaar that no matter what he will be there right beside her in her every missions or family uniting Bt she should understand that Sanskaar also need her sometimes & her first priority should be Sanskaar!

I'm so frustrated right now! I don't know when she will understand that she should think about Sanskaar rather than some useless, undeserving & ungrateful selfish people who simply don't care about her, her husband & her mother!

Sanskaar threatened her to harm himself, still taking it seriously or trying to share his pain, she is ignoring the threat thinking it his frustrated, angry outburst!??

And even after seeing his state & knowing what happened, she is still worried about Maheshwaris?

These surprised me more!

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DivineDarkness

@DivineDarkness

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Banjaaran.

Masochist in me wanted to just check the final rites of Swara Bose/Swara Sanskaar Maheshwari and rise of Swara Gadodia. hence was sticking around.
now i am free. once and for all.

Covering all points that points that i could think of:

Swara is ALWAYS like this. - Just because a person was scoring zero in self respect before doesn't mean we can't complain if they start scoring in negative.

Swara forgave Sanskaar too for drugging her and he was a stranger. - That's the point. he was STRANGER. it hurts more when your loved ones hurt you. had he been doing all the kaands he did to Swara with Ragini Swara would have ripped him apart.
It is easy to forgive strangers... how could you forgive the ones who has hurt your loved one in such an inhuman way?

Sanskaar made Swara beg for love - Hated that scene too and him for that. but he was the hurt party and SHE has hurt HIM before that scene. NOT other way round.
here the so-called family has hurt him and yet she is siding by that family.

Sanskaar threatening self harm is wrong - I doubt he would pick a gun and blow his head off (sorry for the apt analogy) if he gets to know about her 'betrayal'. (well i hope he doesn't. or else i will have to wipe egg off my face.)

more severe form of: we saying to our loved 'hey if you do that i will kill you.' and when they do exactly that; us pounding their heads.

i'll die; mera mara muh and all that are same.. a symbolic statement with definite repercussions.
DEATH of RELATIONSHIP. with finality.

He was the one who has been humiliated, hurt, insulted, degraded, physically assaulted, mentally broken, got his own mother bad mouthed, his upbringing trashed, his 'khoon' being name called...
and instead of roaring at the ones who dared to do that to her soulmate Swara wants to be family with them?
and this AFTER he says 'if you values our love do NOT do that!"

was love supposed to be... hurt me and I'll forgive you. hurt my loved one and i shall tear you apart?

i do not question her love.

but her love is...
Ragini - Shomi - Shekhar - Maheshwaris - Sanskaar.

while his is...
Swara - everybody else - Swara.

no two people can love alike and no one is carrying scale of balances to weigh their love.
but is it too much to ask for if we want her to love him with the same intensity that she does for her sister. and family?
or keep him as her sole priority for once?

what kind of love is that which doesn't care for loved one's self respect, dignity, wishes, honour, word and vow?

i do NOT hate Swara. i simply do NOT recognize her anymore.
that makes a solo fan the way in did in that ghastly memory loss track - so be it.

why Swara is always bashed not Sanskaar?
that's because the last time he did something worthy of true bashing is during MU and engagement.
after that he is barely there. either a statue or an assistant. bashing him would be just like bashing a junior level member in the team when all the decisions and work is done by the team manager.

who gets bashed more? the one who is messing up more.

so who is messing up here?

if people can't write SwaLak and Sangini together... it is Swa and San - SwaSan for them. can they be really blamed them if they want Swa and San to be on equal footing?

not every one who 'bashes' a character has got a hidden agenda. or 'solo' or biased tag.
it will probably start again. so clarifying before hand.

anyways i am done completely with the serial and all this jazz.

my Swasan started with 'main tumhe nahi chodunga' and ended on gerua note.

those who are excited for separation track.. good luck. may it be beautiful and memorable. true wishes.

dunno if i'll be around or not.. i love my girls here but now got 'zero' connect with the couple on screen.
i might just end up trolling them. would hate to do that to my favourites.

Nimmi I Love you for this post. I will take SS of this and post in twitter these questions were raised there as usual it's war zone and who are pointing out Swara's fault is arrogant and egoistic. So thank you for this. It's bang on..

If not supporting Swara in her crime and say she is wrong make me non SwaSan fan or solo fan well I dn't care. I have bashed both Swa and San when I felt they are wrong.

Yes like Lucky said one part of my OTP is dead for me.. I dn't Identify this Swara, well she is Swara Gadodia and not Swara Bose or Swara Maheshwari whom I fell in love with. So yes she is dead for me.

After butchering Swara's character I dn't want intense SwaSan track but I want SwaSan separation where Sanskar can be away from everything and Swara can happily play family with Her half sister and her sasural ppl along with her Gadodia family.

It's Sanskar who raised the point of Love so yes I will question her.. Within minutes of him saying he will kill himself ( which I dn't agree but understand) she ignored it and was ready to unite Family. Please tell me which family she is talking about?!

If not always atleast in such situations can't she give him 1St priority?! It's Swara taking for granted Sanskar's love for her.

Swara I dn't identify this character anymore.. #BUTCHERED

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BB_CallmeC

@BB_CallmeC

Inactive

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#17

Hey Lucky😃!! Here is my take on Swara and Shomi and today's epi. I dont know if this will make any sense but I have tried to be clear as possible. Copy pasting from other post since I thought it would be applicable for this post as well.

I think I have decoded Swara's version and Shomi's version of SROgic😆 😆 😆

Our theory with Sanskaar will remain the same. It wont change but their SROgic will be very different. I will tell you how.

According to Shomi and Swara, the situations are very different but for us its very same.

Whatever RagLak did to them in the past was because they were blinded by their love, hatred. Whatever Shekhar did to them was out of misunderstanding.

Now whatever RagLak are doing with them is out of MU and anger and whatever Shekhar is doing with them is out of majboori.

Is there any difference really? No clearly not. Definitely not for us and not even for Sanskaar. Its the same damn thing again and again and again. And its frustrating. Any sane person like us or Sanskaar will have a limit to take it and Sanskaar has hit that very limit. But for them, it is a VERY big difference and hence to fulfill their dreams and to continue to stay in the bubble of perfect family our Sharthi Shomi and Swara are on the run of Dharma yudh with Ragini joining them tomorrow😆Its a clear stupid mess created by CVs.

I really dont understand are we really staying in the era of Mahabharata? No we are not. What CVs are showing is exactly this!!!!!!!! Pandavas did huge stupidity by not standing up for panchali and let the the cheer-haran happen. They took everything and then the war happened and we know what all happened. And in case of SR, thats what Swara Shomi are doing. Not standing up for the self respect now and then fighting the war which will be joined by Ragini tomorrow where Shomi Swara and Ragini are pandavas and AdRi-Dadi and Kauravas. And the rest of the family will become silent spectator of the blood shed until the pandavas win.

Shomi and Swara are being absolutely stupid. They are making this dharma yudh into not only the fight for the right (prove them innocent) but also a new mission of reuniting family. Chalo for once we can say that AP DP are NOT AT ALL at fault. And whatever they are doing even if faking it, they are doing it to protect them and RagLak. So they are not really at fault except of not even trying to bring the truth out. They are helpless and to a certain extent I understand their helplessness but not completely. They are behaving as if its the end of the world and they cannot do anything where they really can. But this is how they are so I cannot question. They never doubted SwaSan was good to know and maybe AP DP deserve to be a part of the family. But they not only want to bring the truth out or unite with AP DP but also with RagLak and Shekhar? For Shekhar what they think is that he is majboor. But common man, is he really that majboor that he cannot even try to do anything else except of being his evil mom's tail? What I am hating the most is both mother - daughter duo are terming Shekhar's spineless attitude as his helplessness towards his mom. Its like how Yudhistir was vachan bhandh to not save panchali, he himself didnt save her nor did he let his brothers save her. And they are thinking of Shekhar to be yudhistir who is vachan bhandh which is absolutely stupid and senseless. And for RagLak, according to Shomi and Swara, they are just being naive and blind in anger because of the MU created by AdRi. According to them RagLak are not responsible at all. Its just the situation created by AdRi.

What Shomi and Swara are not able to see or lets just say not want to see that it is the SAME THING. At the end, the dharma yudh of Pandavas was for their right and self respect. But this dharma yudh of Swara and Shomi have been molded by them to not only make it a fight for their innocence but mainly to unite the family and bring back the broken family. I just dont understand why the hell are CVs hell bent on making this track so weird. I mean ok at the end if I get something related to SwaSan I would be ok but still. Why this? The CVs very well know that Ragini as a character has not been accepted yet by majority. And CVs are just hell bent of showing Ragini even more dumb and show other characters dumb as well. The right way to deal with this whole track would have been to show SwaSan SHomi together, fighting JUST for their self respect and not uniting the family. While Ragini making her efforts to find the truth and her alone bringing the family together. Atleast that way she would be shown making efforts for Swara and the family. But as usual since Swara and Shomi loves Ragini dearly, they will have to be shown as someone who will serve the apology in the platter. Nothing really will happen more than making Ragini look the dumbest out of all. CVs are just trying to show that Ragini cannot really do anything alone so lets bring Swara and Shomi to her level and make them fight this Dharma Yudh to promote yet again one more behenchara down out throats.

And for Shomi Swara to not taking his threat seriously, they are being insane again. But yes we know Sanskaar is not as immature as Swara to actually take that step but still you never know. Swara and everyone knows that anger of him and when he is angry he is just angry. He wont listen to anyone. Swara needs one more jhatka of malkin days and this will be all thanks to her and Shomi. Even if Sanskaar is happy about the reunion thanks to Shomi and the sisters, I would really want Sanskaar to be upset with Swara for not taking his warning into consideration. Yes, l know it was his rightful anger speaking now and for some time he just doesnt want to have anything to do with the family.

But todays episode seriously just belonged to Sanskaar Maheshwari aka Varun Kapoor. Sanskaar is one such character who knows the meaning of limit. When he will love you he will love you limitlessly and unconditionally. But when he will see that his love is being used upon, he will not stop himself from showing you the right path by using different ways. He knows when to stop and how to stop. Please Sanskaar, Swara needs a piece of mind and do give her that. You have avoided doing that for her past stupidities. So its high time now.

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nimmi

@Banjaaran25

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#18

@Leki..

love you back. thank you for finding mt post worthy of taking SS. out of curiosity i checked the portal and found some replies for that. don't want to join the portal again or reply there.
hence replying here. and ending the issue.

1. if Sanskaar is standing up for his mother why should Swara neglect her mother?

Sanskaar has always clearly and emphatically chided Sujata is she does something wrong.

Swara and Shomi:
let us reverse the situation.
if Swara had married a man like Shekhar in a family of woman like Dadi and was going through abuse, degradation, insults, constant divorce threats, zero respect and love.. and Shomi still wants her daughter to be in that family we all would have condemned her calling her a 'failed' mother.

love is standing up for your loved ones when they are right. stopping them when they do wrong.

Swara as a daughter should have 'stopped' Shomi from this classic victim being unhealthily attached to abuser syndrome rather than helping her in the mission.

If a daughter is suffering in a toxic relationship it is the responsibility of the parent to get her out of it.
reverse hold the same truth and value.

2. Swara will be bin baap ki aulaad:

well she was doing spectacularly well under care and guidance of Dida and Shomi as bin baap ki aulad till the 'baap' Shekhar walked into her life.

being bin baap ki aulaad is way better than being aulaad of such baap.

and aren't we the ones who were always deriding the father that Shekhar is. why are we now rooting for him as Swara's father?

3. People can SEE only Sanskaar's pain:

There are people who can SEE what is shown. be it pain of the girl or the man.
I for one SAW her pain during Kavita engagement track and in that sindhoor holi sequence instead of making those eyes at him wanted Swara to grab that thaal and pound it on his head.

but any given day i will CHOOSE the one who says enough to the pain than the ones who ask for more. especially from the ones who gave them pain at the first place.

Swara loves Sanskaar... who is denying this?
But barring 2-3 instances he ranked at the bottom of her priority list. she ends up taking him for granted. and he lets her.
but giving ZERO value to self respect, dignity, hurt, agony of your soulmate and discarding his wish despite the vow of love and life... THIS IS PITS.

no love is better than this callous love.
my opinion.

i will NOT judge those who are looking forward to this track. wished the track and the audience well. repeatedly.
it would help if people (ALL) STOP acting like appointed gazette officers and doling out certificates.
who is true and untrue fan.
who is blind and 'seeing' fan.
who should cheer for the track and who should shut up.

having different opinions is ok.
judging people for having those opinions is NOT.

i AM a SwaSan'ain. i LOVE my Swara Bose/Swara Sanskaar Maheshwari and i love Sanskaar Maheshwari.

but i can't cheer for intense 'love' track if half of my OTP couldn't respect, honour, cherish and CARE for that love.

yes such drama is needed for the story. doesn't mean i have to like it. and doesn't mean i should be judged for my likes and dislikes.

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showrav

@showrav24

Navigator

Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Sanskar simply asked swara that if she loved him once just stand with him this time what a husband can expect from his wife but what she choice we all know i mean u lie to ur husband for which family whose degrade u every time return of ur love ur attention etc for whom who every time insults u & ur relations this is not the first time they did this.

some people talked she will be family less i mean what type of family u talking about those ungrateful very rare creature people who don't know what family is & caused her every pain.If this is called family than we need to change family definition. u can proved ur love one time two time three time but if u need to proved ur love & trust every time i don't think its called love.

I watched a serial since 2007-2008 season where hero gave this dialogue 'tum apna payer ek baar do baar teen baar sabit kar sakteho par agar tumko tumara payar har rose sabit karna parta hai tho main usse payar hi nahi manta.'

& i agree with Nimmi that for swara sanskar come last & for sanskar swara come first & rest later