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teju baba phirse hazir hain apne manhusiat wale predictions leke- yeh shaadi kabhie nahi honewali. AP's cringe worthy and really over the top prejudices was the proof i needed. she said sab bhagwaan par chorti hoon, she gave ragini aashirwad but didn't give aashirwad to swara. she's the mother, her wish will come true. bride swap or however it happens, it'll be ragya marriage guys and she will push laksh endlessly to give all patni ka haq to Ragini. I'm 100% sure. Instead of going the much more entertaining route of showing swara win her over and kill her prejudices as Laksh's wife, we'll instead get Laksh being pushed and won by Ragini with AP's support. It was so sad, i thought she understood her beta. she was all wanting swara when Laksh was miserable without her, even pushing DP, then what happened? Its SO sad that she turned out to be such a disappointment. it makes me sad that Swara must get the backhand of everything- the bad husband (who drugs her over and over) for whom she's just a means to revenge and the bad in-laws (RP and Sujata are pretty much the pit bottom of hell) whilst a colossal psychopath like Ragini who can't even love her own sister gets the perfect saas and the guy she is infatuated with. Why?!? All because she's of a mixed heritage and her parents weren't married when she was born?!? Today's AP's attitude made me really sad. If your unhappy, have the guts to voice it. Swara would gladly back out, then see if you can convince your son for a perfect marwari bahu. But atleast don't pretend to accept something and then disrespect a girl's dreams and her family. She didn't even raise her hand to give Swara aashirwad. This is the same girl for whom you guys still have an iota of respect left in society. the respect that Ragini and Sanskaar's plan almost smoked to dust. AP who has always been shown as a level-headed woman is so awful now. You say you have no personal issues with Swara, you like her as a person, then atleast give her your aashirwad as a good person. She didn't even raise her hand. Even if Ragini was not crazy, just from a normal POV, what quality does she have as a person that Swara doesn't possess other? Pooja path, eating habits, clothing style: all can be learnt, but caring for everyones wellbeing, protecting and raising your voice for those you care about, doing something because its right even when you get nothing in return, encouraging your partner to stay on the right path, being his strength in his time of weakness, sacrificing your own selfish qualms for his family and their collective wellbeing- these are not qualities you can learn. As much as I sometimes dislike Swara's over involvement in things and her self-righteousness, but one can't deny that she's always been the better candidate for a wife for Laksh, a person who needs that philosopher in his life cos he's often impulsive and easily confused, she's the principled voice that makes Lucky into Laksh, the strengthened roar that builds his confidence and the drive behind his focus. But now, we've seen that she's a good family girl as well, cos she puts his family above all, despite the constant no short of crude behavior she's received from them. She's proved that she knows how to put her own AND Laksh's selfish impulses under control for the greater good of the family and she knows how to fight for her family. She's the modern tulsi and parvati minus the judginess of other people's lifestyles. but NOW, I want her to be flawed, I want her to fight for HER and those who are HERS' happiness. Instead of sacrificing I want her to level with AP and prove her WRONG, show her that guna doesn't come from clothes and rituals and ethnicity; it comes from the heart and soul of a person, from who they are and who they strive to be. when push came to shove no amount of saree, salwar suit or pooja paath of AP's could save her husband's pagri. It was the determination of a skirt wearing bengalan with no possession of the marwari gunas AP keeps touting Ragini for, that put the pagree back on her husband's head. infact, Swara's biggest flaw (according to AP standard) in her upbringing is her action versus Ragini's inaction (when she wasn't cray) that saved their skins that day. its sad that AP won't be making that journey with Swara, it would've been worth the watch.
PS just a prediction, idk whats gonna happen but just thought to share my views on the current scene and how i wish to see it come full circle rather than prove that the mother is always right and her wish should be your command. if bade always knew the right way, there would be no innovation or progress. its about leveling with them, taking a step back so you can both take two steps forward. Thats what i wanna see in swara-AP. Prejudice atleast shouldn't win.
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