Why did Sanskaar say what he said?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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This isn't a post to defend either Sanskaar or Swara. Nor is it to list out what happened in their past. I am concentrating only on the scene we had yesterday.
Why did Sanskaar say all that he said yesterday? I can think of two reasons:

1. He believes that Swara knew that daadi would ask for property transfer
2. He has got the divorce papers which daadi had talked of earlier


He believes that Swara knew that daadi would ask for property transfer:

When Sanskaar came into the room he was already angry. He didnt get angry on seeing her pack. He was angry & his first dialogue was "ye sab kya ho raha hai Swara." She said all this is unexpected but then indirectly supported daadi by saying that daadi dil ki buri nahi hai, wo bas apne baccho ki security chahti hai. jo hua galat hua & agar daadi gusse mein na hoti toh main unhe manane ki jaroor koshish karti. And then that sarcastic WOW of his. He says bahot aasani se faisa le liya na tumne. This is when he mentions that ke tum finally ja rahi ho. Later when he is counting her missions he includes : Laksh iss ghar mein wapas aa gaya & Ragini ghar ki malkin ban gayi. Now that your missions are over you are leaving. He goes on to mention that not only her but no one in the house truly cares about his opinions. Maybe he thinks that Swara went to the baadi & fell for daadi & ragini's drama. They convinced her with their crocodile tears that ragini needed protection in that house & the only way she can get it is if she becomes owner of the house. Swara has a history of giving in to ragini's tears & making nonsensical promises when she thinks she is doing something for the greater good.

Please note I am not saying that Sanskaar thinks it was Swara's plan to hand over their property to Ragini in exchange of her security. I think he believes that Swara as usual fell for Ragini's elaborate plan & his family will pay the price for her stupidity while she is leaving for baadi assuming in her naivet that everything is back to normal at MM.


He has got the divorce papers:

Daadi mentioned about the divorce papers in the earlier episode. We even see Ragini burning the divorce papers later. They could be the old ones which Laksh had made or the new ones which daadi made. Maybe Sanskaar got those papers as well. Sanskaar came to talk to Swara about them, hence he was already angry when he entered the room. Then he saw her packing & he burst out. He says bahot aasani se faisa le liya na tumne. This is when he mentions that ke tum finally ja rahi ho. He goes on to enumerate the many times she has been taking decisions of his life without consulting with him first.


But if he did get the papers wouldn't he sign them & hand it over to her when he drops her at baadi?😕 And also why would he mention about her coming back as a possibility if he believes that she wants out.


Somehow I dont believe that yesterday's outburst was only about him thinking that she is leaving. He knows that she will leave one day. He has accepted that. He has zero expectations from her now. I think he is feeling betrayed a second time & hence his reaction.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shruti,

I agree with both your points. I am done defending Sanskaar but I know everything that has been happening around him (credit Swara and Ragini) and with Swara defying one thing that held their relationship together - trust, Sanskaar was completely broken. I would be too in his place and I would not sit and think ki gusse mein ye bolun ya woh karun! That is beyond silly to assume! 🤪

I think it is quite possible that Sanskaar thinks that Swara knew about this property drama and be is angry about it. Though did not Swara stop Dadi when Dadi was talking about it? Because if she did and I remember her Dadi talk to Sanskaar also, she said that this was all wrong. So he did not believe her did he? I still think he was mighty pissed because he felt that when he needed her the most - she was get set to go even without talking to him!

Coming to the divorce point, it is possible that Sanksaar did recieve the papers or heard about divorce plans and he blames Swara for it. Clearly she has never shown any interest in staying with him. Jab man hota hai she leaves and goes and she constantly does her maa baba jaap. It is possible that he MUed something related to divorce - he blamed Swara for not informing him. I only watched SwaSan scene so I cannot comment on anything else that happened.

And as you all are well aware, I am SO freaking happy with Sanskaar the way he acted yesterday - that I have to say, kudos CV, thank you for giving us One real character on the show. :D

Anna
Edited by --Anna-- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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When a person is hurt beyond a reason.. He lashes out without reason..

and Sanskaar lashed out finally. the only sane guy in the entire household getting pounded by all and sundry from all directions and his one.. just ONE comfort zone Swara bailing out on him (be it her 'Let's take divorce every next minute, pack her bags every next day, ask Sanskaar for 101 missions, take him for granted so what if he gives in; and then distrust him and take away the only thing she choose to give him.. Trust and friendship). No wonder the guy had Enough!
He was waiting to blow. and he did. Reasons not withstanding.

I am sorry for Swara though.. but really cant fault Sanskaar this time. It's a miracle he lasted this long without going into pieces.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Edited.

Shruti 🤗
Missed you and Anna alot in the AT yesterday, I'm glad your net's fine and your back with a post.
Okay, so I have been talking about this alot since yesterday and have been patiently explaining my POV to people and I feel like a preacher now 😆 This show is driving me nuts. 🤪
Coming to the post, its 👏. you picked up the points that everybody overlooked in their frenzy. 😆

1. Yes, this seems very possible. At first, I thought Sanskaar was there to talk about what happened with Durga and Ragini, but his dialogue was something else and Swara too misunderstood like many of us and started blabbering about Dadi and the property, which all the more made it seem (to Sanskaar) that she has been brainwashed again, not to forget that she was packing (whatever may be the reason) when he entered the room. This seems quite plausible. And Sanskaar's hasty conclusion was justified, as he had ALOT going on in his mind and has been under emotional trauma since Swara's doubting fiasco.

2. I find this point more possible than the first one, as of now. Especially when you pointed out that Ragini-Laksh got their divorce papers, so quite possible that Sanskaar did too and he had come to the room to talk about it when he saw her packing. (CV's ki mahima, making the timing so perfect 🤢😆 ) And many wondered that if this is the reason, why would Sanskaar be mad at her for sending him divorce papers?Wasn't it expected by now, what with her obsession with divorce? (😕)
But no, after all that happened between them, especially off late and with the current scenario in the mansion, If Sanskaar did get the divorce papers, who wouldn't be taken aback? Anybody would and in his current state of mind, he was too. And then what followed once he saw her packing is history. 😆 Every word was justified, I wanted to hug him for telling her all that, As notwithstanding how bad I felt for her (and i did feel terrible), She needed this. Or you never know with her, she would have gone ahead and taken him for granted again someday. She'll think 10 times before doing it now.
And yeah maybe the reason behind Sanskaar not giving her the papers while dropping her is because he's still in shock. I'm sure he didn't sign them yet and if he had received them, he was coming to the room to discuss the issue with Swara, so it's obvious he didn't sign them yet. And then he saw her bag and thought that as always she is thinking only of herself and her family (Again, cant blame him here as that IS what she always did in the past) and he let out all his pent up emotions and the divorce papers or any other issue was all but forgotten in the tirade.

Okay so in conclusion, I want it to be the second point. It seems more real than the first one, IMO.
Also, Many are crying and complaining about the episode, but what happened was the last nail. This Is it, the incident that'll finally push their just friend days behind them.
So little pain taken up for great victories is all worth in the end. 😳

PS - This show and SwaSan have made me great at bhashans. 😛 I seriously feel like a preacher now. 😲😆

Edited by .FairyDust. - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Completely agree with you , him bursting out on swara was just not abt their relationship but a lot of things that have been happening in his family !As he said sab apni manmani karte hai as if his opinions dont matter ! And one person he thought would care abt his opinion is also doing her manmani !
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Interesting take.. I didn't think this.. 😳

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Unreserving...

Shruti..awesome post yaara...

I dont know what to say more... 😆😆😆
Ok point 1... Its very much possible that Sanskaar thinks that Swara has once again fallen into Ragini's trap and now she is leaving him when he needed her the most to support his faimly... And her defending of Dadi .. just made the situation much worse...

You know na.. I am one inclined on this one... 😛😛 His dialogues were such that... made me think this...His mentioning of "faisla" time and again keep on pinging in my brain ...there is definitely more to it then the situation seems so... or our minds have finally lost it 😆😆

About why he didn't signed paper then and there... Like I told ya before... he at first must have wanted to confirm it from Swara. And when he saw her packing bags... he came to conclusion that she is definitely leaving... I do think she was leaving or atleast planning to because her dialogues were... "Sanskaar agar tum nahi chahte toh main" and you know the rest... and then he was taking her to badi... also he did gave her time to think about it na as he gave her a if you want to return option so maybe thats why... 😕😆
Edited by Lavender_Love - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Exactly, him bursting out on Swara is only due to family drama which has been happening ever since these two sisters have entered MM. Every time Swara uses Sanskaar for her missions even though he joins in only because he wants to support Swara. But, he expects something in return like having trust on him... which Swara destroyed by suspecting him a the kidnapper.
A man can only tolerated so much crap that he can handle and finally Sanskaar burst out his frustrations on Swara. Which, was totally justified and needed to be said. However, Swara needed to understand that you can't use people for her missions which she admitted before. But, i do feel sorry for as Sanskaar never let Swara finish her sentence. If he did then he would still have all these feelings bottled up.

Awesome post
Edited by kompass - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shruti,
hope aisa hi ho re... lets see what CVs show

good points dear
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shruthi ,seems like Sanskaar's words really had an impact on you ? 😆
I think Sanskaar said all this because of anger . Lots of things happened in his life which he doesn't have control and the thought that Swara leaving him was the final nail in the coffin and there he lost the temper . Swara never gave him hope that she will give a chance to their relationship ,moreover she always declared that she is staying in MM in order to save Ragini's marital life and can we blame Sanskaar for believing that Swara is leaving him cause her mission is over ?
The divorce paper in Ragini's room might be the paper signed by Laksh after the revelation of her truth and he was always dreaming for freedom from Ragini , and he kept it safely in cupboard to use it when situation is favourable.

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