A question?

Originally posted by: drummedup

That precap looked ridiculous. What exactly is Pankaj challenging here?It would've made sense if he asked her to cook for family for a month or so than sit around n give orders or treat all Bahus with equal responsibilities, duties n fairness(no pun intended😆)... Maybe we'll get a better picture tomorrow of his intentions...

But as a responsible father who is worried for his daughter... shouldn't Pankaj ask Dadi to let Suhani work? Which ever way this relation may go in future... but being financially independent would boost some spine in Suhani too, isn't it? I did not like his ' I'll look after my daughters as long as I'm alive' thing from him... What after him then?

As for Bhavna, she really has it bad... on one hand is Sharad who doesn't seem to have a stable job on other hand now she is at his dad's indefinitely with her infant... Why did they not explore the angle of financial insecurity on her part in both instances? Now that they've Lata to look after Golu...even she can work if she wants.

I know both of them think they'll eventually go back to BH... but Suhani at least has a hubby working and who is also a heir of family business... The way Sharad is treated ... Bhavna is not secure even if she goes back to BH. And there has been no trace of Sharad's 'looking for job' for months on now, ever since his marriage actually😆

I don't get why they ignore stuff like this and concentrate on Amla oils and RagMen's make up nonsense...😕

@du Exactly babe... The precap was confusing but more comments on it after tomorrows episode, don't want to presume . Maybe the CVs will have a logical explanation for that...

Ditto, ditto, arch and du. I just ranted on the shallowness of what they're showing, so I won't go into it again. I don't want to rain on everyone's parade, but neither can I pretend satisfaction with where this seems to be going. If there were even a hint that the cvs intend to show more than facile stuff, I would be okay with watching Yuvraj-Suhani being cute and even tolerate Dadi kaand. But already they are stripping Pankaj's righteous justification for some rather mind-boggling insistence on BQ walking in Suhani's shoes by way of beauty products!!! I mean, really!

I KNOW!! What is this ''I can support my daughters'' crap? But of course, they think they will be going back to BH and their job will be being dutiful bahus, no matter what has been said or done, even to their father. That is galling as hell. In fact, when BQ agreed to go bring them after that aborted ''party'' for her friends, what I thought was: Ha! She just wants them back so they can cook and do bahugiri. If Suhani and/orBhavna had been there, they would have cooked about 15 dishes and been appropriately slavish in catering to the snobby guests.

Sharad marrying Bhavna I screamed at at the time because he is faltu and seems not to care that he's vilified and insulted and has no status in BH, which automatically translates to Bhavna too. And Bhavna never has tried to ask him why he doesn't work (unless he too is a part time Birla Industries employee) or question the fact that he, she and Golu live off BQ.

Yuvraj doesn't get it at all, does he? He said Pankaj was right, by which I presume he meant he agrees Suhani has been treated badly, but instead of focusing on that, he is acting like the only thing to do is get the woman who is mainly responsible for that to bring her back. Eh? I'd call that selfish and meglomaniacal, the latter because of his statement to Pratima that she is happy with him. But then again, seeing Suhani's behaviour and reactions, I think that she deserves no better, so what the heck.